The political trial reveals the true face of the mother, which is dull and has no explanation
The political trial allowed the girls to see the true face of their mother, who turned out to be too stupid to use"Not a bad guy"to explain.
With the exception of a very small number of people, I believe that the vast majority of parents love their children very much. Even if their original intention is to raise children to prevent old age, in the process of raising children, they usually give priority to ensuring that their offspring are well fed and clothed under limited conditions.
However, many families will encounter such a helpless phenomenon: the love given by parents"Just right", neither special respect and care for you, nor let you feel the warmth of true love in the world;But it's not so bad that it makes you want to break the relationship.
As a result, many people become adults who are tired of living with their parents on the one hand and lonely on the other. Not only do they need to slowly overcome the shadows of their childhood, but they also feel heartbroken about their parents who have worked hard to raise them for half their lives. In"Nurturing"Some parents really don't seem to be negotiable.
Netizens said:"If it were me, I'd be devastated", because the girls saw the true face of their mothers in the political trials. The Internet has given many students from ordinary families more access to information, and many parents have begun to realize the importance of planning their children's lives. Needless to say, the importance of political review for entering the system cannot be overstated.
From military academies and police academies to public exams for university students, students and their families are obligated to undergo a comprehensive background check to determine entry"Public sector"in the right direction. Theoretically, as long as they have no criminal record, are not old scoundrels, and their confessions are not sufficient, they can pass in principle.
However, it would be naïve to think that the political exam is easy to pass. With so many college students now taking the preliminaries, of course, the best students are chosen. Some group members will even make home visits or ask teachers, neighbors, and others.
In this case, the normal idea is to praise the student as much as possible, to prove the innocence and conscience of the family. But some parents do the opposite, will"Modesty"It was used in the most inappropriate places.
A college student expressed her distress online. She had already entered the system halfway through, and the process of preparing for the exam was very difficult, so she cherished this opportunity very much. However, when ** spoke to her parents, her mom said something to her"Ugly"Words.
When asked why she wanted to take the test, her mother replied:"She has always wanted to go to the big city to work hard, but she has no choice but to return to this small town to take the exam and survive.
The other party wanted to know the girl's true personality and Xi, but her parents were blunt: they were lazy and refused to help with housework, and it was really not easy for me as a housewife to bring her up.
In fact, since childhood, the college student has been Xi to sharing household chores for his mother, often doing laundry and cooking. The main observation is that even if the father hears such an assessment, he does not contradict the mother, but points out the shortcomings of the daughter together with the mother.
In the end, the student failed the political exam. She was confused: why would parents do this, and was it so stupid?Many netizens said: The boss of the school is really patient, if it were me, I would probably be angry, and I would be angry at the parents directly.
It turns out that some stupid actions cannot be simply used"People are not bad"to explain. Some people can"Stupid enough to cry"It's amazing to wreak havoc on your parents and turn a blind eye to the cries of others.
Parental ones"Help"It is a nightmare shared by many students. In a good family, parents are the guides of their children and have certain successful experiences. In an ordinary family, parents may not know much about certain things and can only rely on the students' own efforts, but at least they will not hold the students back.
What's even more worrying is that at important moments in life, parents will be preoccupied with small things because they do not have the ability to guide, and it is easy to drag down their children who want to move towards a better future. Is this stupidity or low emotional intelligence?
Many netizens have raised a solid and real possibility: some seemingly"Stupid"The act cannot be simply used"People are not bad"to explain. They suggest that college students should be more sober so as not to fall into the trap of falling into misery.
Parents' behavior may be more than just low emotional intelligence, and some parents may deliberately not want to see their students get good grades. Especially in small towns or rural families, the original intention of educating daughters may remain at a low level.
They may encourage the child to look for a job, but do not want him"Fly on the branches and become a phoenix";They may educate the child but don't want him to leave after graduation. Such parents are very worried that after their children succeed in their careers, they will be far away from their children and will not be able to support them.
Why is there a group of parents who always like to show off their hard work, often claiming"It's not worth raising a child, and the child may not like it when he's older", but this does not prevent them from sticking to marriage and childbearing.
A closer look reveals that families who usually care about their children rarely mention such comments. Conversely, families who worry too much about their children's education and the rewards of their later years are more likely to worry"In his later years, he was neglected by his children", probably because they are fragile inside.
Whether parents are aware of the importance of political exams for candidates, it is difficult for outsiders to hide their sheer stupidity in judging their daughters in this way.
Many people have heard the saying that a person's heart is not bad, but only the tip of the mouth;One can be stupid, but not intentionally causing trouble. The author disagrees, when it comes to his selfishness, it is clear to see his heart.