Nowadays, more and more children are suffering from "childhood autism", which is mainly due to the lack of communication between parents and children. Due to China's family planning policy, there are more and more only children today, and now in the building, the child will lack playmates and feel extremely lonely. Therefore, it is important for parents to communicate more with their children.
Understand the importance of human relationships at an early age
Early parent-child communication education can make children realize the importance of interpersonal relationships earlier, and children can enjoy the fun of interpersonal communication through communication, enjoy and meet the emotional needs of family members, classmates, teachers and students, and understand what is the true meaning of love.
It's too early to be sensible
Through parent-child communication education, children can understand the true meaning of harmony, and they can know how to think about others when they talk and do things. Know how to overcome your weaknesses and how to control your emotions.
Set goals and communicate purposefully
When we have a disagreement with our child about something, how can we communicate effectively?Set goals first, and then communicate purposefully. For example, my son likes to read comic books, and he always tries his best to read Xi and homework secretly. I would reason with him at first, and if I didn't listen, I would just throw the book to the ground roughly, but it basically didn't work, and then I still went my own way. Teacher Yifang said that this matter went in the wrong direction from the beginning, and the reason why I opposed children reading comic books was that I was worried that the child would be addicted to them and not concentrate on learning Xi, not because I would not let him read them. You can tell your child that comic books can be read, but you must first complete the daily Xi tasks, and after the homework is written, you can read it openly, and your mother can read it with her if she has time. Later, in order to read comic books openly, my son always took the initiative to complete the task of studying Xi, his grades also improved, and his personality became more and more optimistic.
Avoid fighting for control
At about eighteen months old, children already have a will of their own, and they are desperate to be independent, sometimes crying hoarsely: "I want to do it myself!""This period is quite a tough test for parents. The more you try to control your child, the more likely it is that there will be a struggle for control between you and your child. At this time, it is recommended that you use certain skills and language to let the baby do this with you, what you need is the baby's cooperation rather than resistance. One of the outstanding characteristics of children is their desire to help and please their parents, and parents should meet this need of their children and give them a space to be independent.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care, in order to succeed, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't understand, you have to ask others for advice, and learn Xi experience and art of raising flowers.
If parents lack relevant knowledge of children's education, and do not know how to obtain scientific methods, if they are also looking for books to learn Xi, then this set of books to educate children is the best choice.
This set of books is known as a must-read parenting book set for parents.
Includes all five hardcover volumes, including:"Positive Discipline","Don't yell and don't scream to cultivate good children", "A good mother is better than a good teacher"."You Are the Best Toy for Children" and "How to Say Children Will Listen" five volumes.
In the process of children's growth, there will be many thorny problems, such as rebellion, isolation, sensitivity, school boredom and so on.
I always feel powerless in the face of these parents, but these 5 books are close to life cases to help parents sort out the problems comprehensively and guide their children correctly.
The content of the book focuses on practical operation, does not talk empty words, and combines thousands of real cases to discuss, what parents should do, what children should do, at a glance. After reading it, you can learn a lot of practical methods, and it is a very practical set of family education tools.
While letting children learn to respect and be grateful, parents can also learn how to communicate with their children calmly and truly enter their children's hearts.
Through this set of books, parents can clearly understand what methods and strategies need to be adopted to educate their children.
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