When children reach the age of age, their eloquence will become very good, and their mouths will not stop talking. Sometimes we may feel that they are talking too much, so we ask them to shut up and be quiet, or we may feel that the questions asked by our children are too trivial. But actually, it's because of the childBrain thinkingThe development is not mature enough, so they will say what comes to their minds. And this process is actually a process of continuous exercise of logical thinking. At the same time, the ability to express oneself in language is also a manifestation of intelligence. Before speaking, children need to listen and watch, then analyze and judge, sort out things and express them clearly and completely, and finally add their own thoughts and ideas. This process requires the mobilization of various senses and neurons, which in turn prompts the brain's ability to think and transmit faster. Therefore, as parents, we should not blindly correct the frequency of children's speech, but encourage them to speak more and express more, so as to fully develop their thinking skills. When a child asks a question, we can stop to affirm his thinking Xi and encourage him to find the answer on his own.
Sometimes, we find that children are very engaged in doing something, such as indulging in playing with LegoBuilding blocks, puzzles or sand. At this time, the child will become very focused, undisturbed by the outside world, as if there is only the sound of what he wants to do in his ears. This ability to concentrate is indicative of the child'sFocusVery strong and able to concentrate on one thing. This kindFocusIt is of great significance to children's future Xi and work. Therefore, when we see that our children are very interested in something and are very focused, we should give them more time and space and not disturb them by force. At the same time, it is also necessary to teach them how to deal with other unexpected events in a state of high concentration, so as to improve themAdaptability
Some children like to disassemble all kinds of things, whether it's twisting screws on a clock or breaking a newly bought toy into several pieces, they are full of themCuriosityand the desire to explore. While such behavior can be a headache for parents, from another point of view, children are keen to disassemble things and illustrate theirsHands-on abilityParticularly strong, and at the same time shows that they have a sense of how everything worksCuriosityand the ability to think. We want to protect our childrenCuriosityto keep them asking questions and encourage them to think and explore. Of course, in protectionCuriosityAt the same time, we need to teach our children to respect other people's possessions and to distinguish between what they can freely explore and what they cannot.
Children are especially fond of imitating our behaviour in early childhood, they will imitate us sweeping the floor, doing laundry, playing football, and so on. This is because children learn Xi first through imitation, and by imitating constantly, they learn a variety of skills and movements. A child's ability to imitate can not only develop theirsXi ability, which also promotes the development of their thinking. Therefore, instead of discouraging children from imitating us, we should give them more opportunities to exercise their hands, eyes, and brains. At the same time, we need to be good role models for our children and guide them to imitate the right behaviors and values.
In general, the level of a child's IQ will be shown through their usual behavior. When children show the "minor faults" mentioned above, as parents, we should not worry and correct them, but give them more encouragement and support. These "little problems" are actually the embodiment of children's intelligence and ability, and they are their developing advantages. We must be good at discovering and nurturing children's potential, and help them fully develop their intelligence and talents.