The ways of the world.
1.When someone compliments you, you can transfer that compliment to him to show your humility and gratitude. For example, if someone says that your speech is excellent, you can reply, "Thank you for the compliment, but I can only do it by standing on the shoulders of giants." This not only expresses respect and gratitude for others, but also avoids arousing the envy of others.
2.Learning to buy water is a simple and effective way to make a good impression. By offering small gifts or services to others, you can quickly bring each other closer and build trust. For example, when you meet someone for the first time, bringing two cups of milk tea as a gift can make the other person feel that you care and are friendly;If you have renovation workers in your home and buy them a bottle of water each, they will serve you more attentively and will not cheat on you.
3.Talk more about topics that interest others, and you will learn a lot. By communicating with others, you can learn about different perspectives, experiences, and knowledge. Not only will this help you expand your horizons, but it will also increase your interaction and understanding with others.
4.Learn to keep an appropriate distance from your friends. Too close relationships can easily lead to contradictions and conflicts, while too distant relationships can easily make friendships indifferent. Keeping a moderate distance can maintain the stability and beauty of the friendship, while also giving each other a certain amount of personal space and freedom.
5.If you lose your temper with someone because you're in a bad mood and want to apologize afterwards, don't just say, "I'm sorry, I was being unreasonable." Such an apology may deepen the impression that the other person is unreasonable and leave the other person still haunted. Instead, you can express gratitude for the other person's understanding of you, for example, by saying, "Just thank you for your understanding." This will make others feel that you understand and care about their feelings, which will reduce their anger and resentment.
6.Don't try to change anyone, and don't expect the people around you to change because of you. Everyone has their own values and way of life, and they have the right to choose the path they think is right. The adult world is based on the principle of putting interests first, so when dealing with relationships, prioritize your own interests rather than expecting others to make changes for you.
7.Things don't have to be done perfectly, but words should be decent and beautiful. Just like if you go to the store to buy food, if the owner says to the chef, "Add more meat to this little brother", you will feel happy in your heart, and you will choose this restaurant next time. Even though the chef doesn't actually give you more meat, the owner's expression gives you a good impression of the restaurant and the owner.
8.People change, and friends are fluid. Some people may leave your life, and this is normal. When someone leaves, we should accept and respect their decision. Instead of dwelling on the people who have already left, focus on building closer relationships with the friends around you.
9.When visiting someone's home, be sure to bring some gifts as a sign of respect and gratitude. Even if you don't have anything ready, you can go to a nearby supermarket and buy some small gifts such as fruit or milk before you arrive at your destination. This shows your sincerity and care and makes the host feel valued.
10.Make friends should be chosen carefully, real friends do not need too many, a few true friends are enough. Having too many friends doesn't have much of a benefit other than spending money and time. It is important to build deep friendships with those who genuinely care about and support you.
11.Until you make any money, it's best to avoid making friends with people who are only looking to eat, drink, and be merry. Being too hedonistic when you are young may pay a heavy price to pay back in the future. Only the weak need low-quality friends. We should focus on developing our own abilities and qualities and building true friendships with those who share our goals and values.
12.Don't waste time and opportunity when you can afford to make money. Work hard, earn more, save more. In this way, it will not be too hard in middle age, and it will not be difficult in old age.
13.It is very important to learn to save and control your desires. You never know when you'll need it, so keep a certain amount of savings in case you need it.
14.If someone doesn't ask you for advice or inquiry, don't point them out. Respect the autonomy and decision-making capacity of others, and give them enough space and freedom.
15.Understand the meaning and value of money. Only the portion that is spent is truly yours. However, it is also necessary to realize that people are heroes, money is courage, and it is difficult for heroes to go around without money. Money can bring a sense of security and freedom, but it is not the only measure of a person's worth.
16.If you borrow money from someone else, you must repay it on time. If you can't pay it off all at once, you can make multiple payments. If you don't have money for the time being, you can take the initiative to contact the other party and explain the situation, and don't ignore the other party because of guilt. Doing so can easily be misconsconstrued as a peaceful indifference.
17.It is very important to learn to keep a low profile and be humble. People who flaunt their wealth and accomplishments can end up destroying their futures. Keep your composure and don't flaunt your wealth and accomplishments too much. While some people tout you on the surface, they may be filled with jealousy and resentment inside. Truly wise people will keep a low profile and not attract unwanted attention.
18.When you are in a weak position and have no right to speak, try not to express your opinions. Expressing one's opinion too much in the face of powerful others or authorities can cause conflict or be ignored. In this case, you can choose to listen and observe, and wait for the right moment to express your opinion.