In the long journey of life, the question of filial piety often causes us to think deeply. It is the traditional moral norm and the spiritual core of the Chinese nation. But what is filial piety?Zhou Bingyi, the eldest son of the Zhou family, is undoubtedly an elite in society, and his life trajectory is completely in line with his parents' expectations. He married Hao Dongmei, the second generation of officials, adding supreme brilliance to the Zhou family. He is the greatest pride of Zhou's father, and his excellence is impeccable. However, there is a hint of coldness hidden behind his excellence. Although he was humble and filial to his daughter-in-law's mother-in-law, so that Hao Dongmei couldn't stand it, their family still lived in the worst environmental conditions in the city. Is this because in order to meet Zhou's father's expectations, he is unable to fulfill his filial piety?
In fact, otherwise, he could have asked for the allocated house to live alone, and then took his parents over. But he obeyed his mother-in-law's words, gave up the separate room and continued to live in a small western-style building to take care of her. And what about Zhou Zhigang?From beginning to end, he never received the filial piety of his excellent son. Born stupid, but filial piety in front of the bed, just because it is not excellent, isn't it filial piety?So, isn't mediocre kindness kindness?
Here, I want to tell a true story. My sister and I are two children in the family, my sister has a stable job, and I am a freelancer and start my own business. Because of the freedom to work, I naturally took on the responsibility of taking care of my parents. Although my sister would also buy gifts and supplements for me and my parents, my father insisted that I take care of them and give me a monthly salary when it comes to providing for the elderly. This made me deeply realize that filial piety is not necessarily about making great achievements, but about giving our care and love in the bits and pieces of life. No matter what the trajectory of our life is, whether we are ordinary or excellent, the most important thing is that we have a heart of filial piety. In this complex world, I no longer need to look for other jobs. The nature of my sister's work, they didn't delay it. I wasn't angry or sad, I just felt like they were thinking long for me and my sister. However, is filial piety really just a fit and a fit?Whether you can contribute money or effort can show filial piety?I was starting to get a little lost.
His coldness stems from his affection for his wife"Deeply aware of the righteousness"。Zhou Bingyi is a very good person, he has created a perfect image, but there is a lot of hard work behind it. Are these efforts also included?"Inverted doors"What about forbearance?He tried to bridge the gap between the two families and excel as the governor's son-in-law. However, the gap between his family of origin made it difficult for him to overcome. At first, he gave up the opportunity for promotion for Dongmei, proving that he once loved her. But the ** and beauty in the world, what made him embark on the road of derailment after all kinds of pressure, forbearance and strength?
He kissed the exotic woman affectionately. He may choose not to have children, to be filial at his mother-in-law's house, or to be in"Inverted doors"of patience in life. But what kind of choices are hidden behind these choices?He chose to let his younger brother give birth to the offspring of the Zhou family and fulfill his filial piety for his parents, just because it was beneficial to him.
He is an excellent leader who works tirelessly and responsibly. However, he devoted so much time to work that he overdrew his body. For Dongmei, there is only one company left for advanced stomach cancer. Isn't this a coldness to a lover?
In my own case, I always worry about my husband's entertainment. He would always say, "It's all about the family, and I don't want to do that." "In my opinion, he may choose to earn a little less and spend more time looking for like-minded friends. Wouldn't it be a better choice for those friends who can earn money for their families and take care of their own bodies?Do you really have to wait until your body is overdrawn, leaving a broken body for your elderly wife and children who have just started their own lives?Can money replace all this?
In "The World", Zhou's mother has been lying in bed for a few years, which makes people deeply feel the warmth and hardships of the family. This time was a test for the Zhou family, but it also allowed us to see the preciousness of family affection and the complexity of human nature. In this context, we should cherish the family, care for the family, and manage every warm moment with our hearts. The story of Su Su.
In the bustling earthly world, I am a stubborn grain of corn, living silently and being strong alone. My name is Susu, not because I am so special, but because I think there is a simple and tough beauty to this name.
I heard that Zhou Bingyi did not rely on his own excellence to gain a foothold in the world, he was still busy at his mother-in-law's house, dedicating everything to that "mother". His father longs for his grandson, but this is not something that Zhou Bingyi can give easily. He may be deeply in love with Dongmei, but how much love can pass through the trivialities of life and the difficulties of reality?
Filial piety, is it just love and guilt for parents count?I think about this a lot. The ancients said: "There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness", this coldness or affection, isn't it only personal experience that can really be perceived?
I'll admit, I'm not a perfect person. I have my confusion, my struggles, and my persistence. But this is me, a stubborn grain of corn, who is not afraid of difficulties and always tries to survive.
If you want, we can share each other's stories together and survive stubbornly in this world together. Because I believe that true happiness and peace can only be found by understanding and accepting one's imperfections.