As parents, we all want our children to grow up healthy and become moral, talented, and caring people. However, sometimes we find that our children become more and more like enemies, they do not understand our good intentions, and even become disgusted and hostile towards us. At this time, what should parents do?
First of all, parents need to calm down and not be swayed by their children's emotions. We need to be clear about our position and attitude, and at the same time, we must respect the feelings of our children. Only when we can face our children with peace of mind will we be able to solve problems better.
Second, parents need to rethink their own approach to education. Are we being too strict or not caring enough for our children?Are we not giving our children enough freedom and space?It is only by reflecting on one's own approach to education that one can find the root of the problem.
Third, parents need to have an open and honest communication with their children. We want to listen to our children's thoughts and feelings and understand their needs and expectations. Only when we truly understand our children's inner world can we better guide them on the right path.
Fourth, parents need to set the right values in their children. We need to teach our children what is right and what is wrong, what should be done and what should not be done. It is only when we set the right values for our children that they will be able to better understand our good intentions.
Finally, parents need to give their children enough love and attention. We want our children to feel loved and cared for, and let them know that we have their back. It is only when we give our children enough love and attention that they will be able to grow and develop better.
In conclusion, when children become more and more like enemies, parents need to calm down, reflect on their own parenting methods, communicate openly with their children, establish correct values for their children, and give their children enough love and attention. Only in this way can we help children get out of difficulties and make them become moral, talented, and caring people.