Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
My sister is almost 70 years old, and she is a home-based practitioner who knows how to cherish blessings. She is usually reluctant to spend money for herself, and she is very frugal. She always thinks that the children are wasteful, eighty percent of the new clothes, if you don't like to wear them, you don't want them, it's a pity.
She is reluctant to throw away the clothes that the children don't wear, so she wears what she can wear, and washes the clothes that she can't wear, and then packs them and donates them to the poverty-stricken areas. However, the styles of these clothes are worn by young people, and it is okay to wear them at home, and when you go out, you still need to have a few clothes suitable for your age. The clothes that the children bought for her, she said she didn't like it, and said that she wanted to buy it herself, but it was actually too expensive.
Recently, she heard that it was cheap to buy things online, so she asked her son to give her an online shopping platform software, and also learned to shop online.
While online shopping brings convenience to people, there are also some hidden dangers. Those colorful pictures, and the boastful live broadcast**, dazzled people and people's desire to consume. Some unscrupulous merchants often sell dog meat with shoddy products to deceive consumers.
A few days ago, my sister looked at a dress on the Internet and thought it was cheap and good-looking, so she placed an order. But when she received the goods, she regretted it!My sister said that the clothes she received were not at all the same as those described on **.
First, there is a color difference in the color, which is not the color she wants at all;Second, the fabric feels poor, hard, and has no texture;Third, the workmanship is rough and the folds are sloppy;Fourth, I bought it according to the size recommended by the merchant, but the size was too small and I couldn't wear it. Then my sister contacted the merchant and asked for a refund, but the merchant agreed. However, since there is no shipping insurance, you will have to bear the shipping cost of the return. This dress didn't cost much in total, and it wasn't cost-effective to return it, so I had no choice but to keep it first and wear it when I lost weight.
This situation may have been encountered by everyone, although they were deceived by the false propaganda of the merchants, because they did not have the time and energy to discuss with the merchants, they also considered themselves unlucky and spent money to buy lessons.
My sister originally wanted to save money, but she didn't expect it to be wasted, and the dress was put on hold. In fact, the money that should be spent still has to be spent, and you can't be too yourself for the sake of blessings.
Don't look at my sister who is so stingy with herself, but she is very generous to public charity. Whether it is helping the needy or releasing life care, as long as there is information in this regard, she is very enthusiastic, and she never feels distressed when she donates large tickets.
I often advise my sister not to eat leftovers and spotted fruits that she can't usually eat, so throw them away, and don't spoil her stomach. Frugality is a virtue, but don't be too yourself.
As a practitioner, you can be simple, but you should also dress appropriately. If you are unkempt and sloppy every day, you will be looked down upon by others if you stand in front of others. Dress yourself up properly, not only for the sake of face, but also for the sake of solemnizing yourself. If you go to the house of friends and relatives, it will look a little shabby if you dress too plainly. You may think that you don't think so, but relatives and friends may have ideas, and they will feel shameless and seem to be disrespectful to people.
It is very important to cherish blessings, but we must also grasp a "degree", and we must not be overly persistent and suffer ourselves. Practitioners should integrate into society, not derail from the times, and not be out of place with ordinary people.
When others see you living your life like this, they will feel that you are a failure. In this case, how can you be obedient to your family and friends, and how can you influence them to become like-minded people?Therefore, practitioners should also have a positive and sunny side and show their positive energy in front of people.
Life is full of cultivation, you can be glamorous in front of people, and bring happiness to the people around you;You can also be an ascetic, self-conscious, self-disciplined, introspective, and self-reliant. Turn yourself into a piece of sunshine that warms yourself and illuminates others at the same time.
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