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If there's anything that students basically hate, it's a parent-teacher conference. However, today's students have more disgust, and that is the birth of the parent group!
For parents with students at home, the parent group is no stranger. In order to convey some information to parents, or to improve the efficiency of their work, it has become much easier for teachers to build parent groups.
Teachers don't have to notify parents to hit ** if the school asks for **, parents can edit it together, which is very convenient.
The parent group is generally primary and secondary school students when they are in school, and the school requires the class teacher to establish, at most, there will be in high school
What?University, Parent Group?Probably not!
Anyway, I haven't heard of the fact that there is a parent group after going to college, but it is true that some students have to join the parent group after going to college, and the parent group is naturally established by counselors and teachers.
Isn't it common for college students to join various groups on their own?It is still rare to have a parent group, and it is still a 985 university.
Netizens said on the Internet that their younger brother from 985 school asked her to join the parent group, so the netizen replaced her parents and entered her younger brother's parent group, and then became her busiest group.
Although the counselor teacher said that there was no need to reply, the group still couldn't get it back, and there were blessings to the teacher on Teacher's Day.
If this shocks everyone, it means that everyone's ability to bear it is still a little bit worse, and there will be more explosive ones in the future.
Some students said on the Internet that they were students of the School of Civil Engineering, not only with a group of parents, but also with monthly exams. What a familiar and unfamiliar name, in addition to the final exam, there is also a monthly exam when I go to college!
The counselor teacher will send the monthly exam results to the group, isn't it that after going to college, there are only the usual homework and final exams, and some students still have monthly exams, which is unacceptable. Sure enough, the major was well chosen, and the college entrance examination was held in the mid-term.
Some netizens said that there is no need for parent groups in primary and secondary schools, because schools are not allowed to publish students' results now, and teachers dare not talk about a child alone in the group, why do they still have parent groups?
Now they are "attacking" college students, and college students also have the feeling of being primary and middle school students.
Forget about the involution on the Xi, but also announce the results and rankings, there are monthly exams in the university, isn't it more Xi pressure to study, some students say engineering questions, there are few answers on the Internet, to be honest, the university has a monthly exam and a parent group, which is really incomprehensible.
College students tearfully said that in the future, will graduate students also have a parent group?And then in the group to urge everyone to write the process of **, that is also a little too terrible.
There are policies under the policies, and college students also have their own ideas about the requirements of the school, and college students use trumpets to act as parents among classmates and parents for each other.
So what is the need to set up a parent group for college students?A counselor said something in the group, first of all, saying that it is better to communicate with parents.
But after all, it is a group of parents of the university, and the counselor dispels the doubts in the hearts of parents, and parents will not be allowed to participate in non-extreme situations, and the group will not complain, and parents will be contacted directly to deal with things if there is something, mainly to inform parents of what is important in the semester.
Secondly, there will be some lectures and information on how parents can get along with young people, so that parents can better understand their children.
If the school starts from this point of view, it is still necessary to set up a parent group, many parents do not know about college students, and college students are not willing to share things with their parents after they go to college.
It is also necessary for parents to learn how to communicate with their children to help college students grasp the general direction.
However, the establishment of a parent group in the university is still incomprehensible to many people.
Because most people think that the university should cultivate students' independent ability, students should study and Xi independently, and then solve problems by themselves, and there is no need for parents to supervise their children.
Even if the school allows parents to join the parent group, college students also "figure it out" on their own, and parents still don't know about their children, but it also reflects that today's college students have a strong sense of independence and especially need independent space.
In fact, it is also understandable that since the beginning of school, students have been under control, and finally have their own independent space after arriving at university, and the school also requires the establishment of a parent group, and students can easily have a rebellious mentality.
After the establishment of a parent group in the university, this "scale" is still very difficult to grasp, counselors and teachers have to grasp what should be said to parents, if not important things to tell parents, parents will not care, and they will feel that there are many things in college.
In fact, in the process of children's growth, parents have been tormented and exhausted by various notices from the school, and parents do not want to interfere too much in their children's affairs.
If the counselor posts some student disciplinary violations in the group, it will not have a good impact on the school after it is spread, and college students will also resent this kind of behavior.
I don't know if the school has considered this matter, the establishment of a parent group, whether the school will take more responsibility, not that the school should shirk responsibility, but the students' independent ability can not be cultivated, but it will bring more trouble.
Anyway, if you are a counselor, unless you can't find someone, you will never call your parents.
Topic Discussion:Do you think there should be a parent group in college?
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