Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge In family relationships, the relationship between parents and siblings is not only a blood relationship, but also an emotional bond that influences and relates to each other. However, in real life, we often hear some people complaining about their parents' partiality and thinking that they are being treated unfairly. Such complaints often stem from the individual's subjective feelings and cognitive biases.
In fact, each family has its own unique way of life and principles. In the process of raising children, parents may have different ways of treating them differently for various reasons. But this does not mean that parents are biased or unfair about a particular child, but only that decisions are made based on their personal experiences and values.
As children, it is our responsibility to be filial to our parents and to respect their decisions and choices. If we always think that our parents are unfair, then this mentality will only lead us into endless troubles and entanglements. On the contrary, if we can look at this issue with an understanding and inclusive mindset, then we will be able to get along better with our families and enjoy the warmth and happiness of family.
All encounters between people are karmic and conjunctive. There is no reason to gather, no debt does not come, it is the relationship between debt and repayment, repayment of gratitude and resentment, which is also a kind of causal cycle. If we always complain about our own losses or think that others owe us, then this mentality will only lead us into negative energy and endless contradictions.
When our parents bring us into this world and raise us, they have fulfilled their responsibilities and obligations as parents. The nurturing grace of our parents is as great as a mountain, and we only have the obligation to repay the kindness, and we cannot ask too much of our parents. As for how the parents' property is to be distributed, to whom it is or not to whom, they have the right to make their own decisions, and the children have no right to interfere.
When parents are alive, children should not worry about their possessionsWhen a parent dies, children should not fight over their parents' inheritance. Relatives should live in harmony with each other, communicate with each other in a friendly manner, and resolve family problems through consultation. Fighting for the property of parents is a great disrespect and filial piety to the elderly.
Even if his parents are really partial and favor one of his siblings, it is because he has this causal relationship with his parents, and his parents owe him. Don't complain about your parents' partiality, and don't be jealous of your siblings' favor, because everyone has different causes and effects with their parents. Some children owe to their parents, and some parents owe their children, each with its own cause.
Therefore, as children, it is good to do their own duty and fulfill their filial piety. You shouldn't fight, let alone rob, in fact, even if your parents' property is in your hands, it's not necessarily a good thing, it's better to go with the flow and be at peace with what happens.
Some things are seen and understood, even if they are reasonable, they will no longer care, no longer calculate, and no longer fight each other. The gas is smooth, the family is peaceful, and nothing is a problem.
Thanksgiving for reading, thanksgiving for attention, and thanksgiving for you!May the children of the world know filial piety, may the parents of the world be safe, may the family be peaceful, and may everyone be happy!
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