The sophistication of human feelings has always been an important part of the teaching of parents to their younger generations, but in the context of many college students, the concept of human sophistication has gradually taken on a derogatory connotation. Do they really not understand and dislike the world?Or rather, they are resisting certain forms of social interaction that are ineffective, meaningless, and overly purposeful.
In traditional Chinese society, sophistication was seen as a survival skill. Whether you like it or not, you need to deal with it. Many parents want their children to understand the world so that they can better adapt to society and integrate into the big family. However, when this expectation becomes a pressure, an irresistible factor, the sophistication of human feelings can become frustrating. Socializing became a task, and the joy that should have been lost was lost.
So, why are young people becoming more and more disgusted with human sophistication?In my opinion, this may have something to do with several factors:
First, the transformation of the values of modern society. With the rapid development of society and the renewal of personal values, young people pay more attention to authenticity and directness. They tend to express themselves authentically and communicate openly with others, rather than over-wrapping themselves or playing tricks. This attitude towards authenticity makes them disgusted by hypocritical forms of socializing.
Secondly, the diversification of social methods. With the rise of the new **, the way of communication has also undergone earth-shaking changes. Young people are more Xi to communicating through social ** platforms, a format that allows them to selectively interact with interested people without being bound by human feelings. This eliminates the need for people to go through traditional networks to obtain resources or gain recognition, and reduces their dependence on human sophistication.
Furthermore, young people's values and goals have changed. In the past, human sophistication was seen as an effective means to improve social status and compete for resources. However, modern young people pay more attention to personal growth and self-fulfillment, and they are more interested in true self-identity and inner satisfaction, rather than relying too much on external recognition and relationships.
Therefore, young people's aversion to the world does not mean that they do not understand or dislike the world, but that they are resistant to some useless, meaningless, and purposeful ways of socializing. For young people, socializing should be a spontaneous and sincere communication, not a task that is imperative. Therefore, if we want young people to have a positive attitude towards the world, we need to rethink and change the traditional way of education, so that they can learn to know themselves, express themselves, and interact with others through honest communication. In this way, we can cultivate a young generation with real human sophistication skills, who not only know how to get along with others, but more importantly, can have their own personality and values, and face society and interpersonal relationships with sincerity and kindness.