In the Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu bought a smile, but he lost to Qingwen who tore the fan. Although Qingwen seems to be victorious, she actually loses completely. Qingwen is Jia Baoyu's girl, her personality is strong and straightforward, and she likes to be outspoken. The reason she tore the fan was because Baoyu said something that displeased her. Qingwen's tearing fan sparked a series of arguments and conflicts, which eventually led to her being kicked out of the Grand View Garden and dying soon after.
In the process of tearing the fan, Jia Baoyu and Qingwen's interaction not only shows their intimate relationship, but also reveals the difference in their personalities. While tearing the fan, Baoyu smiled and encouraged Qingwen to continue tearing the fan. He felt that tearing the fan was not important, it was just a loan, and it was not worth mentioning. Qingwen, on the other hand, thought that by tearing the fan, she would be able to express her dissatisfaction and anger, and get Baoyu's attention and attention. However, Qingwen only sees the superficial victory, but does not realize the consequences of her actions.
Tearing the fan not only caused dissatisfaction among Baoyu's family, but was also interpreted as an act of wasting things in the eyes of others. Although Baoyu seems to have a smile, in the eyes of others, Qingwen's behavior is rampant and arrogant, and she does not know how to respect and etiquette. Qingwen's tearing fan once again let people see her pampered and arrogant side, destroying her image and status.
Qingwen's ending is also very tragic. After she was kicked out of the Grand View Garden, she died shortly after. Although she has always been favored by Baoyu in the Grand View Garden, she has also been jealous and ostracized by other mothers-in-law. Qingwen's death once again illustrates a truth, that is, everything must be done in moderation, and excessive pampering will only bring unfortunate endings.
To sum up, Jia Baoyu bought a smile, but lost to Qingwen who tore the fan. In "Dream of Red Mansions", the character who tears the fan is Qingwen. Jia Baoyu spared no expense to buy a smile for her. Qingwen tore the fan and seemed to win, but in fact she lost completely. Qingwen is Jia Baoyu's girl, although she is a subordinate, she dresses better than an ordinary official lady. She has two long red nails, a strong and straightforward personality, likes to go straight, prefers to be unbending, has a short temper, and often reprimands little girls. She is beautiful, simple, enthusiastic, lively, and good at needlework, which is deeply liked by Jia Baoyu. It was precisely because Baoyu loved her that she was pampered and arrogant, and staged a scene of tearing a fan.
The reason why Qingwen tore the fan was because Baoyu said something that displeased her. Baoyu smiled and encouraged Qingwen in the process of tearing the fan, asking her to continue tearing the fan. Baoyu thinks that tearing the fan is just a loan, which is not a big deal, but Qingwen thinks that by tearing the fan, she can express her dissatisfaction and anger, and get Baoyu's attention and attention. However, Qingwen is not aware of the consequences of her actions, she only sees the superficial victory, but does not see the destruction of her image and status.
Qingwen's tearing fan sparked a series of arguments and conflicts, which eventually led to her being kicked out of the Grand View Garden and dying soon after. Her tearing fan deprived her of the opportunity to be pampered by Baoyu, and also destroyed her image and status. Qingwen's ending tells people that everything must be done in moderation In "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu bought a smile, but lost to Qingwen who tore a fan. Tearing the fan is Qingwen's move to vent her emotions after being dissatisfied with Baoyu's words. Although Qingwen expressed her emotions by tearing the fan, this act triggered a series of consequences.
For Baoyu, he didn't care about the value of the fan, and he didn't regard the act of tearing the fan as an act of ruining things. He even smiled at Qingwen's tearing fan, on the one hand, to comfort Qingwen, and on the other hand, to relieve his anger. He thinks that tearing a fan is just a way to vent his emotions by borrowing things, and it is not a big deal.
However, Qingwen has a very different view of tearing the fan. For her, tearing the fan is a way to express her emotions, and it is also a way for her to gain Baoyu's attention and attention. She hoped that Baoyu would realize her dissatisfaction and anger through her fan-tearing behavior. However, Qingwen only sees the superficial victory, but does not realize the consequences of her actions.
Qingwen's fan-tearing behavior was not recognized by Baoyu's family, but was interpreted as a rampant act that did not understand the etiquette of respect and humility. This behavior not only destroyed Qingwen's image and status, but also made her lose Baoyu's attention and favor even more. Eventually, Qingwen was kicked out of the Grand View Garden and died shortly after.
In general, Jia Baoyu bought a smile, but he lost to Qingwen, who tore the fan. Qingwen expresses her emotions and dissatisfaction by tearing the fan, but does not realize the consequences of this behavior. Her fan-tearing behavior not only destroyed her image and status, but also made her lose Baoyu's attention and favor. This incident once again illustrates that everything must be done in moderation, and that excessive pampering will only lead to unfortunate endings.