When you really love someone, you can see it even if you cover your mouth, so when a man really loves you, there will be the following 3 states.
1.Willing to pay for you.
There is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason, when a man really loves you, he will be willing to pay for you, if he doesn't care about the return, he is willing to give everything for you, then he really loves you.
Wenwen and Xiao Li have been in love for more than a year, but Wenwen feels that Xiao Li is too critical of her, and is reluctant to spend money for her, when Wenwen needs a bag, Xiao Li only bought him a very cheap canvas bag, Wenwen feels that this canvas bag is outdated, and Xiao Li has always been a more economical person, so his consumption habits will not be too high.
When Wenwen and Xiao Li were eating together, Wenwen ordered a more expensive thing, Xiao Li ordered a cheaper thing, Xiao Li said that their consumption should be AA system, Wenwen was not happy, she felt that Xiao Li was too picky, and she was reluctant to do anything.
When Wenwen talked to her friends about this matter, her friends around her all said that it was better to break up with her boyfriend, because if she likes someone, she will pay for each other, even if he is picking again, he will only pick on himself, not on the person he loves.
Wenwen has always been reluctant to break up with Xiao Li, after they have been in love for more than a year, Wenwen really can't stand him too much, although Xiao Li is also very critical of her friends and self-criticism, but he really can't stand it, and finally broke up.
When a man really loves you, even if he picks it again, he will be willing to pay for you and give everything for you.
2.Possessive, but not too much.
When loving someone, a man will be very possessive.
When Xiao Jing and her boyfriend were together, her boyfriend was very possessive, although her boyfriend gave her enough free space, but he hoped that Xiao Jing would not get too close to other friends of the opposite sex.
When her boyfriend sees her with the opposite sex, he will mind very much, he asks Xiao Jing not to walk with the opposite sex, Xiao Jing is an anchor, when her boyfriend sees a gift from the opposite sex next to her, her boyfriend will walk to the screen and say, don't give her a gift, she is a person with a boyfriend.
Although Xiao Jing is very unhappy, she is not angry at work, and her boyfriend will also see her chatting with the opposite sex when she has business, and her boyfriend will tell the other party that she is a person with a boyfriend, and the opposite sex is talking to Xiao Jing about cooperation with advertising, because as soon as her boyfriend says this, their cooperation is gone, and her boyfriend often cares about her contact with the opposite sex, which affects her work, and then Xiao Jing has no choice but to break up with him.
When you love someone, you can have a strong sense of possessiveness, but don't care too much about each other, give each other free space, love is mutual trust, everyone has everyone's free space, and restricting each other's freedom will make the other party breathless.
3.Won't control the other.
A man who really loves you, he will not make excuses that he will take care of you because he loves you, he really loves someone, he will not control the other person's freedom, he will respect your decision and give you enough space.
Xiao Liu and Xiao Li have been in love for more than a year, but Xiao Li feels that she and Xiao Liu have no free space at all, and he has to care what kind of friends Xiao Li is with, even if Xiao Li is with female friends of the same sex, Xiao Liu asks Xiao Li not to associate with this kind of friend, which will bring Xiao Li badly, because Xiao Li often goes to the bar with her friends to relax, for fear that Xiao Li will learn badly, so Xiao Liu will control Xiao Li like her parents.
If Xiaoli is with a friend of the opposite sex, he will tell that person that she is someone who has a boyfriend, and don't get too close to her. And after Xiaoli and Xiao Liu were together, she became more and more friendless, because Xiaoli had a boyfriend like Xiao Liu by her side, and her friends didn't dare to approach Xiaoli. Xiaoli has to report to Xiao Liu no matter how she goes, Xiaoli feels that Xiao Liu doesn't trust her.
In this relationship, Xiaoli felt that she was not in love, and Xiao Liu restrained her like her father, so when Xiaoli finally couldn't bear it anymore, she proposed to break up.
A man who really loves you, he will trust you, he will give you free space, and he won't care too much about you.
A man who truly loves you will have the above three states.