How important is the marriage event?Parents know this very well.
It is said that "men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." "Marriage is like a second reincarnation in life.
Love the right person, a happy life, parents enjoy a family, love the wrong person, chickens and dogs jump, the house is restless, and the parents are difficult to sleep.
If you want to have a happy marriage, you must remember this wisdom of the ancestors - "Men don't marry three, women don't marry two". Click on a collection and send it to the people you care about the most to read it slowly.
1. Greedy girl
Everyone wants a rich life, but if material things are the only criterion, then such people can often only share sweetness and cannot share suffering.
As the Book of Changes says:Don't use to take women, see the golden husband, there is no bow, there is no profit.
People who only have economic conditions in their eyes, most of them have no true feelings, when you are rich and rich, she spends lavishly, and when you encounter difficulties, she still covets enjoyment, and may not hesitate to go to richer people.
Unfilial daughter
The kindness of parents is as deep as the sea, and filial piety comes first.
If a person is not filial or grateful to even his own parents, do you expect her to be genuinely good to you and your parents?
At that time, not only will the elders not be able to enjoy happiness, but they will also be unable to teach their children by word and deed, resulting in a corrupt family style, scattering people, and scattering sand.
The Book of Filial Piety: The journey of a person is nothing greater than filial piety.
Loving our parents and respecting our elders is the most basic criterion for us to make friends. It's a pity that too many people are always too polite to strangers and too harsh to their families.
Stingy girl
It is said that marrying a wife and marrying a virtuous person, but the so-called virtuous is not the same as being stingy.
Many old people are too diligent and thrifty and are reluctant to do anything for themselves. Some netizens said that in order to save two bites of bad overnight leftovers, the parents became unwell and spent thousands of dollars in the hospital.
Shangshu has clouds:Be diligent in the state and thrifty at home.
Although diligence and thrift are good virtues, they are also a manifestation of good housekeeping, but everything has a degree and cannot put the cart before the horse.
Living and living, taking care of the family, maintaining human relations, investing in yourself, spending when you should spend, taking a long-term view, and not worrying, in order to live a sound life.
1, Ma Bao Nan
Although you have to listen to your mother, if a man only listens to his mother, then you have to be careful.
The so-called: marry a man without marrying a mother, marry a wife without marrying a brother.
It's not that they're bad, it's easyThere is no clear understanding of the marital relationship and the relationship between husband and wife
is like Ma Baonan, who does not realize that marriage is a small family of two people, but will obey his parents as before.
Once there is friction between the wife and her parents, no matter who is right and who is wrong, she will make the wife unconditionally back down and completely center on her own parents.
Entering such a family, no matter how much you give, no matter how gentle you are, you will not get the corresponding love, but you will always be like an outsider.
Domestic violence man
Marrying the wrong person is just sad, but marrying a domestic violence man can be fatal.
Don't Talk to Strangers", the male protagonist is the shadow of many people's childhood.
Domestic violence, like cheating, has never been 0 and countless times.
Men who like to use violence to solve problems not only lack conscience, often have mental control "in the name of love", but also love to go to extremes.
When encountering problems, it is difficult to stay calm, and I dare not vent to the outside world, so I can only vent my malice towards the world on my dearest wife.
Even if you kneel down and cry and confess later, it is only a temporary disguise, and you will repeat the same mistake next time.
I wish to win the hearts of one person, and the white heads are inseparable.
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