Dai Jun has many identities, the most well-known of which is his host, in fact, by the time he was 25 years old, he was already popular all over the country as a singer.
A song called "Ah Lian" has a high reputation at home and abroad, and CCTV even rated it as a "95 golden song". However, as the song became popular, Dai Jun faced many challenges and problems.
For example, in every performance, he insisted on singing the song, repeating it many times until he felt like vomiting. In addition, during that period, he was often bullied due to a lack of background support, and this was the first time he received attention, but what Dai Jun experienced was endless pain and suffering.
Therefore, when Dai Jun had just climbed to the top of his career, he began to have thoughts of retreating. In order to express this wish, he specially wrote a letter to his mother, expressing his determination to quit the ** world. However, instead of responding immediately, the mother shared a new message that she had ushered in her own spring and that a man was pursuing her.
Dai Jun suddenly became still, and for some reason, his mentality quickly changed, and he no longer mentioned the idea of quitting the circle in front of his mother.
Although he released a new **, the sales data dealt a heavy blow to Dai Jun.
After all kinds of hesitations and contradictions, Dai Jun finally chose to change careers. Prior to this, he was also involved in a legal dispute with Xiyangyang Records.
After all the things are done, Dai Jun is very different from the previous version, but in her songs, the girl named "Ah Lian" seems to be hidden deep in her heart.
In 2001, Dai Jun co-hosted the TV show "Super Interview" with Li Jing. In the show, a singer faces the camera and asks all kinds of questions to the guests, as if stepping into a completely different world.
In fact, Li Jing experienced the same situation at that time. Since she resigned from CCTV, she started her own entrepreneurial path and endured huge psychological pressure and hardships in life. During that time, she and Dai Jun were mutually dependent and supportive, so the friendship between them was extraordinarily deep, and it can be said that the relationship between lovers has not yet been satisfied, but the friendship has reached a new height.
However, many people do not know about this, and have mistakenly thought that they are in love, and have sent blessings and urged marriage. But when Li Jing and Huang Xiaomao entered the palace of marriage, everyone realized that they were actually just friends.
Despite this, Dai Jun has not had any emotional fluctuations in the past many years, and there have not even been any scandals.
Later, in a TV show, Dai Jun shared his emotional journey. At that time, he was still a junior high school student, and his parents were farmers. When he was younger, he worked in Shenzhen, where he met his first love, a girl with long hair and a gentle and cute personality.
This memory is the most tender in Dai Jun's life, but unfortunately, due to some practical factors, they finally chose to break up, despite this, the two still maintained a close relationship for many years.
Until the girl met another boy, Dai Jun chose to take the initiative to cut off the relationship with the girl, and since then, that deep regret has lasted in Dai Jun's heart for a long time and is difficult to recover.
Since then, Dai Jun has not mentioned any relationship problems, perhaps because he can't forget his first love, or because he has not yet found a suitable partner. When he turned 40, his mother could not stand the situation and urged him to marry every day.
Although Dai Jun responded on the surface, he was actually unmoved. His mother arranged many blind dates for him, but Dai Jun either responded perfunctorily or chose not to participate directly, which is why his many blind dates were unsuccessful.
Seeing Dai Jun behaving so indifferently, his mother was slightly displeased, so she issued an order that he must bring back a daughter-in-law before the age of 45.
However, Dai Jun is now 53 years old and still single, and his mother is also difficult to let go. At this age, she no longer has too many expectations, and only hopes that Dai Jun can live a happy life. As for marriage, if there is no better option, then that's it.
Now, Dai Jun still frequently appears in front of the TV screen, and although he looks young in his clothes and dress, the wrinkles on his face are still noticeable, and gray hair has begun to appear on his head, showing his old age.
When Dai Jun is mentioned, most people are speculating about why he didn't choose to get married. But for this, Dai Jun does not want to go deeper. He believes that life should be experienced by himself, whether it is happiness or loneliness, which is given to him by his life, and he should face and accept it calmly.
Occasionally, when he participates in some ** programs, guests will invite him to sing "Ah Lian". When he softly sang this song describing youth, his eyes were filled with a faint sadness, and he didn't know what was going on in his mind.