I don't have any ideas today, just brag to you for a while. Perhaps because of the difference in perception, we always feel that we are out of place in the current society, but why is that?To be precise, it's just that we don't put ourselves in the right place, and we don't look at our lives and our experiences as ordinary people. When we feel unsatisfactory in many things, in fact, we can look at our children, if we can understand many problems from the perspective of children, maybe many of us can live a more relaxed and happy life.
If we think of our children's school as work, then children have to go to work at 8 a.m. every day, and they can't leave work until 6 p.m., and they have to work 2-3 hours in the evening. On weekends, their parents have to send them to another unit to continue to work part-time, and these part-time jobs do not seem to have any returns, on the contrary, the parents have to give money to others. And every week there are multiple departments to evaluate their performance (each subject exam), the children do not have any salary, financial freedom, personal freedom, this kind of class is more than ten years. When the child does well in the exam, we can reward it spiritually at mostBut when our children fail in the exam, many parents treat their children with blank eyes and even belittle them in various ways. But no matter what treatment they receive, most of our children can listen to their parents as always, and insist on going to school as always, in fact, we should be grateful to our children. Many of us always say that we can't let our children lose at the starting line, but in fact, have we ever thought that our children have actually lost on the production line?
This is a small ** I saw today, although the time is not large, but the thoughts inside are very intriguing!In our current society, of course, there are many injustices, not only in human society, but also in the animal world. On the one hand, we must strongly condemn this undesirable phenomenon, and on the other hand, we need to make our own efforts to change or adapt to this situation. From the above text, we can see that our children are trying to adapt to their own environment and their own lives, without too many complaints, without too much dissatisfaction. Because they know that no matter how difficult life is, life will always have to go on, and instead of complaining about the unfairness of life all day long, it is better to work hard to rise up and live on the favorable side of injustice. If we stand in the good position of social injustice, I believe that everyone may be able to think about it. In fact, many of the lying flat phenomena in the current society are also related to this phenomenon, once we can't get our fairness, many people choose to lie flat, in fact, from another aspect to seek fairness.
Don't think that my article is a chicken soup article, I just tell the truth, I want to use some very realistic words to resonate with you, to adapt to this society, so that we can have a relatively happy life. Do you remember a story about an eagle outside the chicken coop saying to a flock of fat roosters: If you don't spread your wings and fly bravely, how do you know if you can be an eagle?As a result, the rooster was hot-blooded, and with the encouragement of the eagle, he really bravely flew out of the chicken coop, but when he just flew out of the chicken coop, the eagle seized the opportunity and grabbed it, and the rooster was still thinking when he was dying: In order to be able to reflect my value, I fought hard and it was worth it. In fact, in the eyes of the eagle, this rooster is just a pawn in his game. In the face of injustice, many of us are encouraged by others to continue the struggle and have the courage to fight for it.
In our world, we have always lived in a situation that others expect. Some people are famous, some are profitable, and some are life. But no matter what, we can't escape the rules of this society, and it is very comfortable to talk about fairness in a fair world;But to talk about fairness in an unfair world is stupid because it not only hurts you, but also makes others scoff. For the time being, the world we live in is not as fair as we think, so it is very inappropriate to pursue fairness without any conditions. There is an old Chinese saying, called: When a show meets a soldier, it is unreasonable. I think you can understand the meaning of this sentence, in this case, if we purely pursue pure fairness, it is actually an irrational behavior.
If I put it more bluntly, maybe a lot of people will be hit, but I want you to be able to see the nature of some things. For example, in most environments, only the weak will pursue fairness, and the strong will only pursue profit. No matter what the conditions, true fairness will only be reserved for the strong, and there are no fair conditions for the weak. Let me give you an example to illustrate: for example, a friend of yours is a rich second generation, he has a car worth 5 million, but he doesn't want it anymore and wants to sell it to you for 1 million, but you only have 100,000 yuan and can't afford it, so others can only sell the car to others for 2 million. From this matter, we can see that your friend is fair, and selling this car worth 5 million to you for 100 million is to give you a lot of face, and consider the feelings between you, but because you can't afford it, he only sold it to someone else for 2 million.
This story also illustrates that when we need to meet some fairness and luck, we must first have a certain amount of strength ourselves. If you don't have the same strength, even if the opportunity is put in front of you, you can't seize it, and that's the reality, a reality that we have to think about. In the same way, we have been pursuing the so-called fairness, but in fact, we must know that fairness in this world is relative, not absolute, and requires certain preconditions. If any of us are not willing to strive for a happier life, but dream of lying down and enjoying the life that we have achieved through struggle with others, this is actually an injustice in itself, isn't it?
Therefore, in the real society, the fairness we pursue must be based on a kind of conditions that we can follow, and we cannot take it for granted that we can pursue absolute fairness. For example, some civil servants on the Internet shouted that they were tired, and others said that if you feel tired, you can resign, which is actually an abnormal psychological behavior. Let's say the other way, if a beggar shouts that life is hard, can he not have to beg?Definitely!Everyone is for their own life, can only do their best to make their lives better, everyone has unsatisfactory times, the poor have troubles, the rich also have their own troubles, but as long as we have a goal of our own, and strive to pursue it, even if it is a small progress, it is worthy of encouragement, and it is worthy of praise. If you feel that your life is not satisfactory, we can look at the child, in the absence of any return, without any prospects, no matter how hard and tired, in fact, compared to the child, we are still happy, right?
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