After a year of dating and getting along, Xiao Wang and I registered our marriage. The wedding was held in the community park of Xiao Wang's house, which was very warm and romantic. After I got married, I moved in with Xiao Wang. The first days were very sweet and we had a very loving life.
Meimei, let me tell you, our family rules, sons-in-law and daughters-in-law have to give their in-laws a certain amount of living expenses every month. If you get married, you have to abide by this rule and give me 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses, you know?My mother-in-law stood at the door and said to me with an unquestioning expression.
As soon as I heard it, I became angry: "Mother-in-law, I have already expressed my position very clearly. Now the law stipulates that the property of the husband and wife is independent, and I use the money I earn for myself. You have a pension, and Xiao Wang will give you living expenses, so I don't need to give you a separate living allowance. This kind of demand is really unreasonable. ”
Unreasonable?What are you talking about unreasonable and unreasonable women who have stepped into my door?If you marry into my family, you will have to pay me living expenses, this is the rule!The mother-in-law raised her voice and looked like she was going crazy.
I wanted to explain to my mother-in-law again, but she couldn't listen anymore. I saw my mother-in-law pacing back and forth in the room angrily, crying and making trouble: "I knew it, I knew that there was no good fruit to eat when I chose you as a woman!."I don't even understand the basic etiquette, it's a shame for our family!”
Xiao Wang was awakened by her mother-in-law's crying and ran in. He was trying to persuade his mother-in-law to calm down, but her mother-in-law pointed at his nose and scolded: "Are you still here?."You, who are a son, are so unbelievable that you even protect your wife and don't pay me living expenses!My old face can hold on!”
I saw that my mother-in-law was too unreasonable, so I immediately prepared to pack up my things and move out. Seeing this, Xiao Wang hurriedly grabbed me and said, "Wife, calm down, let's reason with my mother slowly, don't drill the horns like this." ”
I shook off Xiao Wang's hand and said to him in a serious tone, "Xiao Wang, I don't think there is anything wrong with me that needs to be reexplained. Your mom is objectifying me, and I don't have to be treated like this. I also have dignity in marriage. Whose side are you on, figure it out for yourself before you come to me. ”
After saying that, I went straight back to the room to pack some necessities, leaving Xiao Wang still coaxing the emotional mother-in-law. I am very sad that Xiao Wang did not fully support me in this matter, and I am also very tired that my mother-in-law is so unreasonable. But thinking that she was already old, I put up with it.
After packing my bags, I decided to go back to my parents' house for a few days to give everyone a calm space. As soon as I went out, I saw my mother-in-law rushing over with Xiao Wang, and hysterically said that she would check my luggage to see if I had stolen anything from the house.
You!My mother-in-law was speechless by me, so she could only shake her hands away angrily. Xiao Wang looked at me, and then at my mother-in-law who was far away, and when she wanted to speak, she also followed her mother-in-law away.
When I returned to my parents' house, I told my mother all the ins and outs of the incident. She was also surprised that Xiao Wang's mother-in-law was so unreasonable and said that she would fully support me.
I stayed at my mother's house for two days, and my mother-in-law called ** and said that I should go back immediately, otherwise I would divorce Xiao Wang. I hung up angrily and resolutely would not be threatened.
After a few more days, Xiao Wang finally called. He said that he had communicated well with his mother-in-law, and his mother-in-law also realized that it was too much at that time, and her emotions had calmed down a lot. He told me to go home and hope we all started over.
I thought twice about it, but decided to go back and have a look. After all, I also love Xiao Wang, and I don't want to easily destroy our marriage because of this matter.
On the day I went home, my mother-in-law was obviously still very cold to me, but she didn't mention the living expenses again, but she was okay.
In the evening, I had a frank conversation with Xiao Wang about the hurt caused by this incident, and said that he really needed to take a stand between me and my mother-in-law to support me, so that I could feel the dignity of being a wife. Xiao Wang said that he knew that he was sorry for me in this matter and solemnly apologized to me.
After a while, our lives seemed to be calm again, but I felt that my mother-in-law's hostility towards me was growing. She began to deliberately make a mess of the house, and often found fault with me, saying in front of Xiao Wang that my food was unpalatable, and the furniture I purchased was vulgar and so on.
Every time I heard my mother-in-law slander me, Xiao Wang just smiled and didn't comment. I felt that my mother-in-law was deliberately taking revenge on me for not giving her living expenses.
Then one day I couldn't bear it anymore, and I begged my mother-in-law to stop embarrassing me and Xiao Wang. I said I could take care of her diet, but I couldn't talk about living expenses.
My mother-in-law directly rejected me, saying that my daughter-in-law would be unfilial if she didn't pay her in-laws living expenses!She shouted that Xiao Wang would divorce me immediately and marry an obedient daughter-in-law back, and I would get out of this house quickly!
I cried and begged Xiao Wang not to divorce me, but Xiao Wang still looked like he couldn't figure out the situation. This time, I strongly demanded that Xiao Wang must take a stand between me and my mother-in-law, otherwise I will pack up my things and leave now.
Xiao Wang was in a dilemma, saying that this matter could not only listen to me, he needed to think carefully. This time, it was my turn to lose control of my emotions, so I quarreled with Xiao Wang on the spot, and went directly to my parents' house to move out again.
After staying at my sister's house for more than a week, my mood still did not improve. My mother-in-law actually found my sister's house to harass me, and said in front of my sister and me that she would kick me out of this house, which was too much.
Later, my mother called** and said that the neighbors in the community were spreading gossip about me and my mother-in-law, and asked me to stop making trouble, and quickly go back to apologize to my mother-in-law, and I was reluctant to let the child catch the wolf.
How could I go and kneel and lick my mother-in-law!But I can't resist my mother, so I can only avoid this question first.
On this day, I suddenly started vomiting repeatedly and felt unwell. My sister saw that I seemed to be pregnant, and helped me buy a pregnancy test, which actually showed that I was 2 months pregnant!
I was both happy and scared, happy because I had Xiao Wang's flesh and blood, and afraid because I was worried that my mother-in-law would find out that I was pregnant and would retaliate wildly. After thinking about it, I decided to hide it from my mother-in-law first and wait for Xiao Wang to pick me up and go home.
After a few more days, Xiao Wang finally called. He softened his tone and said that he had already talked to his mother-in-law and wanted me to go home. He also apologized to me and said that he would find a way to solve the problem and would not make my mother-in-law embarrassed me again.
I hesitated, but decided to go back and give it a try. But I made it clear that if my mother-in-law does this again, I will divorce Xiao Wang immediately.
As soon as I got home, my mother-in-law keenly noticed that something was wrong with me. She asked me if I was pregnant, and I denied it, but soon she found the box of the pregnancy test, and the fact of pregnancy was laid out in front of her.
You vixen, you're going to give birth to a wild seed to slander our family, aren't you?Hurry up and beat me down!"My mother-in-law started to lash out again and told me to go to the hospital immediately**.
Mother-in-law, this is already my and Xiao Wang's child, please don't say that!I'm not going to knock it out. I said firmly.
Okay, you don't know what to do!Then get out of here for me, don't defile our house!The mother-in-law yelled hysterically.
Mother-in-law, I blamed you for it before. But this time, if you are unreasonable and force me to **, I can only really divorce Xiao Wang. This is a matter for the two of us, so please don't interfere too much. "I'm serious.
My mother-in-law seemed to realize my determination, and her emotions gradually calmed down. "Then you give birth, I don't want your mother and son to be gone!She said through gritted teeth.
Although her mother-in-law's attitude softened, every time she mentioned the child after that, she still had a disdainful expression. I can only hope that time will slowly dispel her prejudices and restore warmth to our family.
After I became pregnant, my attitude towards Xiao Wang also eased. We started preparing for the arrival of the baby together.
I hope that this new life will lead to greater understanding between the two families, and that the relationship between me and my mother-in-law will be reactivated and put on the road to reconciliation. I will try my best to win my mother-in-law's understanding and respect, so that our family can be happier.
Although there is a long way to go, I believe that as long as both parties have a tolerant and kind attitude, we will gradually run in and welcome the new member of the family together.