There is a reader in the background who appeals:
Big dream, every time you write an article, you are standing in the perspective of a woman, analyzing what men want, when can you analyze what women want?
In fact, thousands of people have thousands of hearts, and the analysis is not accurate at all.
Every woman's needs in a relationship are different, and the specific needs come from their own self-development, but in this love, the underlying logic required is the same.
What a woman wants, it's nothing more than these two.
1. If you want a stable life, it's true that it's plain
There is a short ** blogger I have been following for a long time, her husband works in Xinjiang, in order to reunite a family of four, the blogger took two children, rented a house in Xinjiang, and lived with her husband.
Many people in the comment area think that bloggers are not worth it, because it is obvious that bloggers earn more than men, but why should bloggers make sacrifices and leave their hometowns to a strange city to take care of two children alone?
The blogger has no complaints, carefully plays the role of a good mother and wife, and does a good job as a husband's rear.
Until the husband had an accident when he was driving a big car, the car was seriously damaged, although the husband was fine, but the blogger was also very afraid.
It happened that the two children were also on winter vacation, and the blogger asked her husband to make a choice, give up driving a big car, return to his hometown with him, and start looking for another way out again, no matter how much he earned.
No matter what her husband said or how she guaranteed it, the blogger did not change her mind and insisted that her husband accompany her back to her hometown.
Thinking about myself, I don't like too much turbulence in life, and I want to have ordinary happiness with my husband and live my own little life.
There is a saying: I once asked repeatedly in the dark and dark, only to know that the ordinary is the truth.
For women, the love of the mountains and seas is certainly moving, but they can live a dull life with their beloved and start the most real pursuit in life.
Second, I want the sincerity of a man and spend the rest of my life together
My cousin and my cousin-in-law divorced, the reason is very simple, my cousin-in-law had an extramarital lover behind my cousin's back, which caused my cousin to no longer believe in him as much as before when facing my cousin-in-law.
Before the matter was discovered, even if the cousin-in-law had already done something sorry for the cousin, the cousin didn't know, the two of them could still be a loving couple.
However, when the cousin found out that there was already some dirt in their relationship, and there was no way to turn back, let alone pretend not to know.
Seeing my cousin-in-law admit his mistake, I tried to forgive, but when two people were intimate together, I couldn't help but think of the beautiful moments that the other party might have experienced with others, which I couldn't tolerate, and finally filed for divorce.
I thought that my cousin would be very free after the divorce, but my cousin told me in tears
No one gets married with the result of divorce, and never thinks that two people will be separated.
Yes, no matter which woman, when she chooses to go to love and marriage, she has good expectations for the future, hoping that if she chooses a person, she will be able to go for a lifetime.
No one wants to make marriage a regret in life, every woman hopes that the chosen person can be with her forever and not change, but after all, it is a little difficult.
Men think that women love money, but this is not the case.
A woman who is willing to come together with you does not choose you just because money chooses you, but in order to make the relationship between two people have a backer, she chooses to make money the best emotional constraint tool.
To manage a relationship well, a man needs to understand a woman's heart.
What women want is often not too high fame and fortune, but simple and satisfying happiness hidden in ordinary days!