Have you ever been very obsessed with liking someone?
I can't count how many times I think about him a day, and I can't count how many times I feel sorry for him, knowing that the result of persevering like this will only bring disappointment again and again, but I still refuse to give up.
The reason why they are reluctant to let go is because there have been too many good memories between the two, those lonely times, warming each other and encouraging each other to move forward. On those days when you can't see the light, the other party is like a warm sun enveloping you, bringing you hope and warmth.
His existence makes you suddenly find meaning in your ordinary life, because of him, you begin to become soft and sensual, and because of him, you slowly understand love.
I thought I could always be by his side, my eyes followed him, my heart rose and fell with him, as if the whole world was just you and him.
But sadly, you can't be together anymore as you used to.
It's just that love is a thing, how can it be fair, even if he is gone, your heart is still stubbornly stuck in place, motionless.
It's like sometimes, I understand the truth, but my heart says no. I know that I don't love anymore, but I'm still waiting stupidly;I knew that I would be hurt, but I was still stupidly giving in, like falling into an endless nightmare.
The only way to end this nightmare once and for all is to force yourself to leave, or let time consume all your love for him.
Love does not mean that you have to be together, and holding hands does not mean that it will last long.
Whether you are destined to part or decide to separate, please leave lightly, then exit gracefully, and send good wishes to each other before doing so.
Always stay awake, the other party is a living person, the other party has its own pursuits and requirements, if you can't meet the other party, then your own pay is a burden to the other party, even torture.
If the other party proposes to break up, don't try to redeem it, let alone entangle it. Leave a sentence to the other party: think twice, based on my love for you, I still respect your decision, in the days to come, without me, please take care of yourself. Then turn around indifferently, maybe the other party can still think about his good at some point.
In this way, the other party will be clean and he will be generous.
The most pointless thing is stalking, which has neither dignity nor grace.
Realize that you are also a human being, and that there is no one in this world who is meaningless because of having another person, or meaningless because of losing another person.
We also have our own pursuits and requirements, even if we have wounds in our hearts, then we need to heal ourselves, not through another person to prove.
People who need someone else to prove their meaning are extremely pathetic. It's like a person crossing the street staring at his phone, pinning his fate on others to see him and dodging.
So, when it's time for everything to end, then calmly watch it all end, watch the other person leave with blessings, bless the other person and yourself, and then start a new journey.
I used to listen to Lin Youjia's waste, and I was most distressed by the lyrics in it: It's okay, you don't have to give me a chance, anyway, I still have a life to waste.
Once upon a time, as long as there was one person who could make me love with my heart and lungs. But now, I don't want to waste it anymore.
In this world, some people fall out of love, some people can't love, we have all struggled, worked hard, hit the south wall, and also had the empty joy of a dream.
I love you, but that's all it takes.