As the saying goes, "If you talk too much, the meat will be thin." This sentence means that the silence at the right time will make us more elegant and calm.
In everyday communication, "speaking" is an essential skill. However, proper discourse control and topic selection play an extremely important role in protecting personal privacy, preventing social risks, and creating a good image.
1. Talk less about your finances
Money is a sensitive topic in many cases, and whether it's too much or too little, it can cause unnecessary stress or misunderstanding on the other side. Being too public about your finances can lead to jealousy and even temptation for people with bad intentions to worry about your wealth. As a famous person once said: "A man should not be poor, but if he is poor, he will think about change."Women should not be rich, but if they are rich, they are easy to be proud. And Yu Qiuyu also reminded us: "The world only sees your success, but they don't know how much effort and sweat you have put in." "Even if you have a good income, you should be humble and low-key and avoid over-displaying.
2. Don't talk about your network and social circle
Relationships are complex and sensitive, and while having a wide social network can sometimes make people appear influential, talking about them too much can also lead to misunderstanding or jealousy from othersLife is like a drama, everyone is just playing their part;Caring too much about your social circle can make you get so caught up in it that you forget your true self.
3. Talk less about your own diseases and difficulties
Encountering difficulties and challenges is a normal part of life, however, talking about them too often will only make the other person feel that you are an emotionally negative person, which is not conducive to building a positive and healthy relationship. Again, getting out of a difficult situation requires one's own efforts, not cheap sympathy. Life is like a big river, sometimes calm, sometimes turbulent;In the face of life's difficulties, we should maintain an optimistic attitude and believe that we can survive this difficult time.
4. Talk less about your own strengths and achievements
While this may give the impression that you are successful, showing your accomplishments excessively can lead to feelings of stress and alienation from others. We all know that there is no thing in the world, and people with lofty ideals admire the mountain;There is no wind and no waves, and real gold is not afraid of fire. A truly good person does not need to be recognized by others through words, their actions and results speak for themselves.
As mature individuals, we need to control our discourse and choice of topics when talking to people, which can not only protect our privacy, but also prevent unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings in interpersonal interactions.