Wen Huayu.
Love has always relied on mutual attraction, rather than the pursuit of making the other person accept itself.
You like her and have a crush on her, so you're willing to give everything for her. When she wants something, you have to borrow money to satisfy her desires.
While satisfying the other person's needs, you yourself feel happy, and for you, as long as you let her know that you are good, you are satisfied.
But in fact, in reality, this kind of behavior is called "licking" by more people, rather than pursuing. Sometimes, the more you do this, the more you make a woman look down on you, even if you are sincere, you can't get her love.
Love is produced by two people's mutual attraction, not blindly pleased, the more humble you are, the more she doesn't take you seriously.
When a man is looking for a partner, he should not blindly "pursue", but do so.
Looking for a partner is not to blindly please the other party, but to show your own advantages and attract the other party's heart.
When many men meet someone they like, they often want to do what they like, let the other party know how good they are, and achieve mutual understanding through continuous contact, and then hint at in-depth development.
Actually, it's not wrong, it's just that it doesn't work well, and it's easy that women won't be very interested in you because of a long time.
In my opinion, the most important thing for men to know how to show their strengths and how to attract women's attention is the most important thing.
For example, let the other person know your advantages by posting on Moments. Send some ** or topics that interest the other party, such as going to certain places to play, or cooking some food by yourself, etc.
Some people may think that this is very simple and there is no need to post. But in fact, in the eyes of women, this will convey to them a kind of person who can cook, and likes to travel, and is a person who loves life and sunshine.
Women are men who like sunshine, and she understands your daily life and will judge your personality, so it is naturally easier to attract them than those men who don't know how to show themselves.
You must know that women will actually have a sense of vigilance about the opposite sex, especially suitors. A man's presentation of himself is actually a "safety statement", and the more she understands it, the more she will have a good impression of you.
When a man shows himself, he can post some workouts**or**.
Men like to look at women with good figures and faces, in fact, women also like to look at men with good figures.
Men show their fitness or workout, which will bring them a full hormonal shock.
I have to say that out of instinct, for an excellent opposite sex, whether it is body or intelligence, that kind of attraction is difficult to resist.
Conclusion: When a man is looking for a partner, don't just rely on "chasing", but do so, show his excellent side, and it is easier to attract women's attention, after all, love is not to please, and it is best to go both ways.
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