The eldest brother and sister-in-law have been married for ten years, but they have never had children.
For this, the mother-in-law broke her heart.
Not long ago, the eldest brother accompanied the sister-in-law to the provincial capital to do IVF, which was the sixth time they did IVF and the last time they did IVF.
Because, they said that this road was really difficult, and if it didn't succeed this time, they would completely give up having children.
My mother-in-law, who lives in my eldest brother's house, happily called me and said, Xiaohui, your sister-in-law has removed two embryos this time, and she will go to the hospital tomorrow morning to check her blood, and she will definitely be able to conceive this time.
I casually asked, didn't my sister-in-law test it first with a test strip?
The mother-in-law sighed and said that she didn't test it, she said that she didn't have the courage, so she had to wait for the blood test.
I said that this is fine, the blood test is the most accurate.
Hung up**, I turned my head and asked my husband, who was accompanying the two children to do their homework, do you think the eldest brother and sister-in-law can succeed this time?
My husband shook his head stupidly, I look at the suspense, but I still wish them a good pregnancy.
I nodded and didn't speak, thinking about my eldest brother and sister-in-law in the past ten years, in order to have a child, I have seen all Chinese and Western medicine, and spent hundreds of thousands, which is really difficult enough.
The next morning, my mother-in-law accompanied my sister-in-law to the hospital to check her blood, and it was almost noon, and there was no news.
I thought to myself, my sister-in-law's test tube most likely failed again this time, if it was successful, my mother-in-law would have called ** to report the good news.
I was hesitating to ask if I wanted to call, and my husband said, don't fight, the more you care, the more sad my sister-in-law will be.
I thought about it, so I put down my phone and felt uneasy.
At this moment, ** suddenly rang, picked it up and saw that it was my mother-in-law calling.
I immediately took the ** and asked cautiously, "Mom, is the result of my sister-in-law's blood test out?"How's it going?”
The mother-in-law sighed softly, as if she had just cried, and her voice was a little angry: "Your sister-in-law failed again this time, even worse than the previous times, and the doctor said that she didn't get into bed at all!."”
Although I had expected it, I was still very sad when I heard my mother-in-law tell the bad news, and said to my mother-in-law: "Sister-in-law must be very sad now, no one dares to guarantee success in this matter, the matter has come to this point, I can only accept and face it, you and my eldest brother must not blame my sister-in-law, enlighten her well." ”
The mother-in-law snorted lightly, and said in a strange manner: "No one blames her, what's the use of blaming her?"She's also pitiful, your eldest brother is with her. I don't know what kind of sin has been created, other people's birth is as simple as a piglet!When she came here, it was even more difficult than ascending to the sky, and she hadn't given birth to a son and a half daughter in ten years!If it were in the old days, she wouldn't be a real woman!Your eldest brother is an amorous person, and if he were another man, he would have divorced a long time ago!”
The more my mother-in-law talked, the more excessive, I couldn't help but yell at her: "Mom!".How do you speak!Sister-in-law is sad enough, if your words are heard by your sister-in-law, don't you sprinkle salt on her wounds!For so many years, the relationship between the eldest brother and sister-in-law has always been very good, you must not sabotage it, and the matter of having a child should have been fateful. ”
The mother-in-law sighed: "Aren't I anxious for them?"For the sake of everyone, my old wife is dying of sorrow!Your dad didn't see the boss hugging the child before he died, should I die without turning a blind eye?”
My father-in-law has been dead for many years, and my biggest regret before leaving is that I didn't see the children of my eldest brother and sister-in-law. ”
The mother-in-law still sighed and said: "The children now are the treasures of the family, how can they be so easy to adopt!."Besides, of course, children are still good for themselves, and other people's children can't be raised!”
My mother-in-law's words made me speechless, only to hear my mother-in-law say again: "It's still the fate of you and the second child, get married early and have children early, a son and a daughter, a family of four is happy, how happy!."Moreover, I don't have to worry about it as an old woman. ”
When my mother-in-law said this, I looked up at the family photo on the TV cabinet, and my heart suddenly warmed, I didn't have my sister-in-law who was beautiful, and I didn't have a sister-in-law who was educated, but I had two lively children, a complete family, and I was indeed luckier than my sister-in-law in this regard.
I didn't want to talk to my mother-in-law, and when I was about to hang **, my mother-in-law suddenly said: "Xiaohui, you and Ah Yong will come to the old family this weekend, I have something to discuss with you." ”
Ah Yong is my husband, I was curious, and asked my mother-in-law, "What is it, can't you say it now?"”
The mother-in-law said mysteriously: "Now your sister-in-law is sad, it's not time, wait for the weekend, you come over and say it in person." ”
My mother-in-law didn't want to say it, and I didn't want to ask again, so I could only agree: "Okay, just go and see my sister-in-law." ”
After talking to my mother-in-law, I breathed a sigh of relief, thinking of what she had just said about my sister-in-law in **, I couldn't help but feel a chill in my heart, if I can't have a child like my sister-in-law, will my mother-in-law also complain about me like this?
Hey!It's the same woman, why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman?
I still remember that my mother-in-law used to set up a group and pulled the whole big family into the group. In order to be lively, everyone has endless conversations every day, and the most talked about is the topic of children, and they always like to show children's **.
Because the sister-in-law has no children, she never speaks in the group.
Once, a relative of Madahar asked my mother-in-law directly in the group, why doesn't your eldest daughter-in-law speak every time?Don't you have a common language with us?
Without waiting for my mother-in-law to reply, my sister-in-law personally replied: "You show your children every day, what can I say?"Have you taken my feelings into account?”
After the sister-in-law said this, she immediately withdrew from the group, which made the relative very embarrassed, and told my mother-in-law that she just asked casually, which was unintentional.
The mother-in-law was also very angry, on the one hand, she was angry that her sister-in-law was too sensitive, and on the other hand, she was angry that the relative couldn't speak, so she simply disbanded the family group.
For this reason, my sister-in-law hid in the house and cried, and my mother-in-law complained in front of me that my sister-in-law was too stingy!
Looking back over the years, because of the birth of a child, my beautiful sister-in-law has indeed suffered a lot from her mother-in-law, and now she is a lot haggard. Big brother, it's like a different person, listless all day long.
I often think that if my eldest brother and sister-in-law can have children like most people, they will definitely have a happy life.
The eldest brother and sister-in-law are both college classmates and peers, and both are teachers in school. Although they fell in love as early as college, they got married late, almost thirty years old. At that time, my first child was five or six years old.
Considering the age issue, the eldest brother and sister-in-law put the matter of having children in the first place after they got married. I just didn't expect to encounter such a problem as infertility.
In the years when my sister-in-law first got married, she got along very well with the people in the family, and she was also generous and upright, with a gentle and close smile on her face at any time.
Later, because she couldn't conceive a child, her sister-in-law's mental pressure was too great, the smile on her face became less and less, and her temper became irritable, and she quarreled with her eldest brother at every turn, and even filed for divorce.
The eldest brother loves his sister-in-law and is reluctant to part with his sister-in-law, his temperament is gentle, and he only treats his sister-in-law as angry, and has been silently accompanying his sister-in-law to tide over the difficulties.
Year after year, the road of preparing for pregnancy has been going for a full decade, and people can't help but sigh.
The weekend was fast approaching, and my husband and I took our two children and bought some nutritional products to my eldest brother's house.
The eldest brother and sister-in-law received us with a smiling face, and I took my sister-in-law's hand and gently comforted her a few words, and the sister-in-law immediately shed tears after hearing it, looking at my two children, her eyes were full of envy.
My mother-in-law was cooking in the kitchen, and I went up to help, and asked her by the way, "Mom, you said that you have something to discuss with us, what is the matter?"”
My mother-in-law paused, stared at me for a few seconds, and sighed, "Let's eat first!."After eating, he spoke slowly. ”
At the dining table, the family sat down together, the mother-in-law had a straight face, the eldest brother and sister-in-law did not speak, and my husband and I did not dare to say much.
A simple meal, eating the feeling of Hongmen Banquet.
Half an hour later, the meal was finally finished.
I helped my mother-in-law clean up the dishes and chopsticks, but she didn't let me do anything and asked me to talk to my sister-in-law.
I had no choice but to obey the order, sit next to my sister-in-law, and say something that I didn't have, which even made me feel embarrassed.
After a while, the mother-in-law came out of the kitchen, and she went straight to the bedroom, taking her handbag and walking towards everyone.
I pointed to the bag in my mother-in-law's hand and asked, "Mom, are you going out?"”
The mother-in-law didn't answer, sat down on the sofa, took out a few dozen dollars from her handbag, and placed them neatly on the table, totaling 50,000 yuan.
We all stared at my mother-in-law with puzzled faces, not understanding what she was going to do.
My mother-in-law looked up and swept around everyone, and finally her eyes fell on me and my husband, and said to us, "Xiaohui, Ah Yong, I gave you this 50,000 yuan." ”
My husband and I were flattered and looked at each other, I turned to my mother-in-law and said, "Mom, what do you mean by this?"”
My mother-in-law glanced at my eldest brother and sister-in-law, and sighed to my husband and me: "You have also seen the situation of the old family, and they have done six test tubes before and after without success, and I see that they have no confidence in being tossed." So, I want you to help them have a baby. ”
My mother-in-law's words stunned us, and my husband stood up directly and yelled at my mother-in-law: "Mom, are you crazy!".”
I pressed my husband down and asked my mother-in-law, "Mom, is this what you want to discuss with us?"”
The mother-in-law nodded and said, "That's right, that's it." I know this is very embarrassing for you, but Mom can't help it, seeing that your eldest brother and sister-in-law are all forty years old, and they don't even have a son and a half daughter, I'm really worried about them. ”
I was embarrassed and said, "Mom, no matter how anxious you are, you can't mess up your proportions!."Let's not say that we don't agree to this matter, I don't think my eldest brother and sister-in-law will agree either. ”
They will agree!The mother-in-law didn't ask, and directly took the attention of the eldest brother and sister-in-law, "Instead of raising other people's children, it is better to have your own blood." ”
I glanced at my eldest brother and sister-in-law, and their faces were as dead as ashes, obviously angry with their mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law squeezed my hand and said, "Xiaohui, you have always been good at giving birth and you are still young, so it is not difficult for you to have a child." This 50,000 yuan is my pension, if you are too little, when I save enough money in the future, I will make it up for you, okay?Your eldest brother and sister-in-law have spent a lot of money on this matter for their children over the years, and they are also nervous now, so you should be considerate and considerate. ”
I blushed and said, "Mom, it's not about money!".I can't agree to this. ”
My mother-in-law immediately let go of my hand, sank her face, and said angrily to my eldest brother and sister-in-law: "I have worked so hard for the two of you, why don't you two speak, what do you think about this?"”
The eldest brother's thinking has always been old-fashioned, and he will never agree with his character, but I saw him lowering his head and rubbing his face, and said with a bitter face: "Mom, aren't you slapping me in the face by doing this?"It's enough that I can't have children, and you still let my younger siblings help me pass on the lineage, do you want everyone to come and see my jokes?”
The mother-in-law was stunned and said angrily: "You kid, how can you talk?."I am for your good, when you are old, there must be a descendant to honor you!”
My husband couldn't help but interject and scolded his mother-in-law: "Does filial piety have to rely on children?"Even if my brother and sister-in-law have no children and no daughters in their lives, we will not ignore them, and my sons and daughters will also honor them when they grow up!Why do we have to have a baby now?Aren't you being vexatious?”
My mother-in-law was so angry with my eldest brother and my husband that she was so angry that she was speechless for a while, and at this time, the sister-in-law who had never spoken spoke up: "Don't quarrel, I don't agree with this matter." ”
When my mother-in-law heard this, she became even more angry, pointed at us one by one and said, "You all deliberately went against me, didn't you!."I'm so kind and haven't reciprocated!”
The sister-in-law stood up suddenly, stared at her mother-in-law expressionlessly and said, "Mom, I know that you are for our good, but some things are not as simple as you think!."I'll tell you the truth, I'd rather Howen go out and find a woman to have a child than my brother and sister help us have a baby!”
Howen is the eldest brother, and my sister-in-law's words not only shocked my mother-in-law, but my husband and I were also taken aback, and even the eldest brother raised his head, stared at his sister-in-law and asked, "What do you mean?".”
The sister-in-law said lightly: "It's not interesting, it's just that I'm tired, I don't want to drag you down anymore, either divorce or adopt one, and then you go outside to find a woman to give birth to you!."In any case, I will not agree to my younger siblings helping us have a baby, that will only make me awkward and embarrassed!”
After my sister-in-law finished speaking, she went back to the bedroom without waiting for us to react, and she didn't come out again, and the atmosphere in the house became dull.
I cleared my throat and persuaded my mother-in-law: "Mom, my sister-in-law is angry, don't mention this matter again, let the eldest brother and sister-in-law take care of the child's affairs." ”
The mother-in-law wanted to speak and stopped, leaning on the sofa and rubbing her temples and shouting about a headache.
I saw that the time was not early, so I got up and pulled the two children in my hands, glanced at my husband, and said goodbye to my mother-in-law and eldest brother: "Mom, eldest brother, if there is nothing wrong, we will go back first, sister-in-law is in a bad mood now, don't disturb her, let her be quiet alone." ”
The mother-in-law sighed lightly and waved her hand weakly: "Let's go!."Let's go!”
After that, my husband and I left with our children.
After this incident, my husband and I were worried, for fear that my eldest brother and sister-in-law would divorce, after all, the two had loved each other for so many years, and if they really divorced, no one would be happy.
Fortunately, this time everyone figured it out, the eldest brother and sister-in-law not only did not divorce, but also went to the welfare home to adopt a child, although the mother-in-law was a little unhappy about this, but she was helpless and approved the matter.
I enlightened my mother-in-law that since you brought the child back, you are a family, and you must treat the child as well as your own grandson, and you must not be prejudiced.
The mother-in-law nodded lightly and said with emotion, yes, although it is not a biological child, but their family is complete!My body is getting worse day by day, and I don't bother to worry about them anymore, I still want to live a few more years!”
I smiled silently, although my mother-in-law sometimes went too far, but I knew that she still felt partial to her eldest brother and sister-in-law.
Since adopting the child, the eldest brother and sister-in-law's mental outlook has also improved a lot, and they even regret not adopting it earlier.
Watching my eldest brother and sister-in-law live a happy life as a family of three, my husband and I are also happy for them.
In a family, children are important, but the relationship between husband and wife is also very important, just like the eldest brother and sister-in-law, they have loved each other for more than ten years from college to marriage.
If you divorce because you don't have children, how sad and regretful it will be if your feelings for more than ten years come to naught!
From now on, I hope that my mother-in-law will get along well with my eldest brother and sister-in-law, and I also hope that our family will be reunited and harmonious.