What to do if you have nothing to say to your boyfriend
Couples in love, from acquaintance and love to gradually entering the dull, sometimes find that the topic between the two becomes less and less, and they don't even know what to talk about. This situation will not only affect each other's feelings, but it can also lead to a gradual estrangement in the relationship. So, what do you do when you have nothing to say to your boyfriend?
First of all, it is important to recognize that this situation is quite normal. The freshness and passion between the two may gradually diminish over time, but this does not mean that the relationship has faded. Sometimes, the topic of conversation is reduced simply because the two people already know each other very well and don't need words to maintain their relationship. Of course, if this situation lasts for a long time, something needs to be done to improve it.
1. Find common ground.
1.Try new things together: Try new sports, entertainment, travel destinations, etc. together, so that there will be more topics to talk about. For example, trying to go rock climbing, skateboarding, cooking, etc., together will not only increase your interaction with each other, but also discover new commonalities.
2.Participate in activities together: You can participate in some social activities or volunteer services together, so that you can get in touch with new people and things, and at the same time, you can also increase the tacit understanding and understanding of each other.
3.Follow current news and current affairs together: Paying attention to some common news and current affairs, such as politics, culture, science and technology, etc., can not only increase the topic, but also enhance each other's insight and understanding.
2. In-depth communication.
Sometimes, the conversation between the two decreases because of a lack of in-depth communication. Find a suitable time to sit down and have a good chat to understand the other person's thoughts and feelings. You can share your work, life, family and other aspects, as well as your dreams and pursuits. This will not only increase the understanding of each other, but also find more topics.
3. Create romantic moments.
Romantic moments can make the relationship between the two people deeper, and at the same time, it can also increase the topic of conversation with each other. For example, you can watch the sunset together, listen to **, write love letters, etc. Although these little romances seem simple, they can make the relationship between the two sweeter.
Fourth, give each other some space.
Sometimes, the conversation between two people is reduced because they rely too much on each other. You can give each other some space and have your own social circles and hobbies. This will not only increase your independence, but also make the relationship between the two people healthier.
In short, don't worry too much when you have nothing to say to your boyfriend. As long as there is true love and tacit understanding between the two, the topic will naturally continue. The situation can be improved by trying new things, communicating deeply, creating romantic moments, and giving each other some space. At the same time, you should also remember to maintain your independence and hobbies to make the relationship between the two more colorful.