One.
The Romance of the Three Kingdoms has several interesting nicknames, such as Sun 100,000, Zhang 800, and Full Numbers.
10. Wen Sleeping, Zang Legend, Liu Dead.
Sun Quan took 100,000 men with him every time he went to war, and he lost every time
Zhang 800 is Zhang Liao, the battle of Hefei, Zhang Liao 800 people, against Sun Quan 100,000 people, Sun Quan lost. In the past, he led the troops to attack, 800 people against 100,000 people, Sun Quan "lived up to expectations", fled after defeat, Zhang Liao really stabbed and gun, almost arrested Sun Quan, in order to protect Sun Quan, Tai Shici died, Zhou Tai was cut 40 times, so Sun Quan sent a nickname to send Sun 100,000;
Full dozens, that is, full of ten people, Sun Quan took 100,000 people, did not dare to fight, and left again;Wen Sleep is Wen Ping, then Sun Quan brought another 100,000 people, Wen Ping was sleeping, Sun Quan left again;
Zang legend is Zang Ba, Sun Quan came, inquired, it seems that he has heard of Zang Ba, and he went back;Liu Fu's soul, it is Liu Fu, Sun Quan Hao brought 100,000 people to see that Liu Fu looked like Liu Bei, turned around and ran.
Two. How to understand that victory is not powerful, and defeat is not guaranteed.
Be nosy, others won't approve of you when things are done, but if something goes wrong, you have to take the blame.
Sometimes because of this, human affection will become weaker and weaker. Just like a good person who does a bad deed is spurned by others, and a bad person who does a good deed will be turned back and the prodigal son will not change the money. The world's expectations for good people are too high, and at the same time, the bottom line for bad people is too low, and they even think that as long as bad people don't do bad things, Amitabha Buddha.
Just like Liu Xiang back then, a renunciation of running attracted overwhelming abuse. I hope to be more tolerant and understanding of good people.
My friend has another opinion: if you don't win, you won't be able to lose for a lifetime, just like if you get a perfect score in primary school mathematics, others will not think you are good, but if you fail the test, others will think that your level is too poor.
Three. In the workplace, being too capable is a sin, and it is a taboo. Jealousy is one of the seven deadly sins, and in order to achieve balance, in order to avoid jealousy, leaders will focus on the overall situation and sacrifice the ego to fulfill the ego.
The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy it, so it is said that you must learn to stand in line. If you don't want to stand, then don't offend both sides. If you can't support the monarch and can't kiss your colleagues, then the end must be miserable.
To borrow a phrase from Quicher:
Has the general thought about his own ending, the general can save his life to this day, because Xiang Yu is here, Liu Bang does not dare to kill you, the general is indeed reused by Liu Bang, that is because the general is desperately attacking the city for him. ”
The general occupies an important position, between Liu Xiang, whoever kisses wins, if you don't kiss anyone, the next one will perish is you. ”
The cunning rabbit dies, the good dog cooks, don't think about the workplace too simply, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Learn to be happy and angry, learn to praise people appropriately, learn to get along with leaders, and learn to fake acquaintances with colleagues, but don't communicate with each other.
Never try to be friends with a colleague and don't be honest with her. Otherwise, she'll strike you the first and deadliest slash at you. Often the person who hurts you the most is the one who knows you the most, because she knows your pain points.