"The sign of success is not how high you stand, but your strength from the trough, setbacks are the best touchstone to test life." This has the same meaning as "failure is the mother of success".
I recently did a show on the platform, and I deeply realized the meaning of the four words "the weak complain". In the comment area, those who scold, complain, and complain are undoubtedly weak or losers.
I even made a special issue of **, which is dedicated to these people. You might as well give it a try, look at their reviews, and you'll be able to immediately verify that what I'm saying is accurate.
People who hate the powerful are certainly not strong, and the strong will not complain like this. Moreover, I have found that weak people like to complain, and complaining makes them weaker, forming a vicious circle.
In real life, people who complain often encounter more frustration because they never reflect, and such a state of mind not only cannot change the current adversity, but can lead to greater difficulties due to negative emotions caused by complaining. I am quoting a famous saying of Zeng Guofan, a famous minister of the late Qing Dynasty: "If you complain too much, you will be suppressed more."
In the difficult situation of life, the really strong will not speak, they never argue, they bear in silence. As it is said in "Human Disqualification": "Complaining to others is just futile, it is better to bear it silently."
These words embody the psychological qualities and understanding of human nature of the strong. Mr. Mo Yan is a strong man in the field of literature, and in the face of everyone's abuse, he never justifies himself, because he understands that his path is unstoppable.
Even when he was insulted and hurt, he didn't care. He won the Nobel Prize in Literature and the Mao Dun Prize in Literature, and was deeply loved by the majority of intellectuals, and was invited to give lectures by well-known universities in China many times.
Can those who slander him and attack him influence him?Therefore, if you want to become a strong person, you must learn Xi Mr. Mo Yan's attitude towards people and things.
Mr. Mo Yan mentioned the wise men at the end, they are not only strong, but also forward-looking strong people. In the 10s, for example, when most people were still enjoying the benefits of the iron rice bowl, some people had already seen the crisis and chose to start a business in coastal cities, and finally succeeded.
These people were wise men in that era, they could not only foresee the trend of the times, but also prepare for things before they happened, rather than passively accepting them.
Similarly, the leaders of enterprises are also wise men, such as in the early 90s, some leaders of state-owned enterprises actively responded to national policies, led enterprises to carry out shareholding transformation, so that enterprises on the verge of bankruptcy can be reborn, such leaders are wise men with a larger pattern.
On the road of restructuring state-owned enterprises, Mr. Li Yining has something to say. He tells us that life's challenges are everywhere and that if you choose to run away from them, you will only be a failure.
Only by moving forward bravely, accepting challenges, and changing predicaments can we become truly strong. All the strong men in the world have experienced unknown hardships and challenges, but they have all managed to survive in the end.