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Why do NPD narcissists get crazier the older they get?NPD narcissistic personality disorder is a self-destructive process that lasts a lifetime, and these people often end up in a bleak and lonely life.
If the narcissist's relatives have not been tormented by him to go crazy or die prematurely, even if the relatives are still alive, the narcissist will slowly become estranged in his old age.
The mental state of NPD narcissists also becomes more and more crazy with age, why?
One of the big reasons isThe resentment and hatred in the hearts of NPD narcissists are accumulating more and more, and even after middle and old age, there is an exponential increase due to the decrease in the supply of narcissism and the acceleration of narcissism's damage. Whenever someone damages the narcissism of an NPD narcissist, the NPD narcissist holds a grudge.
Inside, this made him hate the world a little more.
And our normal minds will growWe will slowly let go of some small things or some things that are not under our control, or things that have passed and have not changed their meaning, and we will pay more attention to our inner peace and pleasure, that is, forty without confusion as it is said in the Analects, fifty and knowing the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and doing what we want.
For example, let's say you were in college at the age of 20 and you had a lot of arguments with your roommates over the location of the trash cans in your dorm room, and you both didn't like each other. More than ten years later, at the class reunion, you and your roommate meet again, you are both normal people, your minds have grown, you both look at each other and laugh, talking about how childish and ridiculous it was to quarrel over a trash can when you were young.
The two of you reminisce about the past, think you were funny and cute, and then talk happily, and you can become good friends again. The NPD narcissist can't understand why you and your old roommate are able to let go of your past suspicions, and he will even be jealous that you both have this inner strength.
Because NPD narcissists are not growth-oriented, his mind has always been kept in a low-level naïve state. If he were to be this NPD narcissist, he would still have that resentment and hatred more than ten years later, he would say that this roommate had a bad character and a very small heart, thinking that he would make things difficult for him because of a trash can.
And the normal people around listen to it, and they may think that this person is in his thirties, and he is still thinking about such a trivial thing as a trash canDoes he have any psychological problems?
So the older he gets, the more things the NPD narcissist experiences, the more and more resentment in his heart will accumulate, and linger, slowly piling up into a mountain, making the NPD narcissist more and more hateful to the world, and he will become more and more hateful about the people and things around him, and become more and more vicious and crazy.
He will be weighed down by this mountain of hatred, and he will be in fear all day long, and the state of a mental patient will become more and more obvious.
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