When one of the couples or couples suddenly becomes apathetic and no longer contacts the other, we often fall into confusion and anxiety. At this point, how should we respond?This article will provide some suggestions to help you better face this situation.
It has been said that a spoiled pear is not as golden as bitter after taking a bite. Similarly, a person who no longer loves you, no matter how much you give, will not go back to the beginning. In the face of indifferent treatment, don't try to redeem it, and don't bend down to curry favor. Since you can't change the facts, and you can't get the other party's response back, let's be relieved. You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and you can never imprison a heart that has changed its mind about you. No response is receivedLove, should be stopped in time;The feelings that have changed your mind should be let go as soon as possible. Some people, it's enough to meet them, and forget it for the rest of their lives.
In addition, remind yourself not to indulge in the relationship that has ended, and not to be nostalgic for the expiredLove。Neither spoiled food nor spoiled feelings are worth keeping. In this world,LoveIt seems to be the least tested thing, it can be solid as a rock, or it can be fragile and shatter at the touch of a button. When a person's attitude towards you changes from enthusiasm to indifference, from shouting for warmth to ignorance, the relationship has changed its taste.
Some people always like to pretend to be confused, knowing that the other party doesn't love them, but they have always refused to let go of their illusions. In the face of an indifferent attitude, we often make all kinds of excuses for the other person and try to explain their indifference for them. Too busy at work, too many meetings, too tired when you get home, too early to bed......These excuses are so familiar that we will always choose to believe them. It wasn't until one day, when we unexpectedly received a message of their enthusiasm for others, that we finally woke up. It turns out that those excuses for snubbing us are all used on others. How can someone who doesn't reply to messages have time to love you?
For the other person's indifferent attitude, we should not recall the details, and do not assume that it is possible. The truth is, how can a person who doesn't even have time to reply to you have time to love you?No matter how much you try to make excuses for the other person, it's just self-deception. Those relationships that can end through the screen are really not worth regretting. At this time, the most important thing to do is to recognize the reality and stop losses in time. Self-impressedLoveThe most hurtful.
If you want something, let it go. If it can come back to you, it will always be yours;If it doesn't come back, it's not yours at all. The phrase isYu QiuyuMr. said. The one who will come back, even if you let go, he won't leave;And those who won't come back, really don't wait. He may not have said it explicitly, but his attitude is the answer. A person doesn't take important things lightly. The coldness you feel is not an illusion, don't ignore it, and don't ignore it. The worst thing in life is not to lose the person you love the most, but to lose yourself because you love someone too much.
Instead of wasting time on the wrong people and falling into the abyss of memories, it is better to let go and move forward bravely. Pack your bags, go to the place you've always wanted to be, wake up in the morning light, and forget in the twilight. Adjust your mood and open a book that you have long wanted to read, and feel the flow of time in it. Put on your delicate makeup, walk out into the bustling streets, and watch you come and go in the crowd. The fall of a star cannot dim the brilliance of the starry sky;The withering of a flower cannot be barren throughout the spring. The world is impermanent, and we need to learn to accept those who and things leave suddenly. As the years go by, we must learn to let go of regrets and sadness. True relief begins with changing oneself.
Life may be unsatisfactory, but I hope you can stay disciplined and sober. When you regain your strength and look back, you will find that the seemingly indestructible person you once had is far from your life. The most beautiful scenery is always on the way. You can waste time, but don't waste your life. Those biting wounds will eventually become the armor that protects us, making us strong from others. May you continue to move forward and shine in the days of one and for two. At that time, the winter had dissipated, and the galaxy was still shining.