[Summary of the Facts].
I believe that as you grow older, you will gradually begin to be urged to marry by your family! The traditional concept of marrying a child is the top priority for young men, and for older young men, not being able to find a suitable marriage partner will bring great trouble to their lives.
The generation of a one-day bridal service.
In this era, marriage is no longer a must for everyone, but in some remote mountain villages, these conservative customs and Xi are still deeply rooted. So, in order to meet these social needs, the one-day bride came into being.
The one-day bride refers to those older young men who have not been able to find a suitable marriage partner, through the help and consumption of the matchmaker, find a young woman at the marriage ceremony to help them complete the ceremony, and after the marriage is completed, the two go their separate ways and never contact again, and this marriage is only to meet the marriage needs of the man and the traditional thinking within the family.
In fact, these matchmakers and brides are not free, after all, who wants to help you serve for free? Due to this demand now, there is even a team operation between them, and this kind of drama wedding is actually only for **, ** is negotiated, everything is easy to say, the main difference is whether to stay overnight or not.
Traditional Xi in remote mountain villages.
Our protagonist, our old Zhang, has worked diligently for many years in this small mountain village, and now he is almost sixty years old, but he still has not married a daughter-in-law, and in their local Xi, people who have not married a daughter-in-law are not allowed to enter the ancestral grave.
In their small village, most of the old people say the rule that has been passed down since ancient times, that is, only those who have a family can enter the ancestral tomb, simply put, only those who have married a daughter-in-law can enter the ancestral tomb to see the ancestor after a hundred years.
Whenever he said this, Lao Zhang always shed tears, he grew up in a poor family, at that time food and clothing were very problematic, the family of three barely survived on a few acres of land, and lived a very tight life. In this way, Lao Zhang's parents still pulled him from a child to grow up.
As he grew older, Lao Zhang was not busy with getting married, but followed his father to work in the fields, he wanted to contribute his own strength to the family, and also wanted to help his father to reduce the burden of the family.
Lao Zhang always believed that he would definitely find a woman who was willing to run the family with him, but because Lao Zhang's family was poor, no one was willing to marry his daughter to him, and everyone didn't want their daughter to suffer hardship, plus there were few people in the village, and the young girls wanted to marry in the city and live a better life.
Lao Zhang looked at his parents' rickety bodies, he thought that his parents' greatest wish was that he could find a daughter-in-law who could work hard to run the family, which was also Lao Zhang's greatest wish, but his wish seemed to have become so distant, over the years, every time he wanted to let go of his worries about these, his old parents and empty house would always make him feel guilty.
One day bride, fake marriage.
So, when he confided in the old man, he learned about the new service of the one-day bride, and looking at the old man's colorful description, his lonely heart for many years seemed to be moved, and he began to consider whether he should find a one-day bride.
Finally under the recommendation of the old man, Lao Zhang met the matchmaker, who was also looking for a bride for him, from the mouth of the matchmaker, Lao Zhang learned that it only takes 5,000 yuan to complete the wedding process, and if you spend the night, you will have to pay 7,000 yuan, Lao Zhang thought that he had been a bachelor for so many years, because there was no daughter-in-law, his parents and himself were discriminated against by the people in the village.
So Lao Zhang decided to experience the joy and romance of a wedding, and in order to prove to the villagers that he could also enter the ancestral grave after death, he signed an agreement of 7,000 yuan with the matchmaker and selected the date.
Although this is not a real marriage, it satisfies Lao Zhang's thirst for marriage from a certain angle, and once the one-day bride service is launched, countless older young men come to consult, more or less because of satisfying their empty inner needs, but also to change their fate of not being able to enter the ancestral grave after a hundred years.
Case Analysis] The wedding held by Lao Zhang and the bride did not constitute a real marital relationship, they only held a wedding between them, and did not register the wedding in accordance with specific procedures, and according to national law, the legitimate rights and interests between them could not be protected.
According to the provisions of the Contract Law, the validity of the contract must be true, not in violation of the provisions of the law, and not in violation of public order and good customs.
In this case, we can learn that a simple wedding ceremony will be charged 5,000 yuan for not staying overnight, and 7,000 yuan for staying overnight, and obviously the extra 2,000 yuan is prostitution.
According to the provisions of China's Public Security Administration Punishment Law, ** refers to the use of money and sex as the object of the transaction, by paying a certain amount of money to have sex with an unspecified number of people, and in this case, the bride took advantage of the idea of an older and single male young man who wanted to get married, and negotiated ** through a matchmaker to carry out ** behavior.
In our country, the punishment of ** behavior is not in the criminal law to make detailed provisions, this kind of behavior seriously affects the social public order and good customs, is not accepted by the society, according to the relevant results, determined to be the first behavior, matchmaker and bride will be subject to the corresponding fines and detention.
Conclusion] As an important embodiment of Chinese culture and history, feudal traditional culture contains many very important traditions and Xi customs, but with the progress and development of society, we must learn Xi and inherit the excellent virtues, as for some bad Xi customs that conflict with the moral values of the new era, we must learn to abandon and adhere to the core values of socialism.
In short, fake marriage is an immoral behavior, and in the face of this immoral and unethical behavior that violates public order, we must learn to say no, and at the same time, we must also call on the relevant agencies to crack down on and arrest *** behavior.