Recently, my chat with a middle school student on the Internet gave me some new understanding of today's "post-00" middle school students, and this understanding has subverted my three views. Coupled with the fact that I have observed some of the students' conditions in school, I decided to share with you a question that I have been puzzled about recently - are the current "post-00" middle school students so open?
Recently, I received a complaint from a parent who said that his child behaved very openly, even a little presumptuously, in his interactions with classmates at school. He mentioned that his child often drank with his classmates, smoked cigarettes, and even behaved more excessively. Parents are very worried, after all, their children are only secondary school students, and they are not sure whether such behavior is appropriate. This made me think, are the current "post-00s" middle school students really so open?I believe this is a question that we all need to think about.
However, accepting this fact can be a huge shock for parents, who may not know how to deal with the situation. This is because they have always seen their children as angelic beings, innocent and pure. Suddenly, they were presented with behaviors that they couldn't accept, and they were confused and heartbroken. But as parents, they should not only criticize and blame their children, but also think from the child's perspective and understand why they behave the way they do. At the same time, they also need to reflect on whether there are problems with their own education methods and guidance for their children.
First of all, we must be clear that each era has its own unique ways of behaving and values. For the "post-00" generation, the environment in which they grew up, the way they received education, the popularity of social **, etc., are different from the past. This may make them freer, more open, and more inclusive, but it doesn't mean they don't have an awareness of ethics and norms of behavior.
With the development of technology and the popularity of social networking**, access to information is relatively easy, and young people are more likely to be exposed to a wide variety of perspectives and lifestyles. This diversity of information input will have a certain impact on their way of thinking and behavior. Especially at the age of pursuing self-independence and individuality, they are more susceptible to external guidance and influence.
At the same time, we cannot ignore the impact of the online environment on the "post-00" middle school students. The popularity of information on the Internet and all kinds of social networks may have an impact on them. They may see some inappropriate remarks and behaviors online, or they may be encouraged and guided by others to behave more openly in some aspects.
In the online world, anonymity and closure give them more courage and security to express their ideas and personalities. In this free and relaxed environment, some adolescents may tend to exhibit more open and presumptuous behavior, showing their personality and characteristics. It may just be a way for them to experiment with different identities and roles, but it can also lead to some kind of inappropriate behavior.
Coming back to our question, are the current "post-00" middle school students really so open?In my observation, not every "post-00" middle school student behaves so openly. While we've seen some overly open behavior, we can't generalize either. After all, every child is a unique individual, and their behavior and values are also influenced by family, school, society, and other aspects.
At the same age, each child has a different upbringing environment and personal experience. These factors can have a profound impact on their thoughts and behaviors. Some children may have been nurtured by home education and have a keen sense of morality and discipline;And some children may be influenced by peer pressure and are more likely to exhibit open and presumptuous behavior. Therefore, we cannot generalize about the entire group of "post-00" middle school students, but need to think about the problem from an individual perspective.
First of all, we should understand our children's behavior and psychology and respect their choices and decisions. Children grow up with all sorts of confusion and confusion, and we can't simply classify their behavior as wrong. Instead, we should engage in dialogue with them in an equal and rational manner and understand their motivations and needs.
It is very important to have an equal conversation with your child. We should be open to listening to their thoughts and concerns, and giving them a full voice. Only then will they be more willing to communicate with us and find solutions to problems together. At the same time, we should also use the right methods and language to guide them to understand what they can and cannot do.
Secondly, we should give enough support and love to our children, so that they can feel warm and cared for as they grow up. Children may be showing open behaviour for some reason, and they need our understanding and support. We should help them establish correct values and outlook on life, and cultivate correct behavioral habits and moral concepts.
For children, they are growing up full of confusion and confusion, and they need our support and guidance. In the family environment, parents should play the role of a good guide and role model, and establish a good communication and trust relationship with their children. In schools, teachers should provide the necessary education and psychological counseling to help children develop a correct outlook on life and values.
Of course, we cannot ignore the importance of education in solving this problem. Schools should strengthen the education of students' behavioral norms so that they understand what is acceptable and what is not. At the same time, schools should also pay attention to students' mental health and emotional education to help them establish correct values and outlook on life.
In school education, the education of behavioral norms is a very important part. Schools should develop a clear code of conduct and strengthen the publicity and education of students so that they understand what is the code of conduct that should be followed. At the same time, schools should also pay attention to students' mental health and emotional education, and cultivate their correct values and outlook on life. Emotional education can help students recognize their own emotions and needs, learn to manage and express emotions, so as to better adapt to social and interpersonal relationships.
In general, the current "post-00s" middle school students are not all so open. Although we have seen some overly open behavior, this does not mean that this is the case for all "post-00" middle school students. Every child is a unique individual, and their behaviour and values are influenced in many ways. As parents and educators, we should guide them with understanding and support, and help them grow into positive, healthy and happy people.
At the same time, we should also respect everyone's choices and rights, and maintain a rational and objective attitude towards various issues. It is only through rational and intelligent dialogue that we can work together towards a better future. As for whether the "post-00" middle school students are open, this question also requires us to express our own views and experiences. Everyone is welcome to share your views and experiences in the comment section. If you think this article is good, remember to like and share it!See you next time!