When Mo Lan was with Liang Han, she made almost everyone in the Sheng family feel very embarrassed. In the end, Mrs. Sheng bravely stepped forward and resolved all this. Later, she hugged Minglan affectionately and told her that Minglan was the most sensible and knew what not to do. At that time, she lay quietly in the arms of Mrs. Sheng, did not say anything, just gently wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes with her hands.
Since she had a conflict with He Hongwen, she has always silently regarded herself as the future wife of He Hongwen, not because she likes him so much, but because since she moved to Mucansai, she understands that no one can stand in the way of the ups and downs of her life. He Hongwen is undoubtedly a gentleman with high morals, self-reliance, and a gentle and reliable personality, and he even swore from a young age that he would not take a concubine. This place has also been recognized by Mrs. Sheng and her.
Although Cao Jinxiu suddenly appeared on the way, she still firmly said: "In a person's life, the road is always full of twists and turns and difficulties, and we can't give up easily just because we see potholes." I want to get over these obstacles, fill them with mud and sand, lay them with stones, and maybe walk past them and find a way to my destination. We can't easily turn down the person we meet just because something unsatisfactory happens!”
This is her confidence in the face of the right person, and it is also the first time she has revealed her true thoughts, but she has an unknown secret in her heart that she does not want to reveal in her life. She said she didn't believe it. Because when she first met, she had already told herself that if she knew it was impossible, she would strangle him in the cradle.
However, the more deliberately avoided being disliked, the more frankly expressing dissatisfaction, the better the expression of inner emotions, especially when the other party is still affectionately dependent on each other, such evasion and pursuit is more like a vague love between lovers. Love is not so easy to tell. Her attitude towards Qi Heng was like this, although she strongly denied it, because of Qi Heng's relationship, Gu Tingye had many disputes with her. They are all women who love themselves, but they can't hide their love. Indeed, whether you love or not, you can't hide it, and even if you cover it up well, it will be noticed by the people who love you deeply, because love itself doesn't have much rationality.
Minglan once expressed sincere love for the drunken Qi Heng on a moonlit night.
The night before Rulan was about to get married, she met Qi Heng, who had drunk too much, a man she once couldn't avoid, but now they met again and found that everything had changed. Her heart was so touched that night that she couldn't calm down. Since she and Gu Tingye have already established a marriage contract, Qi Heng also has a marriage contract with the Shen family. Two people who are already engaged shouldn't actually have any kind of interaction, let alone on a moonlit night.
Even though Qi Heng missed their first encounter, he still couldn't help but ask her questions. This time, all she needed was a nod, and the two could come together. However, she coldly rejected him, which made Qi Heng both unwilling and confused.
In the original work, Qi Heng faced her jade-pure face and said solemnly: "For so many years, you may not understand my deep affection for you, but you always pretend not to know and treat me coldly. Today, I just want to say to you, as long as you respond to my heart a little, I will also fight desperately. But you have seen me to death from the beginning, thinking that I can't trust you, thinking that I will drag you down, harm you, and avoid me like a poisonous snake and a beast, what is the reason for this?!”
How could she not be moved when she saw the personable young man who was drunk but still asked why?She didn't believe in herself, she liked him, and he liked her. Although Qi Heng's feelings for her are sincere, this is not the first time she has said something unpleasant, and there may be some things that she will believe in the process of saying.
I still vividly remember that at the birthday celebration of the Xiangyang Marquis Mansion, Qi Heng specially arranged a little maid to lure her out, which was also a love story full of affection. At that time, she could only suppress the slight sourness in her heart, forcing herself to look directly into Qi Heng's eyes, begging him not to mention herself at any time. Eventually, she resolutely lit the flame and said, "If you come to me again in the future, even if you meet me, don't talk to me, and if you insist on talking, please be polite!"In this world, the life of my daughter's family is so difficult, if there is any rumor, I will only die!You have to keep it in mind!”
The last time I met her, it seems that every time Qi Heng meets her, it can't be regarded as a good thing, because everyone needs to have self-esteem, especially those who have pride capital. This time, she didn't resort to coercion and temptation like last time, but looked at Qi Heng quietly and said word by word: "You are so amazing, you always want to do the best, I really can't afford it, your heart is too big to let go, I don't have anyone else to rely on, so I need to think more clearly." ”
As soon as she finished speaking, her eyes fell on Qi Heng's red eyes and the tears that were about to fall. Still, she struggled to keep her head up and smile as bright as the sun. But when she was tidying up her dress, she also covered a few drops of wetness from the tips of her shoes. Then she saluted in a ladylike gesture she had never seen before, and then turned away without hesitation.
In Lolita, three things that are difficult to hide are described: coughing, poverty, and love.
When you have a crush on someone, it's hard to hide, and even small emotional cues can reveal your emotional swings. In her heart, he was the person she wanted to love but didn't dare to touch. Qi Heng, the man who has mentioned many times that he wants to officially marry her, is attracted to her deep down. But for such a person as bright as the moon, it is enough to look from a distance in the sky. What's more, she already has her own happiness, and she should be satisfied, shouldn't she?
Falling in love is undoubtedly a hopeful and beautiful thing, however, true companionship is a journey full of challenges and difficulties. Everyone wants to spend their life with the people they love dearly and is willing to do whatever it takes to make that wish come true. In the process, we often encounter various crises and may even face death. However, if an endless abyss and foreseeable calamity await us, then why should we risk life and death?
Minglan frankly expressed Qi Heng's disappointment to the angry Gu Tingye.
After Gu Tingye had a few arguments with her, he finally told her clearly: "You have always been a smart person, and you always deal with problems calmly, but why is there such a situation on the names of the two children of the Qi family, it is just out of emptiness in your heart." "How did you come up with it?Neither I nor your father have heard of it. Minglan immediately felt flustered, unable to defend herself, so she had to sit down with her hands down. Gu Tingye went on to explain that he was not speculating, but had personally heard the conversation between her and Qi Heng.
In fact, similar to her previous opinion of Qi Heng, in this secret meeting, she did not act like a dignified aristocratic woman, but also said a few unpleasant words to Qi Heng, warning him not to have anything to do with her again. However, it was this attitude that deeply hurt Gu Tingye and made him dissatisfied with her from the birthday banquet of the Duke of Qi.
She was shocked and said, "Why not?".I, I don't depend on him for ...... lifeSuch a reply further aroused Gu Tingye's indignation. He is a man who loves her very much, but she has never known how to choose, what kind of person does he like?Probably every woman who has worked so hard to marry will get such a response, and they all have the right to feel regret and anger. "Why are you so stupid!"Qi Heng is like a thorn between Gu Tingye and her, if ignored or deliberately ignored, the thorn will gradually deepen or develop into a worse result.
Especially Gu Tingye, he has always been very envious of Uncle Guo in his heart, because he has a big Zou family who is willing to give his life for love, and his attitude towards her husband like a boss makes him even more frustrated. So, he quarreled with her at the wine table. Driven by alcohol, he quarrels with her so that he can better reveal her hidden secrets.
Surprisingly, this time she did not choose to hide, on the contrary, she expressed her opinion with a resolute attitude, and said calmly: "A long time ago, I had a premonition that the marriage between me and Qi Heng was not destined to come together, in that case, why say more." I'm not the amorous woman in the book, and I'm not going to let anything happen that shouldn't happen. ”
Indeed, Gu Tingye looked at this issue from his own perspective, thinking that his identity as the concubine of the Hou Mansion and the new emperor's celebrity, coupled with his painstaking efforts to marry her, was already a gift from heaven. Therefore, he arbitrarily thinks that she should be grateful to herself, or follow the example of Da Zou and be willing to do whatever it takes for love. Perhaps Minglan has interpreted the role of the little woman very well, and in the end she also shows an unreserved attitude.
Gu Tingye smiled coldly and said, "Master Hou, you can rest assured. So many childhood sweethearts were overwhelmed by the fears and worries of that time. I was worried that there was not enough time to think about the relationship between men and women. This kind of valuable thing, as an ordinary concubine daughter, is really difficult for me to entertain!”
As the saying goes, people are naturally greedy, and no matter how hard they put in, they will be compensated accordingly in the end. This mindset is probably the most straightforward way to achieve mental balance. As a result, those who love you or love you deeply at first tend to treat you later on as slimy food or the blood of mosquitoes.
There is a saying circulating on the Internet: When you meet the boy who is willing to spend a thousand yuan for you to buy perfume, a few thousand yuan for you to buy a necklace, and a mobile phone for you, but he is not willing to buy even a pack of cigarettes, you should trust love again. Love is not just about material things, but about wanting to be truly loved.
Initially, I genuinely thought that this was true love, and that it met the criteria of being loved. Love is about cherishing each other. However, true love does not mean the end, or more precisely, love is just an act for a period of time, so what does the future hold?Our relationship will slowly change from what started as a caress to a love-hate relationship. The journey of life is so long, so long, that you may first love someone deeply, and then deeply dislike that person, and love and hate are often the same person's emotions.
In Minglan's life journey, she has always adhered to the principle of loving herself and loving reality. In a strictly hierarchical feudal era, women often had no other choice but to rely on men. Even with a noble status like Mrs. Sheng, she married true love or was she defeated by reality, not to mention those low-status concubines?
However, everyone can't avoid the entanglement of emotion and love, otherwise she wouldn't need to deliberately avoid Qi Heng, and she wouldn't be constantly questioned by Gu Tingye, because love can always make people unable to escape, nor can they hide, let alone show it vividly.
Zhang Ailing believes that what can really be ** you is not the passage of time, but your understanding. It's harder to love someone than to love yourself. When love reaches its extreme, it is both for satisfaction and out of helplessness. Love you as if you were there for him. No matter who leaves you, remember that before he arrives, you are already alone, unable to let go and reluctant, and unwilling to accept it. So, there will always be so many people in your world, and you will always be just one person. Those who make mistakes, even if they encounter, will eventually choose to part ways, and those who are right, once they are on the verge of breaking up, may still meet again.
It is more important for women to love themselves than not to love themselves, because love carries too much and can hurt others. Men may re-engage in a relationship for a short period of time, but women are left with visible scars after being injured and can neither touch nor ask, and only when they get better themselves do they have more chances of being loved.
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