The eldest sister was seriously ill and lying in the intensive care unit of the hospital, my father asked our four brothers and sisters to give the eldest sister 10,000 yuan each to see a doctor, I said that I would not pay this money, and I was slapped by my father on the spot, and I ran out of the hospital crying.
I have five brothers and sisters, three older sisters, and my brother and I are twins. When we were born, all three older sisters were married. In my impression, the three sisters will only come to the house for dinner during the New Year's holidays, and they rarely come back.
Every time my three sisters come back, they always ignore me, but they have a different attitude towards my brother. The three of them all rushed to play with their brother and make him happy, especially the eldest sister, whose attitude was even more obvious.
I remember once when I came back for the Chinese New Year, I happily showed my sister the certificate issued by the school, and the eldest sister took the certificate and glanced at it and threw it directly on the ground, and said that there was nothing to be proud of with a certificate, and it would not be a big deal in the future.
I locked myself in my room during dinner that day, and I didn't go out to say goodbye to my parents when they left. At night, I heard my mother and dad arguing in the room, and I vaguely heard my mother say that my father was too partial to my sister when she was a child, and my father thought that my mother was turning over old accounts or something.
The next day I asked my mother why my sisters didn't like me and liked my brother, and my mother told me not to ask about the children, so she pushed me aside. In the future, when my sisters come back to the house, I will smile politely at most, and I will not have any irrelevant communication with them.
When I graduated from junior college, I wanted to work in other places, but my mother didn't agree with me going out as a girl, saying that as long as I could stay by her side, I could just find a job and pay enough money. I couldn't screw her, so I stayed in the city to find a job in a supermarket and did it first.
My brother was introduced by his brother-in-law to a company with a good salary, and he didn't forget to buy me a small gift when he paid his salary. I've always thought that among my siblings, my brother is the only one who loves me the most, probably because we are twins.
In my second year of work, my mother's mental state began to have problems, and she would sit all day and cry inexplicably. My brother and I took her to the doctor, who prescribed us a lot of medication and explained how to communicate with the patient.
I had to go to work during the day, and my brother and I were not at home, so I asked my father to watch my mother every day and told her to drink medicine. Slowly I found out that my mother's illness was getting worse and worse, and when I returned from the evening shift, my mother would stand in the living room with a kitchen knife and scold, saying that someone was going to bully me.
I knew that my mother was worried that it would be unsafe for me to come back too late from work, and her situation was getting worse and worse, so I simply quit my job and went home to take care of my mother, and my brother agreed, saying that he would give me pocket money every month. The sisters came to see once in a while, and after a few minutes, they all left.
Once, I overheard my eldest sister and my dad talking in the kitchen. The eldest sister said that I had already told you that after my mother left, our sisters would take turns to take care of you, so you had to make trouble for yourself and give birth to a little one. See, if she doesn't get better in the future, you can serve her.
It dawned on me that no wonder they didn't like me so much for so many years, it turned out that I was not the same mother as them. But my brother and I are twins, why are they so nice to my brother?I forced my father to tell the truth that day, and it turned out that the only brother who was good to me was not the brother of the same mother.
My brother was actually two years older than me, and his mother died of hemorrhage after giving birth to him. My mother, who had a failed marriage, was introduced to my father with four children, because my father had a house in the city and a job that everyone envied, so my mother's family forced my mother to agree to the marriage.
I was born in the second year of marriage, and in order to hide the death of my brother's biological mother, they made up together that my brother and I were twins. And this big lie, my brother actually told him when I was very young, and I was the last person in the family to know.
I didn't say a word, I turned around and went back to my mother's room to sit with her for an afternoon. I secretly swore in my heart that my mother was the only relative in this family, and I must treat her well.
I take care of my mother with three meals a day and feed her medicine. I took her out to the park during the day and slept with her at night, and soon my mother's mental state began to improve, and then it was basically normal, and my hanging heart was finally put down.
Later, my brother and I got married and had children one after another, and my father and mother helped my brother watch the children at home, and life began to be as simple and calm as I longed for.
This time, the eldest sister suddenly fell seriously ill, and my father ordered us to exchange money. When I think of how she treated me when I was a child, and all kinds of dislike when my mother was sick, I really don't want to take a penny.
Written at the end: This is the real experience of my friends around me. After knowing each other for so many years, it is the first time I have heard her tell her about her life experience.
When her mother was sick, I accompanied my aunt to the hospital with her to see a doctor and get medicine, and I went to many doctors, but I never heard her talk about her life experience.
I remember that we used to envy her for having so many sisters and a twin brother, she smiled and said nothing, she didn't think that she had been carrying so much pressure for so many years.
Faced with the eldest sister's indifference to her all the year round, I couldn't convince myself from my heart to persuade her to change her attitude towards the eldest sister. You should repay those who are good to you, and don't mind too much about those who are not good to you, human nature should still be like this.
The eldest sister is a half-sister with a certain blood relationship, and the only thing I can do is listen to her patiently. I believe that after calming down, she will have a correct way to deal with this matter.