Wen A sword blows in the breeze.
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When I was a child, my parents always held hands, shoulder to shoulder, and they were the perfect pair in my heart. However, as time went on, I found that the relationship between them became more and more strained, even to the point of arguing. Recently, they told me that they were considering a divorce. The news was like a bombshell to me, and I instantly plunged into deep confusion and panic.
I know that the divorce is their decision and I have no right to interfere. However, I can't ignore my feelings. I began to wonder if I was responsible, if I had done something wrong to get their relationship to this point. I began to fear that if I chose to support one of them, would I lose the love of the other?
In this haunting, I found my good friend. He told me that my parents' divorce doesn't mean they will stop loving me. "Your parents love you, it's just that they can't live together," he said. That doesn't mean they will love you less. "This point of view gave me a new understanding. I began to understand that I didn't need to feel guilty or scared about their divorce.
I began to try to accept the fact that this could become a reality. I started communicating with my parents and telling them how I felt and what I thought. I told them that while I respected their decision, I also wanted them to minimize the arguments in front of me because it was painful for me. I also told them that I hope they will continue to love me and support me no matter what the outcome is.
I know, it's a tough process, but I'm sure I can get through it. I will try to remain calm and sane and do my best to understand and accept this fact. I will try to protect my emotions and not let this affect my life and Xi.
I want to tell all the children who are facing similar situations that you are not alone. Your feelings are normal, and you have the right to express your feelings and thoughts. You can also seek help, whether from a friend, a teacher, or a professional counselor. Remember that no matter what your parents decide, their love will never change. You will always be the most important person in their hearts.
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I am a sword and a breeze, with my own point of view, to help people in need, together to encourage, the rest of my life with me, like my words and opinions, remember to pay attention to my Baijia number: a sword breeze].