Title: The Truth About a 60-Year-Old Woman's Married Life Three women tell their hearts!
The three women are together, all over sixty, and they have become confidants and friends with each other.
Today, they get together and share some of the feelings of their lives as a couple.
Among the three women, Li Yufen is the most lively and cheerful one, she usually always smiles, giving people a warm feeling.
She and her husband have been married for almost forty years, and their relationship has always been very good.
Li Yufen said: "Don't laugh at me, in fact, I think the life of husband and wife is getting better and better."
Every morning I wake up and see his smiling face, I feel extremely happy.
The tacit understanding between us is getting better and better, and even if we don't speak, we can understand each other.
Sister Lin is a gentle woman who has been retired for many years and lives a life of mutual dependence with her husband.
They had a good time, but there were occasional quarrels.
Before, housework took up my time, and he was busy with work.
Now that the children are independent, we have more time.
However, the extra time only adds to the conflict between us.
Although sometimes conflict is unavoidable, we all know how to tolerate and understand each other, which is the most important thing in a couple's life.
Every woman has her own feelings and experiences, and from their mouths we can see the various differences in the life of a couple.
This makes one imagine how diverse couples can be with each other, and each couple has their own unique way of running and maintaining it.
After dinner, Li Yufen tidied up the table and prepared to rest in the living room with her husband.
As soon as she walked into the living room, she heard a screeching noise.
Li Yufen walked up to her husband and asked with concern, "Honey, what's wrong?"What is it that makes you so angry?The husband did not answer and continued to look down at the news on TV.
Li Yufen felt that something was wrong, tried to get close to him, and comforted him softly: "Don't be angry, it's not worth it."
The husband jerked his head up, looked into her eyes, and said excitedly, "How can you say that!".You've been like this all these years, treating me with disdain as if I didn't exist!Li Yufen was taken aback, completely unable to understand what he was talking about.
She hurriedly explained: "Honey, I didn't mean that, I've always cared about you and done a lot of things for you. ”
The husband snorted coldly, turned around and left the living room, leaving Li Yufen alone in place.
She sighed helplessly, her heart full of confusion and grievances.
Chen Shuhua knocked lightly on Li Yufen's door and walked into her room.
Li Yufen looked up at her, her eyes slightly red and swollen.
Shuhua, why are you here?Chen Shuhua walked up to her and asked with concern, "What happened?"Your eyes look as if they've cried. ”
Li Yufen wiped her tears and sighed.
Yesterday was my wedding anniversary with my husband, and I forgot it!He was angry and felt that I didn't value our marriage. ”
Chen Shuhua patted her hand lightly and said gently: "Don't be sad, people make mistakes."
You and your husband have always had a good relationship, and he won't get angry over this little thing. ”
Li Yufen looked up at Chen Shuhua and smiled slightly.
Shuhua, you are always so optimistic and tolerant, I really envy the way you get along with your husband. ”
Chen Shuhua smiled lightly: "The way we get along is also slowly explored, but sometimes quarrels are inevitable." ”
Li Yufen nodded and said with emotion: "Yes, I will pay more attention to the communication and care between us in the future." ”
Suddenly, Li Yufen's daughter suddenly announced that she was divorcing her husband.
This news startled Li Yufen, and she immediately found Chen Shuhua and Sister Lin to discuss how to deal with it.
This unfortunate event evokes memories of the conflicts and quarrels in their marriages for the three men.
Li Yufen couldn't help but say: "In fact, my husband and I have had a lot of quarrels.
Later, I got tired of this life, and we quarreled a lot. ”
Chen Shuhua nodded in agreement and continued: "Yes, I have also talked to him about the division of housework, but he always feels that I am complaining and refuses to change. ”
Sister Lin echoed: "Speaking of contradictions, my husband and I often quarrel about money.
The three of them confide in each other and find that although they show a happy side in front of outsiders, they have unspeakable secrets at home.
While they were pondering, the doorbell rang suddenly.
Li Yufen hurriedly opened the door and found that it was her daughter, who was standing at the door with tears in her eyes. ”
Hearing her daughter's words, Li Yufen's tears couldn't stop flowing.
That day, Li Yufen happened to hear rumors about Chen Shuhua while walking in the community.
Some say that her husband has a lover outside, eats with young women every day, and comes home late.
So, she found Sister Lin and decided to go to Chen Shuhua together and tell her these rumors.
The two came to Chen Shuhua's home and saw Chen Shuhua with a sad face.
We think you should know. ”
Chen Shuhua's eyes turned red, and she whispered, "I heard it too, but I really don't know what to do."
I didn't dare to ask him rashly, for fear of shattering our already fragile relationship. ”
Li Yufen held Chen Shuhua's hand and said gently: "Shuhua, we are your good friends, we are here to help you make a decision."
Whatever the outcome, we'll be there for you. ”
Chen Shuhua's eyes moistened again, and she nodded, indicating that she accepted her friend's suggestion.
Over the next few days, she decided to wait for a suitable moment to talk to her husband.
Finally one night, Chen Shuhua plucked up the courage to find her husband.
They sat in the living room, Chen Shuhua was silent for a moment, and finally spoke: "I heard something about you, rumors about you having a lover. ”
The husband was silent for a while, and then said softly, "Shuhua, I know you heard some rumors, but that's just rumors. ”
Chen Shuhua breathed a sigh of relief, and her eyes flashed with relief.
If that's the case, I'm sure of you. ”
Although the contradiction was resolved, this rumor brought a lot of impact to Chen Shuhua and his wife.
Their relationship became fragile, and Chen Shuhua began to doubt her husband's every move, and the husband also planted the seeds of jealousy in his heart.
On this day, Li Yufen's daughter returned home.
The daughter is already a woman who has started a family, her name is Li Yao.
However, Li Yao's return sparked a family dispute.
After a dinner, Li Yao couldn't help but complain: "Mom, how happy your life is with Dad, but why have we never felt this happiness?."Every time we visit you, you always smile on your face, but you always refuse to budge on your heart.
We're already married, so why can't you give us a little space?”
Li Yufen and her husband were surprised, and never thought that their behavior would cause Li Yao to feel like this.
You work very hard in the restaurant and we hope you take good care of your body. ”
Li Bo looked at Li Yao, hoping that she could understand their intentions.
However, Li Yao couldn't let go: "I understand your concern, but sometimes your concern makes me feel constrained.
My husband and I used to be sweet and affectionate, but your interference strained our relationship. ”
Li Yufen's expression was a little hurt, she grabbed Li Yao's hand and said, "Yao'er, we just want you to live happily, and we don't want to restrict your freedom." ”
Li Yao looked at the sincerity in her mother's eyes, and began to regret that her emotions were out of control.
She took a deep breath and said slowly, "Mom, maybe I misunderstood your intentions. ”
Li Yufen and Li Bo glanced at each other, their hearts full of love.
The conversation between the husband and wife reminded Chen Shuhua of the dispute between herself and her husband.
She stood up suddenly and said half-jokingly: "It seems that you young generation are really becoming less and less grateful, and they are all complaining about grievances. ”
Chen Shuhua suddenly realized that her words were too impulsive, and glanced at Li Yufen and Li Yao with some embarrassment.
The silence of the night permeated the living room, and all three women fell into deep thought.
They begin to reflect on their roles and behaviors in the family, and they begin to understand each other's intentions and expectations.
On this night, they reflected each other in the silent center.
They are all trying to find a solution to their family disputes, hoping to find a balance that satisfies everyone.