In marriage, women who respond to men's needs and think about men in everything often do not receive true love, but are despised by them.
Because of lowering himself, he lost his independence and lost his charm.
On the contrary, women who are calm and value their feelings can firmly grasp the hearts of men.
It is often said that since ancient times, the emperor's family has been indifferent.
Specifically, such women are often ruthless, live a sober life, and can objectively and independently make the most favorable judgments and choices based on the actual situation.
1.Don't lower the bottom line over and over again.
There is an immutable rule in interpersonal communication, which is that the attitude of others towards us is determined by ourselves.
If a woman looks down on herself, thinks that she doesn't deserve anything, and swallows it in marriage, the man will feel that this kind of woman is very worthless, and then he will not value her in the future.
If a woman turns around boldly and maintains a ruthless posture when a man treats her badly, a man will find that such a woman just cherishes herself and can't tolerate a little grievance.
Don't lower your bottom line, or he'll think you're a bully. If you make the other party think that your bottom line can be lowered indefinitely, then the other party's behavior will only get worse.
As the classic quote says: Cheating and domestic violence are only once and countless times.
In Zhang Ailing's ** "Love in a Fallen City", the heroine Bai Tassel met Fan Liuyuan after the divorce, Bai Tassel thought that she had met true love, but she didn't expect that Fan Liuyuan just regarded Bai Tassel as a plaything.
He thought that White Tassel would abandon his dignity and follow him desperately, but in fact, on the contrary, White Tassel did not allow any man to abuse him, and he never bowed his knees.
Fan Liuyuan finally understood that a woman like Bai Tassel was very difficult to mess with, and only a man's sincere care could move her.
At the end of the story, Fan Liuyuan disarmed and surrendered.
He gave Bai Tassel a lot of true affection, making her the winner of this relationship.
This is also something that women should learn to Xi.
The more a woman loves herself and is more self-reliant, the less men dare to bully you.
If a man is cold to you, you have to be more ruthless than him.
The more ruthless he is, the more he will understand that you are not a flower that can be manipulated at will, but a flower that needs to be carefully cultivated.
From then on, he will become a hard-working gardener, forever surrounding you.
This kind of desperation is not how ruthless your heart becomes, but always maintain your own pattern and dignity, and do not let yourself fall into emotional difficulties.
So that you can bloom forever in a loving environment.
2.Don't give up your dignity, don't lose yourself.
After a man changes his mind, a woman hysterically kneels and begs not to leave, which is the most unwise behavior.
For a man who is no longer in love, a broken relationship is simply not worth nostalgia for.
If he wants to go, we will not stay.
Only women who stop their losses in time can gain real initiative.
Because I have always maintained my own thinking attitude, I will have a sparkling charm.
A woman who is not afraid of losing and moves forward bravely can usher in a better destination.
Stella in "Perfect Relationship" is such a ruthless woman, in the face of her husband's cheating, she decisively chose to divorce and let the scumbag leave the house.
A woman's ruthlessness is not ruthless, and she refuses to live a miserable life, sticks to her dignity and boundaries, and always maintains a tasteful posture.
Life is always about following the law of attraction.
is like the male protagonist Mo Qingcheng said to the female protagonist Gu Sheng in the TV series "I Miss You Very Much": You are the best.
The heroine is neither humble nor arrogant, and responds: I am the best.
Never give up your dignity and don't lose yourself.
That's what we're most dear to.