Everyone's personality, Xi and attitudes are different, and women's attitudes towards men are even more diverse. She may simply see you as a friend, she may be disgusted with you, or she may be emotionally attracted to you. It depends not only on how she perceives you, but also on your personality qualities.
Even if you appear to be good and popular in the eyes of others, if your so-called excellence does not contribute to her life, relationship and career, then she may keep a certain distance from you.
Some people think that as long as a man is handsome, young, and has money in his pocket, he can get the deep love of a woman. Although these excellent conditions are indeed easy for you to be favored by women and attract women's attention, but to really get her infatuation with you, you also need to have other qualities.
The man is "small" in three aspects, but it may make the woman fall in love with him more deeply.
1.The scale of interacting with other women is smaller.
Most men may be too close to other women because of some chance or **. But if a man can stick to himself and be reserved about it, such behavior will be more likely to be recognized and loved by women. Especially when you already have a lover, you can voluntarily stay away from those complicated heterosexual relationships in the past and dedicate your heart to the only her, this kind of loyalty and focus will make women cherish.
2.Less tolerant of bad friends.
Some male friends tend to influence their judgment and decision-making. If a man is wary and detached from these negative friends, such behavior will also make women more willing to approach him. For in her opinion, this man has sufficient judgment and moral principles, and has the choice to associate with his trusted friends, which are all respectable and admirable qualities.
3.In handling matters, we do not attach importance to presenting facts and reasoning.
Many men, when confronted with women, tend to use facts and reasoning to solve problems. However, in some cases, women actually need emotional communication and comfort more than cold facts and theories. If a man realizes this, adjusts his attitude at the right time, and gives her the care and forgiveness she deserves, then he will undoubtedly win her more love.
In short, men who show "smallness" in these three aspects can win the affection of women. Therefore, it is not that women dislike them, but on the contrary, they become more and more dependent on such men, and even fall into them.