It really matters whether a man's heart is for you. The difference is like an invisible line between his heart and yours.
His eyes, words, and actions all reveal the existence of these differences, and even make us feel his "cruelty".
Actually, if you know that his heart is no longer in you, don't force yourself to keep him. Keeping a man who doesn't love you is not a wise choice. We should not allow ourselves to experience such pain and confusion.
Instead, you need to learn to let go and give yourself and him a chance to start over. Even if he no longer loves you, you have to respect his choice and believe that you can find a better home.
So what does a man's heart usually do when it leaves you?He becomes particularly "cruel" to you, and it manifests itself in three ways!
01.Words become harsher.
When a man says he loves you, he speaks very softly and does not easily say harsh words.
Even if something makes him angry with you, he will find a way to make you happy and make you happy.
When a man doesn't love you, he will say a lot of cruel things to hurt you.
Usually, there is nothing wrong with a man saying harsh words. This shows that he really cares about you.
For example, when he often hates you for not knowing how to take care of himself, the harsh words he says are often a sign of his love for you.
But if a man says harsh things and hurts you again and again, it means that he doesn't care about you at all.
So when a guy says something mean to you, you should think carefully about whether it's because you've done something that makes him angry. If so, resolutely break up with this man.
02.His actions became ruthless.
Men tend to be attracted to the warmth of women. This warmth may come from her smiling, caring, and kind character.
The warm atmosphere makes men feel safe and can't help but fall in love.
When a man truly loves a woman, his attitude and behavior will become very kind. He looked at her with kitten-like kind eyes, and he followed her wherever she went.
In addition to the kind eyes, men also show love and care for women in their daily lives. He will pay attention to her needs and feelings and provide help and support whenever he can.
However, if a man puts a woman in the forefront of his heart, he will be especially "cruel" to her.
He will treat you hard until you break up sadly.
03.The attitude became cruel.
A man who truly loves you will be very tolerant of you. It can understand all your thoughts, including the emotions, feelings, and thoughts you want to express.
He will not be dissatisfied or disgusted because your ideas are different from his, on the contrary, he will respect your ideas and try to communicate meaningfully with you.
On the contrary, if a man no longer loves you, his attitude will become very cold. He will no longer communicate with you or argue with you.
When you communicate with him, he may appear impatient or walk away as if nothing happened.
This attitude can leave you feeling very confused and helpless, not knowing what you can do to change the situation. You may try to communicate with him in the hope of finding a solution to the problem, but he is no longer willing to communicate with you.
If you encounter such a situation, first of all, don't blame yourself too much, and don't feel down. Love is a mutual feeling. If he doesn't love you anymore, it's probably because something is wrong with your relationship.
In this case, you need to think calmly about the problem between the two of you and find a way to solve it.
You can start with your own perspective and think about what needs to be improved.
After that, try to communicate with him fully to understand his thoughts and feelings. In this process, don't get emotional, don't get overly excited, stay calm and rational.
If he still doesn't want to communicate with you, you should consider whether you want to continue the relationship. If you don't feel like the relationship makes sense, you can consider letting go and giving yourself and him a chance to start over.