"Phobia", a serious mental illness in children that mainly afflicts elementary school students between the ages of 7 and 12. It is a school phobia that manifests itself in the fear of children going to school and even openly refuses to go to school. When it comes to school, they feel reluctant and unhappy, may make harsh conditions, or even go home under the pretext of going home. In addition, they may show discomfort such as headaches, dizziness, abdominal pain, vomiting, etc., early in the morning on the day of school or the night before, which magically disappear on holidays.
The causes of schoolphobia are varied and can stem from various pressures from family, school, and teachers, as well as inappropriate parenting methods. At the same time, the child's timid, sensitive, and hard-to-tolerate criticism personality traits may also be the cause of the disease. Parents should adopt a rational and caring attitude towards their children's school boredom, and should not simply use intimidation to force them to go to school.
1.Find out why.
First of all, parents should take the initiative to find the root cause of their children's reluctance to go to school. This can involve academic problems, relationship problems, or even discomfort with the school environment. Communicating with your child to understand their inner troubles is the first step to solving the problem.
2.Understand the school environment.
By understanding their children's concerns about school, parents can guide them to adapt to the school environment step by step. Initially, try to keep your child in school for an hour, and if this step is successful, gradually extend the time at school. Getting acquainted with the school atmosphere and classmates will help to alleviate their boredom.
3.Partnering with schools.
Actively work with the school to understand how the child is doing and struggling in school. Maintain close contact with teachers to work together to develop a Xi plan and emotional support that is appropriate for your child. The concerted efforts of schools and families can better help children overcome their phobia.
4.Create a positive learning Xi atmosphere.
Create a positive Xi atmosphere for your child, encourage them to develop hobbies and develop self-confidence. Through recognition and rewards, children can feel the joy of learning Xi, so as to gradually change their negative feelings towards school.
5.Seek professional help.
If your child's school boredom persists or worsens, it is crucial to seek help from a professional counsellor in a timely manner. Professional counselling can provide a deeper understanding of the child's psychological condition and provide targeted help and support.
In the process of helping children overcome school boredom, parents need to be patient and understanding, listen to their children's voices, and provide them with warm family support. Through the combination of family, school and professional counselling, we can expect to see children gradually overcome psychological distress and regain the joy of school Xi.