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Psychologist Victor Frank also said:
"Destiny is the master of man, and man cannot try to change it, but can only let it develop naturally. ”
In fact, in the face of fate, no matter how much people toss, they only toss within its scope.
Therefore, if you want to try to change your fate, it is better to change yourself.
Changing one's fate will only make one's life path narrower and narrower, but only by changing oneself can you surprise one's life.
Learn to go with the flow
Life always pushes us forward, and fate is like a river that will eventually take us to distant places.
Fortunately, we are able to use the power of the river to carry the direction and place of life that we want to reach.
Of course, in this river of fate, there are too many people, drifting with the flow, reckless, without direction and purpose.
So, don't think that this way of living is very chic and spiritual.
But in fact, drifting without direction will only lead to an even more painful abyss.
Even if a person chooses to endure hardship, he must also suffer meaningful hardship, valuable hardship, and long-term development.
Only in this way, but we have the direction of life, the pursuit of life, and we can really go with the flow in the process of rafting with the help of the river of fate.
This kind of going with the flow, following the law, and going with the power.
This is a kind of strength and wisdom that can be leveraged, and it can indeed create more possibilities for oneself in life.
At the very least, we can really calm down and see more scenery of life in the process of sailing.
Know how to make fun in suffering
Of course, fate will always play tricks on people, this is the norm.
However, we can also learn to enjoy suffering, which is the precious thing about human beings.
What people are most afraid of is that they can't get along with fate on the one hand, and they can't get along with themselves on the other hand, and in the end they live as if the two sides are not people.
The smartest thing about people is that in the face of the impermanence of life and the changes in life, we don't need to deliberately resist, let alone consume ourselves.
After all, we need to understand that the pain we are experiencing at the moment is far less than the pain experienced by others.
Although it is said that the joys and sorrows between people are not connected, the pain encountered by each other is actually contrasting.
Therefore, we should learn to think about and deal with problems from different angles in life.
Then, when we truly understand the laws of the operation of the Heavenly Dao, or grasp the laws of the development of life, we will build bridges when encountering water and open roads in the mountains.
Follow the way of heaven
Man's fate is predestined.
Perhaps, this kind of perception requires a person to walk a long way and go through many stories to understand.
But you must know that you must know such a thing, and you must also know how to follow the way of heaven in your heart.
Then, we will be able to walk more steadily, see more clearly, think more calmly, and live more calmly.
Life is bitter, but we can make fun of it, and we can still experience the simple and unpretentious feelings that life gives us.
In this way, lower your expectations, stabilize your emotions, and maintain a calm state of mind.
Therefore, in the face of the ups and downs of fate, we do not resist, nor do we go hard, but know how to go with the flow and know how to treat ourselves.
Only in this way will we follow the way of heaven, live the present wholeheartedly, cherish the present, experience the present, and finally be able to truly rely on ourselves and live better and better.