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For most people, siblings are one of the closest loved ones in life, apart from their parents. Although they grew up together, when they became adults, each would leave their parents and start their own families, and the trajectories of their lives would be separated. Some people live very happily, while others have a bad fate. However, people with a good destiny usually have two characteristics, which are not superstitions, but real phenomena. So, what exactly is causing this?First of all, these people usually love to learn Xi. As the saying goes, "Live to be old, learn to be old." "Only by constantly learning Xi can a person achieve great things.
Those who succeed usually have a good Xi habit of sticking to their Xi. In the past, it was generally believed that learning Xi was not necessary for life, and that when you reach a certain age, you should go out and work;Either inherit the family business and live on the wealth accumulated by the family. However, times have changed, and people have begun to place more emphasis on education. Since childhood, I have begun to send my children to make-up Xi classes, learn Xi painting and **, for fear that the child will lose behind others at the starting line. However, some people read books for the sake of reading, and this life can become boring and they cannot grasp the essence of learning Xi. In fact, most students study books just to pass their exams.
Once the exam is over, the knowledge in the books is forgotten, or what has been learned is nowhere to be used, and over time it is forgotten. Therefore, the learning Xi we advocate is not limited to book knowledge at the stage of compulsory education. These things are often learned to inspire people to think, and there is not much real theoretical knowledge, and it can even be said that it is superficial. Even if the book knowledge is studied thoroughly, it is actually only a superficial understanding of knowledge. The really good people usually read a wide range of books, from astronomy to geography. Some people think that this is because they are smart in their own right, but in reality, this statement is not accurate.
There are no inherently intelligent people in the world, and intelligence is gradually accumulated through acquired learning Xi. Second, these people usually have strong interpersonal and communication skills. They are sociable and can quickly integrate into different groups and get resources and information from them. In today's society, the network of relationships between people often determines whether a person can grow and develop smoothly. People with good interpersonal relationships are usually more likely to receive help and support from others. However, it takes effort and time to maintain relationships, and not everyone is good at it.
As a result, building and maintaining relationships can be a challenge for some people. However, if you can overcome this challenge and be proactive in developing relationships, it will add a lot of help to your personal growth and development. In general, people who have a good destiny usually have a heart that constantly learns Xi and constantly hone their interpersonal skills. This mindset and ability is the key to success and the foundation for cementing one's destiny. Therefore, it is advisable to maintain the mentality of learning Xi at all times in your daily life, and communicate with others at the same time, so that you can not only improve yourself, but also get more resources and support.
This begs the question: what do you think you are lacking in learning Xi and interpersonal communication, and how can you improve your abilities in these two areas in the future?In today's society, people's hearts have become impetuous and restless, and their desires have expanded infinitely. They can take out their phones and computers to spend most of the morning, but it is harder than climbing to the sky to make them study Xi with peace of mind. Although they know the importance of learning Xi, they find it difficult to control themselves and learn Xi quietly. Lu Xun was extremely fond of learning Xi in his childhood, and many people thought that he had an innate talent, quick thinking, and never forgot to learn Xi things. However, these have nothing to do with talent.
The reason why Lu Xun became a talent, on the one hand, is because of his wealthy family, and on the other hand, because of his hard work. While other children of the same age were playing in the village, Lu Xun was diligent in his studies, so he was loved by his teachers since he was a child. Lu Xun was born in September 1881 in a poor family of scholars and doctors in Duchangfangkou, Shaoxing. Although the family background is average, it is relatively wealthy compared to most people. When he was in school, he was sent by his family to a famous local private school, and the tuition fees were prohibitive. However, few people understand that Lu Xun developed the Xi of reading at a very young age.
Before he stepped into the school, he already loved to buy, read, and copy books, in short, he can be described as "loving books as life". Always hold a book before going to bed at night and cherish it like a treasure. It's not hard to understand when you think about it, after all, in those days, there was no Internet in the world, let alone modern smartphones. To kill time, you can only play kickball and mahjong outdoors. However, these activities require the number of people and the venue, and they cannot be carried out arbitrarily. As a result, reading became a pastime at the time. Learning Xi just need a quiet and comfortable environment. In those days, any book could be bought as long as there was money.
Therefore, Lu Xun regarded learning Xi as a kind of entertainment and enjoyed the process of acquiring knowledge very much. For Lu Xun, books are a very precious resource, and not everyone has the opportunity to learn Xi. Was Lu Xun's love for learning Xi innate when he was a child?Not really. The reason why he was able to work so hard was not so much because of his talent, but because of his acquired efforts and the cultivation of the environment. This gives us a revelation that learning Xi is not about origin, but more about one's own diligence and perseverance. In today's information, we should cherish the opportunity to learn Xi, grasp every moment and make ourselves better.
Summary at the end: Lu Xun's story tells us that excellence is not related to origin, but more depends on one's own diligence and perseverance. In today's information overloaded society, cherish the opportunity to learn Xi and strive to grow in order to stand out from the fierce competition. Question Guidance: How do you think people can cultivate their diligence and perseverance more effectively in today's society?Mr. Lu Xun began his first private school Xi at the age of 12. There is a plaque hanging at the entrance of the private school, which reads "Sanmi Study". He always meticulously wipes down the table, so that the table top is so smooth that it can almost reflect the human figure.
He did this because he cherished books so much that he didn't want them to be stained with dust. Once, he saw a beautifully illustrated "Classic of Mountains and Seas" on the teacher's desk, the pattern in the book was very exaggerated, with a human-faced beast body and a nine-headed monster, which aroused Lu Xun's great interest. However, the teacher at that time often physically punished the students, and the students were afraid of him, so Lu Xun did not have the courage to borrow it from the teacher. But this book has always haunted Lu Xun's heart, and he even told the elders in his family about it. There was a nanny in their family, and Lu Xun called her "eldest mother".
Although the eldest mother was illiterate, she inquired about the book through various channels and finally bought it back. Lu Xun was very excited after getting this book, stayed awake all night, lit the lamp and read it all night. As he grew older, Lu Xun also had the ability to support himself and was more willing to spend money on books. Especially after studying in Europe, he always went to the bookstore with enthusiasm to buy books. Many books were obscure at the time, and there was no Chinese translation, so they could only rely on bit by bit groping. This is impossible for ordinary people, but Lu Xun did it. Amazingly, Lu Xun was able to speak five languages, including German, English, Japanese, Chinese, and Russian.
Imagine that Mr. Lu Xun was born at the end of the Qing Dynasty, and it is incredible that he could master so many languages in that era of backward educational conditions. Lu Xun's family background is quite special, as we all know, Lu Xun is just a pen name, his eldest brother Zhou Xiang, Zhou Jianren, sister Zhou Jie, Zhou Qian have completely different fates, but the only thing in common is that they all insisted on learning Xi. This shows that people with good fate are not born this way, but they themselves choose a determined path to learn Xi. Through the story of Mr. Lu Xun, we can understand the value and significance of learning Xi more deeply.
No matter what the situation, as long as you have enough determination and perseverance, you can create your own future. As the editor-in-chief of the article for ten years, I feel honored to be able to share this story with you. The significance of learning Xi is multifaceted, it is not only to acquire knowledge, but also to improve personal quality, expand horizons, and enhance adaptability. Learning Xi enables people to understand the world more comprehensively, more deeply, and more keenly perceive the future. Finally, I would like to ask you: In your opinion, what is the meaning of learning Xi?Feel free to leave a comment to share your thoughts. During the Western Han Dynasty, there was a scholar named Kuang Heng.
Unlike Mr. Lu Xun, he was born in a poor family, and his family was not wealthy, so he could not afford to buy candles, and he could not continue to study Xi at night. To solve this dilemma, he came up with a solution: he used a chisel to make a small hole in the wall, through which he was able to borrow the lamp of the neighbor's house and continue his learning with a faint light. Kuang Heng later became the most influential intellectual of his time, and was highly regarded by the imperial court and the Son of Heaven. These stories show that consistent Xi can change fate. In addition, an optimistic attitude and a positive outlook on life are also one of the characteristics of Kuang Heng.
Optimism seems to have a magical power that always defuses the harsh environment around it and turns setbacks into motivation to move forward. We can find that some people are always smiling, and even in the face of unemployment or investment failure, they can encourage themselves with "tomorrow will be better". This positive and optimistic mindset is something that most of today's people don't have, but it has the power to change lives. Someone has done a special survey and found that those who have achieved great things always have a positive and optimistic attitude, even if they encounter blows and setbacks, they can face them with a smile. In this complex and ever-changing world, we should work together to move forward with optimism and create a better life with a positive attitude.
Remember, the real destiny is in your hands.
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