A friend chatted with me and said that his classmate got married on New Year's Day, and I asked him if he was because of 480,000 dowry to talk about the collapse of classmates?
He said yes, and what was even more surprising was that he was married to a blind date he had known for less than a year, with a bride price of 160,000 yuan. At the beginning, I cried poor and said 480,000 dowry can't afford it, he promised to go all out to be good to girls, be loyal to the family for a lifetime, don't smoke or drink when married, and give everything to the small family.
But the bride price of 160,000 yuan is just given, he doesn't blink his eyelids, he can spend money to marry a stranger who has no feelings, but he refuses to pay to marry a girlfriend who has been in love for many years, I don't understand.
Netizens said that one is business and the other is feelings, and men are very clear. When it comes to business, this girl is married for money, or her conditions are worth the bride price. But it seems vulgar to talk about money when you have an emotional foundation.
He talks about the so-called "love", but he refuses to take even a little practical action, and love and loyalty must be expressed with action. Besides, it's vulgar to talk about money, with feelings, both parties should pay more, and strive to give the best to her, rather than having feelings and not needing to pay.
If that's the case, I'd rather have no feelings.
There is also a saying: I can give the bride price, but you can't ask for it. I can give you the market price, but you can't ask for more. Isn't the bride price agreed upon by both parties before marriage?It is as if the man is giving alms to the woman.
You must know that before getting married, a boy wants to propose to a girl. Seriously, how can you get married without money?Don't you want money for firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea?Don't you need money to live?Why are girls talking about reality as material?
Now that they are in their twenties and almost thirty years old, how can there be so many ups and downs, how can there be so many aimless likes?The economic base determines the superstructure, if you only want to chase girls with lip service, unless she is very simple and kind.
In reality, there are many men who don't cherish what they get, and they would rather spend more money to marry a person who has no feelings, rather than give that little bride price to "tarnish" his so-called love, then break their teeth and swallow it in their stomachs.
In the final analysis, there is no inevitable connection between love and marriage, love is love and water, and marriage is life. Love is an affection, and marriage is a contractual relationship.