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There is a folk saying: "People love warmth, dogs love food".
That's true!Dog, as long as you give it food, it must be very clingy to you. Not only will you take good care of your home, but you will also be very close.
It's the same with people, you take care of him, you care for him, you love him. He will surround you and give you love in return.
Most people are unhappy in their relationships. Or two people, quarreling every day. It's not that in life and feelings, you can't experience warm love.
I feel fortunate to have paid and have not received the other party's understanding and respect. Do you feel like you don't have the sincerity to be cared for, cared for, cared for, and understood?
So when husband and wife get along, how to make the other half love you more and more?Do three things well.
Learn to speak well
No matter how angry a person is, as long as he hears a soft tone, a genuine heartache, a heartfelt concern, and a loving look.
When real, feel or touch, these soft temperatures. Even the hardest armor will be removed at once.
Just like an electric hand, it retracts at the moment of reflex. When people meet warm eyes, they will be imprisoned in love.
This is the most instinctive and direct channel for everyone to feel warm.
Because man is born when he is still a baby. It is in this way that love and caresses are obtained.
Make good use of the "Franklin effect".
What is the "Franklin Effect"?
The essence of this effect is that those who have helped you in the past are often more likely to help you again.
In other words, you want people to have a good impression of you.
Take the initiative and others will help you. Do what you can, do what you can. There is no shortage of a, effective methods.
In real life, we are very grateful for those. The people who have helped us and loved us.
Because of their dedication and help, let us cherish it even more. And to them, infinite awe and a deeper emotional connection.
The same is true for husband and wife!
You make emotional demands on your significant other.
On the contrary, he will think that he is important and that he is needed. It is his irreplaceability that makes you dependent.
Positive guidance, the more you love, the deeper you are
When you are taking care of the other half. You should also guide the other person positively and pay for you.
For example, you can ask your lover to watch a movie, go shopping or travel with you on weekends or in your free time.
In the process of "taking the initiative to give", you will gradually change from giving to accepting naturally, and the other party is good to you.
Of course, there are many aspects to giving. It's not just one-sided material and money.
There are also things like time, emotions, material things, love, and so on.
When the other party is on you, invest more and more cost resources. The more dependent I am on your feelings, the more inseparable I am from you.
Whether it is a person or a thing, as long as you give more, the more reluctant you are to lose.
Yu Liansha's summary:
In a relationship, it's not how much you love someone else. Others will love you as much as they want.
It's not that if you love others, others must be obligated to love you.
The depth of all feelings mostly depends on "how much it costs"!
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Yu Liansha(Author of the field of emotion).
He has been engaged in marriage and love creation for 6 years, emotional counseling for 7 years, and Chinese culture for 9 years.