85-year-old lady, 1 million for her daughter to keep, asked for money was refused, and the daughter bought a BMW for your grandson
Mrs. Wang Xiaoling is 85 years old this year and has two daughters with her husband. Among them, the youngest daughter married abroad and almost never returned to her hometown, while the eldest daughter Wang Meihua settled not far away.
About two years ago, in view of the gradual deterioration of his physical condition and memory loss, Wang Xiaoling decided to entrust his accumulated wealth of 1 million yuan to Wang Meihua for safekeeping.
However, what she didn't expect was that once Wang Meihua got the money, she immediately hid it from her mother and used the funds to buy a 120-square-meter property, and also bought a BMW car for her grandson Huang Kang.
This money was originally intended for old age, and Wang Xiaoling looked forward to supporting her when she was old and frail and had no one to take care of her. After all, she has no biological son, and Wang Meihua's marriage has always been unsatisfactory. When you get old and sick, you still have to rely on yourself.
However, Wang Meihua tried her best to persuade her that her grandson Huang Kang could be relied on and would be able to accompany her through her old age in the future. Under the persuasion of her daughter's words, Wang Xiaoling finally chose to forgive quickly and did not pursue too much.
Subsequently, after some friends who knew about the incident, they advised Wang Xiaoling: People's hearts are unpredictable, even if they have a biological son, they may not be reliable, let alone a grandson.
After careful consideration, Wang Xiaoling, at the suggestion of friends, found Wang Meihua and her grandson Huang Kang again and asked Huang Kang to write down an IOU of 430,000 yuan.
On a public occasion, Huang Kang solemnly promised that he would be filial to Wang Xiaoling in the future and provide full care and end-of-life services for her in her later life. Wang Xiaoling was deeply pleased with this commitment, and she firmly believed that she would have no worries in her old age.
However, something happened last year that made Wang Xiaoling hesitate. Since Wang Xiaoling had something to do in the city, it was too late and unsafe to go home at night, so she decided to spend the night in Huang Kang's house.
At that time, Huang Kang was not at home, and Wang Meihua took the initiative to hand her the key to the house. However, in the middle of the night, Huang Kang suddenly came back and saw Wang Xiaoling in the house, and asked her to leave immediately with an angry face.
Wang Xiaoling saw that her once well-behaved and obedient grandson had become so fierce, and she was stunned for a while. Huang Kang watched her stand and didn't leave, and actually threw her clothes out mercilessly.
This scene made Wang Xiaoling feel extremely angry, after all, she bought the house at her own expense. Now that she was deprived of even the right to stay for one night, she couldn't help but have a fierce quarrel with Huang Kang.
Huang Kang became more and more annoyed, pushed her out of the door directly, and viciously locked the door. Wang Xiaoling had nowhere to go, so she cried while walking with her clothes in the middle of the night.
Thinking back to the past, she felt more and more chilled. Although her physical condition is fine now, Huang Kang has shown such a ruthless side. If she encounters any problems in the future, how can she expect Huang Kang to take care of her and support her as he promised?
Early in the morning, Wang Xiaoling and Wang Meihua hurried to Huang Kang's residence, desperately seeking arrears. Huang Kang said indifferently that he had already spent it and had nothing to pay back.
Under the persuasion of friends, Wang Xiaoling did not hesitate to embark on the road of law, and the court decisively froze Huang Kang's real estate. Huang Kang took the initiative to find Wang Xiaoling, claiming that he would quickly pay off her 260,000 debts by selling the house.
Wang Xiaoling believed it and quickly withdrew the lawsuit. However, after Huang Kang successfully sold the property, he did not fulfill his promise and did not return a penny to Wang Xiaoling.
Wang Xiaoling, who was furious, found Huang Kang again, but he sat indifferently in the luxury car and ignored her. Wang Xiaoling resolutely blocked in front of the car, but unexpectedly, Huang Kang got out of the car and pushed her.
85-year-old Wang Xiaoling was lying on the ground unable to get up, crying out for help in pain, while Huang Kang indifferently got into the car and left. Until the security guard at the gate helped Wang Xiaoling and notified Wang Meihua.
In the face of Huang Kang's indifference, Wang Xiaoling's heart was like a knife, she choked up and asked the TV station for help, begging everyone to help her recover the pension money she had accumulated over the years.
In order to find out the truth, everyone quickly gathered at the door of Wang Meihua's house.
When they first met, Wang Xiaoling pointed at Wang Meihua angrily and scolded: "It's all because of you, you handed over my pension to Huang Kang at will without my consent and asked him to speculate on a house and buy a car." ”
Wang Meihua lowered her head and apologized repeatedly: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry ......."It's all my fault, it's because Huang Kang said that he wanted to buy a house, and I didn't have any cash on hand, so I used your pension. ”
The mediator asked Wang Meihua helplessly: "Since you gave the money to Huang Kang to use, why don't you just ask Huang Kang to come back, but let your mother go to find it alone?"”
Wang Meihua replied embarrassedly: "Although Huang Kang is my son, he is not friendly to me, and he does not listen to my advice at all, and I can't get this money back at all." ”
Wang Xiaoling sighed and added: "Even if Wang Meihua is willing to help, I can't trust her, I have lost my trust in my daughter, so I can only go to Huang Kang in person to ask for money." ”
Next, Wang Xiaoling took everyone to find Huang Kang, who is 36 years old this year and works in a relative's factory.
When he arrived at Huang Kang's office, he was sitting there playing with his phone. Seeing Wang Xiaoling coming, he ignored it, Wang Xiaoling angrily stepped forward and asked him to return the money, but Huang Kang remained silent.
Wang Xiaoling raised his hand and tried to push him twice, Huang Kang instantly dropped his phone, stood up and pushed Wang Xiaoling to the ground fiercely. He ** said: "You did it first, don't use the elderly as a disguise."
In one corner, Yao Yun saw his wife curled up on the ground, tears raining down, and couldn't help but rush over and hit Huang Kang. Huang Kang was annoyed and angry, roaring and fighting back, and the scene was chaotic for a while.
The two old men who were over eighty years old were knocked to the ground by Huang Kang, crying helplessly. Huang Kang, on the other hand, left leisurely, ignoring the mediator's obstruction.
Soon after, the police from the police station arrived urgently and took Huang Kang back to the police station, while the two elderly people were rushed to the hospital for examination.
In the police station, Huang Kang did not show a trace of remorse, but justifiably defended to everyone: Even if it is a grandmother, she can't do anything to him because of her age. No matter who he is, as long as he dares to make a move, he will fight back mercilessly.
At the same time, Huang Kang's father rushed to hear the news, but he did not blame his son for taking action against his grandmother. On the contrary, he calmly explained: Huang Kang's actions were not for no reason, but for a reason.
It turned out that not only Wang Xiaoling came to Huang Kang's house alone that day, but also brought Yao Yun, that is, Wang Xiaoling's current husband, and the two have been married for more than three years.
Huang Kang did not diswelcome Wang Xiaoling's visit, but insisted on kicking Yao Yun out of his home. In the face of Huang Kang's tough position, Wang Xiaoling refused to compromise, and the two had a fierce quarrel, which eventually led to Huang Kang angrily throwing out the two people's belongings.
has been receiving the certificate for three years, why is Huang Kang so disgusted with Yao Yun?Is it out of concern about the burden of life, or is there something else hidden?There seems to be a deeper reason for all this.
Yao Yun insisted that his financial situation is quite good, and his children will support him throughout the whole process, and there is no need for Huang Kang to bear any responsibility for him.
It all started three years ago, when Wang Xiaoling lived alone in an apartment for the elderly, spending every holiday alone, and her daughter and grandson hardly came to visit her.
Feeling extremely lonely, she decided to spend her old age in a nunnery. As she was about to embark on this decision, she became acquainted with Yao Yun, whose wife had been dead for many years, and the two decided to spend their old age together and take care of each other.
However, Yao Yun's children objected to this decision, fearing that Wang Xiaoling had only come for Yao Yun's property, and in order to reassure the children, Yao Yun gave the property and real estate to the children.
The children agreed to be together, and Yao Yun's children would pick up the two old people to go back for dinner during the holidays.
Although Yao Yun lost his property, he and Wang Xiaoling had a total pension of more than 6,000 per month, so they decided to buy a second-hand house and register it in Wang Xiaoling's name.
The two have their own place to live, supported by a monthly pension, and are completely self-sufficient, and will definitely not increase the burden on their children, however, Huang Kang has always been unable to accept it.
Every time he saw Wang Xiaoling, Huang Kang always said sarcastically: You are so old, how many times do you have to get married?How many mates do you get?
Huang Kang insisted that as long as he didn't bring Yao Yun back to his house, he didn't care who his grandmother married to. Moreover, he also claimed: The reason for all this is all instigated by Wang Meihua in the middle.
Looking at Huang Kang's expression, everyone was surprised: he was so hostile to his mother, which was quite puzzling. Since he is dissatisfied with his grandmother, how can his attitude towards his mother be different?
Soon after, Huang Kang's father revealed the truth of the matter to everyone.
It turned out that nine years ago, Huang Kang's parents Wang Meihua and Huang Kang's father embarked on the road to divorce. The reason is that Wang Meihua met a young boyfriend outside, a little white face who is considered to be worthy of the name. However, the boyfriend did not have much wealth, which caused Wang Meihua to be unable to give Huang Kang enough support financially, which caused Huang Kang's dissatisfaction.
Last year, Wang Meihua finally married this young man, but it is a pity that she only gave birth to a son for Huang Kang. Faced with the problem of pension in the future, she pinned her hopes on Huang Kang, but was resolutely rejected by her son: "I won't care about you when you are old, and it has nothing to do with me if you die." ”
In order to fight for Huang Kang's maintenance responsibility in the future, and in order to improve the relationship with her son, Wang Meihua took the initiative to use Wang Xiaoling's funds to purchase real estate and vehicles for Huang Kang.
Huang Kang even broke the news: "The 1 million money was actually only 430,000, and the remaining 570,000 was all used by Wang Meihua, but now this account is all counted on my head, let me repay it alone." ”
Hearing her son's accusation, Wang Meihua angrily explained to everyone: "Huang Kang's change is entirely his father's responsibility. As the saying goes, 'the son does not teach the father's fault', which means that the son's bad education is the father's fault and has nothing to do with me. As a mother, I am only responsible for feeding my son, and as for education, it is Huang Kang's father's responsibility. ”
Huang Kang's father resolutely retorted: Huang Kang's current situation is completely affected by Wang Meihua's affair. The two began to argue in front of everyone, passing the buck to each other, and the scene was chaotic for a while.
Huang Kang reluctantly expressed his current financial predicament, and expressed his willingness to go out to work and try to pay back part of it to his grandmother every month.
However, Wang Xiaoling resolutely refused this, because she was not at ease with Huang Kang's words. As a result, Huang Kang offered to transfer the 180,000 shares he owned in the Internet café to his grandmother as a form of repayment.
Ms. Wang still flatly refused, believing that she was too old to wait for her monthly repayments and that she knew nothing about Internet café shares.
At the moment, her only hope is that Huang Kang can repay the arrears as soon as possible, because she is not young and her physical condition is not optimistic, and she is in urgent need of funds. However, Huang Kang fell into financial difficulties and was unable to repay the loan.
In the end, Wang Xiaoling had to apply for enforcement, however, Huang Kang did not have any property in his name, which made the issue deadlocked, and no other solution could be found.
Huang Kang's indifference and ruthlessness towards his family is not only due to his personal problems, but also deeply influenced by his original family.
Huang Kang's father Wang Meihua and Huang Kang's marriage has always been discordant, and they often quarrel over trivial matters, all of which are deeply imprinted in Huang Kang's memory. What's even more troubling is that Wang Meihua found a new boyfriend, and Huang Kang's father also started a new relationship.
Huang Kang's grandmother, Wang Xiaoling, has also experienced many failed marriages. This series of family backgrounds allowed Huang Kang to experience two divorces without good family guidance.
Eventually, perhaps because of these unstable family relationships, Huang Kang developed a habit of indifference to his relatives. Perhaps out of distrust of life, Huang Kang even believes that he is the most reliable to keep his property in old age, and is reluctant to hand it over to others. This may be the reason why he shows a ruthless side in his relationship and family.
Overall, Huang Kang's personal behavior is not only related to his own problems, but also deeply influenced by his family of origin. The complexity of this family background became the complex psychological basis for his treatment of relatives and feelings.