The woman (let's call it L) has been away from Beijing for more than 30 years, and all her roots are in the United States. l has worked in the hospital for many years, her husband does technical work, and her two daughters are smart and hardworking, and she is a very good middle-class family combination, if it were not for the man's repeated failures in investment.
L's sister in Beijing has taken care of her mother for many years and has not let L worry about it. And when I bought a house for my mother, my sister paid for it, but L didn't. Because of this, L has always felt that he is not qualified to inherit his mother's real estate. After my mother passed away, the house was naturally left to my sister. Unexpectedly, my sister decided to give half of L.
My sister has a career in Beijing, from the official to the bureau level, the economic conditions are superior, and her own real estate is naturally a lot. My sister not only gave half of the real estate left by her mother, but also welcomed her sister to return to Beijing to live after retirement, and the sisters supported each other.
My sister is in good condition, generous and loving, and takes the initiative to give my sister real estate;My sister received this unexpected gift, and she became generous, no longer asking for the money in her ex-husband's retirement account, and the marriage went smoothly. Sure enough, having money and love will make people more calm and noble. That's one of my feelings.
My second emotion: money is the lifeblood of a relationship, and it is also the touchstone of a relationship. Where is the money, where is the love, where is the love, where is the money.
In any case, because of this gift of love from my sister and mother, L will have a better evaluation of his life and luck, and he will have a better life in his old age.
The third emotion of mine is: as a mother, you should love your child more and don't worry about spoiling him. Loving your child also includes accumulating a thicker cushion for him, and telling him early on: Mom is your big rear.
L's ex-husband looks much more miserable, old, without money, and his daughters are also cold to him. In fact, he is an honest man, he does his best for his children and family, and he has never had an affair. But honest people will also have the hatred of honest people. He is the kind of investor who is always high, greedy, and low fearful, and has learned a whole set of investment theories but has always been with money. Finally, the daughters have a meeting with him: Daddy, if you stop now, we will take responsibility for your old age;If you continue, your old age is at your own perpetration. Take your pick. He was adamant about the latter.
An honest person will not only have the hatred of an honest person, but also the unbearable of an honest person. l likes to play, and also has the vanity of showing in the circle of friends. In the circle of friends, there are occasional ** who travel with their husbands, and they are all smiling at the camera, and there is a sense of atmosphere. However, who would have guessed that in the past ten years, almost every trip has been spent money to hire his husband, accompany him to travel, and accompany himself to take pictures of these ** in the circle of friends.
If you leave, you don't have to spend money to pretend to be a happy marriage.
Each has his own life, and each has his own way.