Three months ago, Xiaokun and I finally chose a wedding room, located on the outskirts of the city, with a beautiful environment and enough space. If the child comes in the future, it is also very spacious. The house is still under renovation and is expected to be ready to move in in another month. Yesterday, the two of us just went to get the marriage certificate, and we went to buy a dress and book a hotel to hold a lively wedding.
What?Live with us?Aren't they the house in their hometown that hasn't been sold yet, why are they moving here?I was surprised and said, "Our new house is not very big, so we can't live in it." ”
Xiao Kun also looked helpless: "My parents said that they could save going back and forth, just in time for us to get married, so they moved in directly with us, and said that it would be good to save a sum of alimony and take care of each other." ”
But, but we're not married yet, so it's too inconvenient to live with your parents, right?"I'm a little shy.
As I said, I rented a house before I sold my hometown. Who knew that my mom had to move over, and my dad said it would be easier. Xiao Kun said embarrassedly.
I was almost sad: "Oh my God, how can we ensure privacy in the future?"The cave room is not convenient!”
Xiao Kun hurriedly comforted me: "Don't worry, you also know my parents' temper, I will talk to them again." After all, we are married, so we must have our own living space. ”
Two days later, Xiao Kun said to me apologetically: "I told my parents about your concerns, but they insisted on coming and staying for a while, and said they could help us with the housework." I can't be tough again, so you can promise to try it first, and if it really doesn't work, I promise to find a way again. ”
My parents-in-law quickly disposed of the old house and showed up in our newlywed room with large bags and small bags. As soon as she entered the door, her mother-in-law looked up and down, muttering, "The money we Xiaokun earns is still okay, and the house is well decorated." Xiao Kun and I looked at each other in embarrassment.
Then my mother-in-law began to point fingers, from the placement of kitchen utensils to the layout of the living room, which was not pleasing to the eye everywhere, and we had to change it. I couldn't bear it anymore, so I pulled Xiao Kun to the bedroom and said, "Oh my God, your mother-in-law is starting to take care of everything, it's so uncomfortable!."”
Xiao Kun advised me, "They are elders, it's normal to give some advice", I glared at him, "Normal ghost!."This is our home, not hers!”
Not to mention the Xi of life, his in-laws often pester Xiaokun to ask him for money!In the first month or two of moving here, my mother-in-law asked Xiaokun for 50,000 yuan, saying that she would renovate her hometown house and then sublet it out. Later, I heard Xiao Kun say that the 50,000 yuan didn't know if it had been renovated, but it helped the two brothers and sisters buy a new car!
I was so angry that I immediately went to find Xiao Kun Theory. Xiao Kun also wanted to help his parents speak, but I immediately interrupted him: "My in-laws are really too much!."It's okay to ask you for money, it's just my son's ATM!I don't think they treat you as a son at all, just for the money!”
Did they ever treat you like a son?I asked, "It's clear that you're trying to earn money for your retirement!"I think in the future, will you support the second elder or support me in the main room?”
Xiao Kun was speechless for a while, and he saw that we were about to quarrel. At this time, the mother-in-law called Xiao Kun outside the door and asked him to transfer another 50,000 yuan to his brother to do business.
I couldn't help but shout: "My in-laws are too in-law!".We just got married and bought a house for 50 years, and you have nothing to do with Xiao Kun to ask for money, and you don't consider his feelings at all!I don't think this kind of parent deserves it!”
Xiao Kun and I had a big fight over this. Xiao Kun also wanted to explain, I went directly back to the room to pack my luggage, and insisted on running away from home to teach him a lesson.
Xiao Kun hurriedly grabbed me, softened his tone and begged me: "Don't be like this, I can't face the entanglement of my parents when you leave, let's calm down, okay?"”
I stopped on the condition that Xiao Kun must refuse his parents' unreasonable demands head-on.
After that, I cold-handled my in-laws for a month. Xiao Kun had no choice but to give him a small amount to do business. I saw that Xiao Kun was embarrassed, and my heart softened, and I took the initiative to talk to him about it, but my attitude was still very resolute. I said, "They're lucky this time, not the next one!."It's not easy for you to make money on your own, and they can't use you as an ATM. ”
Xiao Kun finally made up his mind to talk to his parents.
I saw Xiao Kun's embarrassed appearance, and took the initiative to speak: "Mother-in-law, use my savings to pay for this operation first, you go through the procedures quickly." ”
Xiao Kun looked at me gratefully, and then went to the hospital with the doctor.
A few days later I went to visit my mother-in-law and she was already recovering from the surgery. Maybe it's because of my illness, my mother-in-law's attitude is much better than before, and she welcomes me with a smile and no longer nags. I also enlightened her not to keep asking Xiaokun for money in the future. She nodded and said that when she got better, she would settle the living expenses by herself.
I held his hand and comforted him: "You don't have to blame yourself, it's normal to have an old man." We young people should also bear some pressure on life. ”
Just when my relationship with Xiao Kun finally eased somewhat, one day, I overheard my in-laws discussing selling their last property to pay for my mother-in-law's medical bills.
I was terrified and ran over to stop them: "You can't sell the house!"Housing prices are now at a low point, and it will cost you a lot to sell them!"My mother-in-law also had red circles under my eyes, and my mother-in-law said that she was in a hurry to go to the doctor, but there was really no way.
I decided to help them: "Don't sell the house, Xiaokun and I will find a way." There are 20,000 left in the medical bills, right?I still have some savings here, so I'll help you advance it first, and then I'll go to the bank to pay in installments!”
After that, I went to ask Xiao Kun to go to the hospital with me and discussed with the doctor how I could pay the fee in installments. The doctor understood our situation and proposed to raise funds through online crowdfunding.
Our husband and wife carried out online and offline publicity of her mother-in-law's illness at the same time, and launched a fundraiser in the circle of friends. At the same time, I also took the initiative to contact many relatives and friends, and some of them enthusiastically donated money for my mother-in-law. Finally, after more than a month of traveling, we were able to raise enough money to pay for the medical bills.
During this period, my relationship with my in-laws eased significantly. My mother-in-law always talks to me with a smile, and my father-in-law doesn't litter cigarette butts anymore. I found out that they can also be very gentle and considerate.