My name is Li Xiaofang, and I am 48 years old this year, which is considered to be middle-aged. My husband Zhang Qiang and I are both ordinary office workers, and we have been married for many years and have a good relationship. Recently, I noticed that my husband often works overtime and returns late, and he is always absent-minded when he comes home. At first, I thought he was under too much pressure at work, but day after day, his coldness towards me gave me a gut feeling.
I was surprised and asked, "Handsome guy?".Who are you talking about?”
Xing Li put on an ambiguous expression and said with a smile: "It's the Mr. Zhang I met in the mall yesterday, he is not tall but very delicate, wearing a famous brand, and he looks very tasteful." I accosted him a few words, and he responded to me politely. You say, how likely is it that such a man will be single?”
Xing Li grabbed my hand and said excitedly, "Don't hide it from me, it must be your husband, right?"Heck, I'll just say that if a man is so perfect, there must have been a woman married. I just didn't expect him to be two years older than me, and he looks so young and stylish!”
I had a vague sense of her intentions, and I was a little hesitant to answer. Xing Li didn't give me time to think, and then threw out an astonishing question: "You said, if he wants to change to a new love, will you agree?"”
I was stunned and looked at Xing Li in a daze. She actually offered such a sky-high condition, wanting to buy me to divorce my husband!My brain was a bit of a mess and I didn't know how to react for a while.
After a few seconds, I took a deep breath and tried to calm myself down. I looked into Xing Li's eyes and said slowly, "Sister Xing, I know you like my husband, but feelings can't be measured by money." My husband and I have been married for many years, and the relationship is not bad, I can't just let go. ”
Xing Li's face immediately changed, she threw away the real estate certificate in her hand, and said viciously: "Li Xiaofang, don't be too complacent!."You think I have to be your husband?I just took a casual look!Since you love your husband so deeply, then continue to guard your feelings, I don't bother to care!”
After speaking, Xing Li slammed the door and left. I stood still and could not calm down for a long time. I know that with Xing Li's personality, she will never give up. She will definitely try to get close to my husband, and I have to be vigilant.
When I got home, I pretended that nothing had happened and cooked as usual until my husband came home. But my husband was absent-minded all night and perfunctory to my questions. I couldn't help but ask him if there was something wrong with the company, and he said no, it's just that he's been busy lately.
A few days later, once my husband worked overtime until late, and I called him ** but no one answered. At 3 a.m., my husband came home drunk, disheveled, and there were obvious lipstick marks on his neck. I finally couldn't help but question him about cheating, but my husband didn't explain anything, only said that it was a work social, and told me not to be suspicious.
I got into a big fight with my husband, slapped him a few times, and kicked him out of the bedroom. Since then, our relationship has fallen to a freezing point. My husband doesn't come home almost every night, and his phone is often turned off. I knew he must be with Xing Li.
I was very sad, miserable, and frustrated. I told myself that even if my husband cheated, I couldn't go Xing Li's path to buy feelings. I love my husband deeply, even if he changes his mind, I must touch him with sincerity and cannot give up this marriage.
Just as I was struggling in pain, Xing Li reappeared.
One day I came home from work as usual, and as soon as I entered the house, I saw her sitting in the living room drinking tea. I was surprised and asked how she got in. Xing Li said proudly, it was your husband who opened the door for me, and he is now in the bedroom.
I was so angry that I went straight to the bedroom and saw my husband sitting on the edge of the bed playing with his phone. I asked him how he could bring Xing Li to our house, my husband's face changed, and he said loudly that I was thinking too much, and Xing Li just came to me to catch up.
At this time, Xing Li also came in, hugged her husband in her arms with a smile, and said, "Xiaofang, your husband was enthusiastic last night, and he entertained me very well!."”
My eyes widened, and my husband pushed Xing Li away with some embarrassment, and whispered to persuade her not to joke. My heart was like a knife, angry and sad, and I left the bedroom with my hand.
After a while, my husband finally mustered up the courage to talk to me. He had red circles in his eyes, and said in a sad tone that he was very sorry for me, he was indeed moved, but he had not yet had a relationship with Xing Li. He begged me to give him a chance to start over, and it would definitely be better for me in the future.
I was silent for a long time, looking at my husband's guilty look, but I decided to give this relationship another chance. After all, I have been married for many years, and I am reluctant to divorce him.
After that, in order to avoid Xing Li, we discussed moving to my husband's hometown for a while. At the beginning of life, the days were quite peaceful, my husband was very good to me, and our relationship seemed to have regained its original sweetness.
However, the good times did not last long, and about two months later, Xing Li suddenly came to the door. She pretended to be on good terms with me, gave me a lot of brand-name cosmetics, and called me to visit her house. I declined at first, but she was so stubborn that I couldn't do it, so I had to go once.
Who knew that Xing Li was the only one at home when I went, she asked me to go to the bedroom to get something, and she locked the door as soon as I entered. Outside the door, Xing Li smiled and said, "Let your husband feel the pain of losing you!."I jumped like thunder and slammed the door with all my strength, Xing Li didn't care at all, and quickly drove away.
Trapped in the bedroom of Xing Li's house, I panicked and desperately banged on the door to call for help, but the whole house was empty. I don't know how long later, I heard the sound of a car and my husband's anxious shouts outside the door.
Xiaofang!Are you in there?My husband slammed the door desperately, and finally smashed the door open a small crack, and I immediately rushed out and threw myself into my husband's arms. It turned out that Xing Li sent a message to her husband saying that she had imprisoned me, and my husband immediately drove hundreds of kilometers to rescue me.
My husband saw my frightened appearance, and he was so distressed that he hugged me and kept comforting me. He blamed himself and said: "It's all my fault, if I hadn't been tempted at the beginning, I wouldn't have caused this disaster." In the future, I will never approach Xing Li again, so I will concentrate on being good to you!”
I also think the most important thing now is that my husband is truly repentant. We decided to go straight back to our hometown, away from Xing Li, and start a new life.
Back in our hometown, we lived in my husband's ancestral house and lived a quiet and self-sufficient life. My husband puts all his mind on taking care of me and farming, and takes care of me. As the days go by, our relationship grows deeper and deeper, just like returning to the original love period.
We all thought that we could live a peaceful life after that, but Xing Li still found here. One day I was working in the vegetable garden when I suddenly saw her standing behind me and was startled. Xing Li said that she spent a lot of money to hire someone to find our whereabouts, and she couldn't bear it anymore and must take her husband away.
Xing Li and I had another big argument. At this moment, her husband came back, and when he saw Xing Li, his face changed, and he came over and picked her up, took her out of the door of the old house, and put her on the ground.
My husband said with a calm face: "Xing Li, please leave immediately, don't harass us again!."I have a very good relationship with my wife, and it is impossible for me to associate with you again!After saying that, he slammed the door and turned Xing Li away.
I looked at my husband's resolute appearance, my heart was hot, and I threw myself into his arms. This experience has taken our relationship as husband and wife to a new level. My husband regained his responsibilities as a husband and father, and I saw his reliability and charm again.
We hugged each other and cried, thanking us for the turmoil that allowed us to find the feeling of love in the first place. Since then, we have been in love with each other and lived a sweet and happy life. Even if Xing Li would visit and harass from time to time, she couldn't do anything in front of our strong feelings, and finally had to resign herself to leaving.
We have been together until we are white, raising children, and finally becoming peaceful. Whenever I think of the emotional turmoil when I was young, I just look at each other and smile warmly.
On this day, I went to work in the vegetable garden as usual, and I couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion when I remembered the emotional turmoil in the past.
Years ago, Xing Li's appearance almost ruined my marriage, but fortunately, my husband changed his mind in time, and we were able to get through that crisis. Now that I think about it, Xing Li is actually just lonely and unbearable, hoping to find the other half's support. Her approach is extreme, but it is understandable that she is desperate.
My husband and I went through such ups and downs, but it sublimated our relationship. Because we have re-examined the importance of each other and learned to appreciate the present more. Many people say that the most invincible thing about feelings is the passage of time. However, we have proved that as long as both parties work hard and stand the test of time and wind and frost, the relationship will become deeper.
Over the years, my husband and I have also been encouraging our children to put their feelings first. Our eldest son married his best friend last year. I remember that on the day of the wedding, my husband held my hand, and his eyes were full of tears. And I am sincerely happy for my son because he has found a partner with whom he can spend his life.
Life is a long road, and feelings are the source of strength that gives us. I often tell my grandchildren to learn to give love and to learn to receive love. There is a time when love fades, but as long as you manage it carefully, you can find it again. With family by your side, every stage of life will be full of sunshine.
In the afternoon, my husband called a few grandchildren to pick up eggs together. I smiled and watched them run after me in the yard, and there was nothing but joy in my heart.
As the sun set, the husband took his little granddaughter on his shoulders and walked back to the house. I stepped forward and helped him fix some messy hair. He looked up at me, and his eyes were as gentle as they had been then.
I suddenly wanted to tell my husband how grateful God had given us so many years to spend together. Thank you to him for not giving up in the ups and downs of life, and thank you for holding my hand all the time, from a young man to a full head of gray hair.
Life will not be smooth sailing, but with you by my side, I am not afraid of any difficulties and obstacles. The courage I want to keep going is because of the strength you bring me.
My husband seemed to guess my thoughts, he gently wiped away a little tear from the corner of my eyes, although his body was not as good as before, but his hands were still warm and powerful.
I know that at the end of my life, his hand will also hold me firmly, allowing me to walk through this life fearlessly and calmly.
The pear trees in the yard are starting to sprout, and the fruits of last year are gradually ripening. Early in the morning, I opened the window, and the smell of pear blossoms wafted all over the yard. The scent evokes countless fond memories of how much I looked forward to the arrival of spring, because spring represents hope and new life.
My husband was also awakened by the fragrance of flowers, and he stood beside me and whispered, "It's another spring, and we're all old." I took his rough hand and said with affection, "Not old, our hearts are still young." ”
The grandson ran over to call us for breakfast, and the children's laughter resounded throughout the courtyard. My husband and I looked at each other and smiled at this home with affection.
After eating, I started to get busy with household chores. My husband was pruning branches in the yard when suddenly a stranger opened the iron gate and walked in. He claimed to be a real estate agent and wanted to buy our old home. I hurriedly refused, but the man lobbied hard, and the ** offered was getting higher and higher.
I looked at my husband's firm back, and my heart warmed. This old mansion has witnessed the whole course of our lives, how can it be measured by money?The tree of love that my husband and I watered with sweat and tears has taken deep root in this land.
My husband came back and put his arm around my shoulders and said to my grandchildren in a serious voice, "No amount of money can buy peace and happiness in my heart." Know how to distinguish between what is truly valuable. ”
I looked at my husband proudly and thought to myself that this was the man I had followed all my life. The years and the wind and frost have long washed away the impetuous elements of his life, leaving behind the vast heart that is growing day by day.
On the road of life, we have harvested gray hair and wrinkles;But our hearts are still young, soft and warm. That's our greatest asset.
In the beautiful spring, my husband and I started planning a trip that we were talking about.
We wanted to revisit the places we used to go in love, and those scenes will surely bring back countless memories of our youthful years. My husband proposed to rent a cabin by the West Lake, and I happily agreed.
When we arrived at West Lake, it was getting late, so we found a quiet inn to stay. My husband said he wanted to surprise me and asked me to go to the room and wait for him first. After a while, he walked in with a large bag, smiled mysteriously, pulled out a camera and pressed the shutter at me.
It turned out that he remembered that I had always wanted a DSLR camera, so I went to a camera store and rented one. I was so happy that I held the camera and took pictures in front of my husband. Then we were in high spirits to shoot at the lake, and the moment I pressed the shutter, it was as if I had turned back time and returned to my youthful days.
At night, I took the camera and looked at the ** taken during the day, and it was my husband who looked at me gently. I gently stroked him on the **, and tears couldn't help but fall.
My husband came over, wiped away my tears with his thumb, and said softly: "Fool, when you are happy, you have to take beautiful photos and leave them for your children and grandchildren to see, aren't they all good memories?"”
These days are like going back to an old movie, and we are regaining the passion and sweetness of youth.
My husband held my hand tightly and vowed to be by my side so that we could overcome the difficulties again. I looked at his resolute eyes, nodded, and brace myself to accept **.
Life will inevitably have ups and downs, but as long as we are still together, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. I also want to live for my husband and spend the rest of my life with him. Heaven will give us another test, and we will definitely go through it hand in hand again.