On that summer 15 years ago, a tall figure walked into our power plant and cast all eyes on her. She called me my best friend, and my first impression was that she was tall, fat, wearing a pair of glasses, and her hair was tied in a high ponytail. I can't help but wonder, can a tall girl fit into this environment where there are more men than women? At the time, she was 25 and I was 21, and the difference in height between us was so huge that she could easily fit me in her pocket. We stood together, forming a peculiar contrast. Colleagues asked about our relationship, and it was hard to imagine that such a different figure and appearance could become good friends. Some even joked that we were gay. The girlfriend has never talked about a boyfriend and has no plans to get married. Maybe she is too tall and strong, her voice is rough, her mouth is big when she laughs, and her face is not good-looking, which makes her encounter setbacks on the road of feelings. However, her family's financial situation was very advantageous, and her father would drive her to and from work every day, which was very rare at the time. And I didn't enter the palace of marriage until I was 33 years old, and I didn't have a boyfriend before.
So we had a lot in common to talk about, and we used to joke that if we weren't married, we'd be together when we were old. However, the reality is cruel, and we are all on blind dates non-stop. I longed for the beauty of my marriage, and most of the time she was just coping with her parents. The men introduced to her by her family were all very financially well-off, but she never succeeded in developing with them. The reason is simple, she doesn't agree with it many times. She told me that she didn't want to get married because she had witnessed her parents' quarrels and even hands-on scenes since she was a child. Although they later divorced, they did not break up, and they continued to quarrel every day, sometimes even fighting. Now in their sixties, they occasionally argue over trivial matters. This made her afraid of marriage. My girlfriend and I talked a lot about it during this time, and I tried to understand her fears, but also hoped that she would revisit her marriage. After all, everyone's experiences and family situations are different, and a future marriage will not necessarily repeat the mistakes of the past. I believe that proper communication and understanding can help her come out of the shadows and embrace happiness again. In these 15 years of friendship, I gradually discovered the good in my girlfriends.
Although she looks tall and strong on the outside, she is soft and sensitive on the inside. She is kind, sincere, always actively helping others, and giving selflessly. I felt the support and encouragement she gave me during difficult times, and she was an integral part of my life. Everyone has their own past and shadows, but we can't let the past hold us back in the way. Whether it is in love or marriage, we should face it bravely, learn to release the pain of the past, and believe that we can create our own happiness. I believe that as long as we operate with heart and treat with sincerity, one day we will all find our own happiness. She is menopaused, a natural physiological phenomenon that means her fertile period is over. While this is an important milestone for many women, it doesn't seem like a big deal for her. She never thought about getting married and having children, so menopause didn't matter to her. However, for many women, getting married and having children is an important part of life. However, the reality is often not as expected. It is not uncommon for women like her, who are over 40 years old, single and childless.
This is not because they don't want to get married or have children, but because of some practical reasons, such as not finding the right partner or having too much pressure in life. Although she has no children, it does not mean that her life is not fulfilling or meaningful. In fact, her life is quite dashing, and she plans to travel next year. These decisions are based on her own preferences and interests, and she lives comfortably and happily. Everyone's life is different, with different experiences, different choices, and different goals. Therefore, we should respect everyone's life choices and not judge or blame the decisions of others. Finally, let's wish her all the best and a life full of joy and happiness.