Ask yourself, who does you owe in this life?Parents, children, partners, friends, you might say. In fact, the only thing you really owe is yourself.
Reality pushes us forward, constantly spinning, always busy, hard work on the road, always bitter, boiled by ourselves, tired, and carried by ourselves.
You have done your best to meet the expectations of others, to become a child of filial parents, to be a parent to educate your children well, to become a partner who loves each other, and to become a friend who helps each other, but you have not been yourself.
Every role is not easy.
We can give for the people we love, but don't forget, before we become any role, we are first and foremost ourselves, a living person with ideas and opinions, and we also have joys and sorrows, and we also want to rest and enjoy happiness.
Before giving, you may be able to think about whether you are really willing to work hard all the time without asking for anything in return, and is your current life really what you want?
Although it is very heart-wrenching, this is the reality: those who live without self suffer the most.
On the contrary, those who live "selfishly" and put themselves first in everything are the happiest.
Three points to love others, seven points to love yourself, people live for a lifetime, just a moment, there is no need to wronged yourself for others.
Yishu once said: "Everyone's ultimate destination is themselves." ”
Everyone will leave, even the closest parents, children, can't be with us for a lifetime.
When a person comes, he goes to the last person, and in this life, the one who accompanies him the longest will always be himself.
If you don't cherish yourself, who will?
No matter how difficult it is at the moment, don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, and don't be embarrassed by yourself.
For those things that you can't control, you can just go with the flow.
You should stay away from the people who consume you, get close to the people who bring you positive energy, and you should also cultivate yourself well to become a better person.
Only by constantly optimizing ourselves can we attract people of the same frequency to go with us and make life better together.
Remember, when you are good enough for yourself, you can meet all the good things unexpectedly.