Why doesn't Baoyu want Baochai?The reason can be seen from this sentence: "Baoyu is evil persuasion, this is the first major disease." ”
This is the twenty-first criticism, which can very well express the characteristics of Baoyu: disgust with other people's advice. And Baochai is the first good admonitor in "Dream of Red Mansions". She persuaded Mrs. Wang, Daiyu, Xiangyun, Tanchun, Xiangling, and Raiders ......, Baoyu's persuasion is even more pervasive, even if he is snubbed by Baoyu ("coughed, picked up his feet and left") did not change his original intention ("It's good that you can be as painstaking as him, what can you learn and you can't succeed?").”）
This is still before marriage, Baoyu can also use "pick up your feet and go" or "don't answer" to avoid Baochai's advice. When it comes to getting married, "eat at one table and sleep in one bed", there is no way to avoid it. And when Jiafu fell, Baochai would definitely redouble her advice to Baoyu to study and take responsibility, but Baoyu would definitely not change the idea of "it's over when it's dead, and nothing will happen later". The conflict between the two was even more intense.
What you do best is what I hate the most;Your favorite is the one I can't avoid. With such a combination, how can life be lived?
Raiders and Baochai cherish each other, have the same three views, and also like to advise. Mrs. Wang said that she "Fan Baoyu is very nonsense, and he can only persuade him to die." But in fact, the persuasion of attacking people is not the same as Baochai's persuasion.
Baochai's persuasion is to hope that Baoyu will really change and go to the road of career economy. As for the attacker, he knows Baoyu better than Baochai, and knows that it is impossible for Baoyu to take this road. So her advice is to teach Baoyu to pretend to be fake: "You really like to read, or if you pretend to like to read, just in front of the master or in front of others, you don't just refute the slander, just make a look like you like to read, and also teach the old man to be less angry, and talk in front of people" - just pretend.
Because the request for attacking people is more realistic, it will not attract Baoyu's special disgust, so that the attackers have more influence on Baoyu - this is why Mrs. Wang values attacking people.
However, the attacker taught Baoyu to pretend to be fake, not because he didn't want Baoyu to "really like to read", but because he knew that Baoyu couldn't do "really like to read". Of course, more importantly, in the case of such a rich and prominent Jiafu, there is no need for Baoyu to "snow window fireflies" and ten years of hard study, as long as he follows the steps, "when you can be an official, you can't run an official".
Of course, the attackers did not expect that Jiafu would suffer a catastrophe of raiding the house. After the great turmoil and great changes that day, Baoyu lost the material environment of "peace and prosperity and honor", and had to make a living by himself. But Baoyu refused. At this time, even if the attacker teaches Baoyu to pretend again, even if Baoyu accepts the attacker's suggestion to pretend to be fake, it will not solve the livelihood problem.
Shall I be a robber and follow suit?"Attacking people to follow Baoyu was originally conditional. Now Baoyu refuses to take on the family responsibility of supporting his family, which in those days was a great crime of "being a robber". The attacker will also fulfill his original oath and take the initiative to leave Baoyu.
Why doesn't Baoyu want Baochai?Because I can't stand her.
Why didn't Baoyu attack people?It's not that Baoyu doesn't want to attack people, but that people take the initiative to leave him.