Introduction: In the work "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu always has a deep love and understanding for Baoyu, and he does his best to block the rain for the girls around him, and gives meticulous care, especially for Daiyu, his concern is even deeper to the extreme.
However, for some unknown reason, after the eighty-first episode, Jia Baoyu's opinion of Daiyu changed unexpectedly. Instead of helping Daiyu alleviate her inner troubles, this may create more chaos for Daiyu, thereby increasing her psychological pressure.
Moreover, as you continue to read, you will become more and more confused, isn't this the "confidant brother" who can deeply perceive people's hearts and be compassionate in the first 80 episodes?His warm masculinity ** come?His warm manly feelings are gone
1: Jia Yingchun's marriage suffered an unhappiness, and Jia Baoyu's heart was full of pain and anger.
In the eighty-first chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions", "Zhan Wangxiang Simei Fishing Swimming Fish Fengyan Words Twice Entering the Family School", he describes the experience of being abused and oppressed by her husband Sun Shaozu after her marriage.
When Yingchun returned to her mother's home, she told Madame Wang about her misadventure. said that she was a "three-no-woman", with no money, no power, and no love. While comforting her emotions, Mrs. Wang also shed tears with her, but she could only helplessly let Yingchun continue to "look forward".
What Mrs. Wang wants to express is that the young couple has just entered the palace of marriage, and it is difficult to maintain the status quo due to the unfamiliarity with each other. So when starting to get along, she is always careful to find herself a suitable partner. When the "run-in period" is over, once you understand each other's personalities, you will get better. But I don't think that's enough, because she's still in the "run-in period".After the child was born, she realized that she was much older than him. When my uncle has a child in the future, he will definitely become more mature, and by that time things will get better.
is like "Ermutou", but at this moment she has become talkative, and she keeps narrating her experience. "Did I say that?Baoyu witnessed this scene by chance, and after listening to his words, his heart was full of pain and shame. In fact, when a girl gets married, if she meets an unsuitable partner, she may feel that she is living more painfully than dying
The second sister was originally a person who was easily wronged, but now she has become a chattering complaining woman. Who is it?If it's not really unbearable, why is this happening?
Logically speaking, Daiyu is undoubtedly the person who is most psychologically shocked and stressed after learning about this situation. Daiyu is naturally emotional and easy to get hurt, and after listening to the experience of welcoming spring, she is more likely to have the emotion of "things hurt their kind, rabbits die and foxes are sad".
Yingchun's parents are still alive, and she herself came here alone. The old lady is still alive, but if the old lady is not there, who should she confide in if she suffers injustice in the future?That's what she wants to say. Sister Yingchun has at least one maiden family to confide in her, but surprisingly, she herself doesn't even have a loved one to confide in her.
According to Baoyu's understanding of Daiyu, Daiyu will definitely have the same idea. Therefore, whenever this happens, Baoyu will always try not to let Daiyu know so that she does not fall into the predicament of sadness and self-evaluation again.
However, in this chapter, Jia Baoyu seems to have become a different person, not considering Daiyu's emotions at all, but taking the initiative to go to Xiaoxiang Pavilion to release his emotions.
Shockingly, Baoyu burst into tears as soon as she stepped through the door and sat at the table crying loudly. Let's start by skimming through a piece of original text:
Daiyu asked suspiciously, "Why are you so sad?"Baoyu replied: "I only hope that we can all die soon, this kind of life is really not that interesting." Daiyu was even more shocked when she heard this, and asked, "What's going on, have you really lost your mind?"
Daiyu was born with a disease of "congenital deficiency", and she began taking medication from the moment she learned to eat, fearing that her beauty would not last long. Baoyu knows that Daiyu's physique is weak, so he will not easily talk about life and death in front of her, only Daiyu will easily say, "Dead and alive." Now, the situation has turned completely upside down. Instead, Baoyu walked up to Daiyu and proposed, "It's better to die early." ”
At this moment, Baoyu seems to have completely lost his kindness and ability to understand othersHow could she behave like this?It seems that he came intentionally to make Lin Daiyu feel sad. You release your negativity and have nowhere to cry?You can completely share your emotions with Tanchun, because you are brothers and sisters, living in a similar environment, and you can feel each other's emotions more deeply, so as to resonate. But how do you vent?Why do you want to go to Daiyu, who has lost her parents since childhood, and cry to her, what is the meaning behind this?Do you think she's too pitiful and bitter?Is it because you don't feel like she's sad and desolate enough?
2: The image of the Baoyu man has collapsed and become unrecognizable".
Let's revisit the original text, in what ways Baoyu differs from his previous personality:
Baoyu said: "It's not that I've lost my mind, I'm going to tell you, you can't help but feel sad. You have also heard and seen the scene of the second sister of the former son and the words she said. I'm wondering, when a person grows up, why do they choose to get married?After getting married, she will suffer so much. I remember when we were in'Begonia Society'When it was founded, everyone was chanting and being the host, and the atmosphere was so lively at that time. But now Sister Bao's home is gone, and even Xiangling can't come over. The second sister ran away from home again, and several people who really understood her mind were not in the same place, which caused such a situation. I originally planned to inform the old lady to take the second sister back, but the wife disagreed, and instead said that I was stupid and confused, and I didn't dare to speak. Now, if you look at the scenery in the garden, it has changed a lot. If a few years later.
Jia Baoyu is undoubtedly a person who "has the beauty of the world in his heart", and even in front of Daiyu, he does not hide his emotions. He's thinking a lot!What he was thinking about was not only about the second sister, but also about the story of Sister Bao and Xiangling. When Xiangling went home to reunite with her husband, she naturally couldn't come to accompany him, which was something he had to consider
What he wanted to express was: Even if Xiangling has a husband who can't participate, Sister Bao should come and live with us. He's saying what he means. The core vocabulary is "a few people who know their hearts and minds". This keyword is problematic. There is no mention of Yingchun here, because Yingchun herself is not good at writing poetry, and she is not a fellow traveler with Baochai and Daiyu Baoyu, let alone a person who "knows her heart and mind".
It is clear that in Baoyu's description, "a few confidant people" are Baochai, Xiangling, and Daiyu. In other words, at this moment, Baoyu already sees Baochai as his confidant and confidant. I'm really wondering, does this really match Baoyu's consistent personality and ambitions?
In the depths of Baoyu's heart, only Daiyu is his true confidant. I don't know if you can still recall what he said to Raider and Xiangyun before. He described Baochai as a "beetle" and thought she was too vulgarDaiyu will never say those "untruths of officialdom economics" like Baochai.
The current situation is, how does Baoyu see Baochai as a "knowing the heart and mind" of the figure?That's a big problem!It seems to be a rhythm of shifting feelings. He is a man whose heart is "higher than the sky", and his mind is always not easy for others to detect. Perhaps, he also hopes to be able to enjoy the happy time with others
It's no wonder that Eileen Chang commented that "Dream of Red Mansions" has become less attractive after 80 episodes, the characters in it are no longer so likable, and everyone's appearance has become unpleasant. At this moment, Baoyu is no longer what he used to be, and although his appearance is still Baoyu's, his soul has changed dramatically."