Written by Rouran.
Many encounters mostly start with "hello", but when they turn around, they don't even have time to say a solemn "goodbye".
The relationship between people is really fragile, and most of them start from no longer contacting each other and quietly disappearing into each other's worlds.
Don't panic when a person no longer contacts you, but calm down and learn to "let go".
In the relationship, what many people can't let go of is not that person, but their own obsessions.
Scarlett, the protagonist of "Gone with the Wind", is a woman who is particularly persistent in love.
When she was young, she had always been infatuated with the handsome Sven Ashley, but the person she liked turned around and married her cousin Melanie.
In retaliation for Ashley, she willfully agreed to Charles's marriage proposal, only to be widowed soon after due to the death of her husband.
Later, he married Bai Ruide, who had already fallen in love with her at first sight, and after marriage, Bai Ruide gave her the maximum love of a man for a woman.
But Scarlett's heart was always occupied by Ashley, and she finally angered her husband away.
Later, Scarlett suddenly realized that the person she loved was Brad, who knew her best, and for Ashley, what she liked was nothing more than virtual fantasies.
I love something virtual, like a beautiful set of clothes that I sewed myself, and I fell in love with it.
Then Ashley came running on horseback, and he looked so beautiful and so different, I put that suit on him, and it didn't matter if he was wearing it properly or not”
The outfit, or Ashley's vague shadow, was not Scarlett's obsession.
So when a person no longer contacts you and wants to escape from your world, stop pressing, and don't embarrass yourself.
You may fall in love with the irreproducible time he brought you, and you may fall in love with the youth that you can't go back;
It may be your dependence on him, or the longing for a couple for a lifetime, ......
So don't let obsession trap you, and don't let people who don't love you become your own shackles and block true happiness.
I have heard such a passage: "The reason why many people are unhappy is because they have too good a memory, and they always remember the people and things in the past."
Thinking of the good of the past, you will never be able to cross the "sea" of the past, as far as the eye can see, there are streams. ”
The most unrelenting thing for many people who have been hurt is the past of the two, trying to find evidence that the two people love each other, but they can't spell the original appearance.
The person who was full of you at the beginning has now become the person who cherishes you the least;
The people who were in contact with you at the beginning are now cold to you;
I don't know how many people who are hurt by love, guarding the chat box and telling that person about the very precious past, but the people who don't love you don't care about it.
The memories in your eyes are not as good as the memories he made with the newcomer, and what you can't forget is the past that he wanted to get rid of in a hurry.
So, dear, it hurts too much, just let it go.
Let the past disappear with love, and let the pain disappear with forgetting.
Rediscover your true self and be brave enough to pursue a new love and life.
It has been said that no one can torture a man except himself.
The grandmother in the movie "Love and Blind Date" married her grandfather when she was 17 years old, and half a year after marriage, her husband went outside and never came back.
From youth to gray hair, no matter what others say, he is unmoved, and has been waiting for her husband who has betrayed her for 43 years.
It wasn't until she saw that her husband's ** in his seventies was ruined, she broke down and cried and finally chose to let go.
Saying the sentence "I don't want you anymore" seems to end this love and waiting.
In the face of a relationship that cannot continue, many people always have illusions, thinking that they can change their minds by waiting a little longer;
Wait a little longer, you can wait for his news, wait a little longer, you can wait for a sentence "I still love you".
It's a pity that in the end, I just waited for it to come and no longer contact.
In the quagmire of feelings, the person we should let go of the most is ourselves.
There are some things that are only suitable for turning into memories;Some people are destined to miss out in this life.
Love is the norm of life, so since the past is no longer going back, it is better to let go and let yourself go.
Mo Yan once said: "When you are young, it is not too much to fall in love with anything, and when you are mature, it is not wrong to give up anything." ”
In the relationship, when a person no longer contacts you, it is better to use the word "put".
Let go of obsessions and stop entanglement;Let go of the past, no more nostalgia;Let yourself go and learn to be relieved.
Accept all departures and do not reject all beginnings.
Light up "watching", give time time, and let the past be the past. Only by learning to let go can life move forward.