Today I'm not here to tell you how to recover, as far as many people I have met in actual cases are concerned, it is really not suitable to recover.
Sometimes the other party is not worth it, you just let go bravely, and you will find that your life can also be very exciting, and there is no need to live so gloomy for a person.
I've talked to you before, if you forget a person, you can choose a new love, but a new love is not something that can be picked up anywhere, you may still have to face a person for a long time, so what should I do?
I'm going to give you a few suggestions that I hope can help you:
But let me state firstWe have now abandoned the idea of redemption and simply let everyone go completely
The first one is to go to your ex;
I see that many people's ** say that you keep pestering your ex, and then you are desperate again and again, and you will finally let go.
If you can accept this method, you can be confident that you can withstand this pain.
You can also keep thinking about the beauty of your relationship, and then you will face more pain, and you will become numb.
These methods are all feasible, but I think these are nonsense, because a normal person who redeems himself is in such a state, and many people are already crazy about it. In the end, it is not because these methods are good, but when the time comes, it will naturally be put down.
Actually, I want you to go to your ex while you improveBecause if you go to find your ex while you are promoted, although the result may also be a failure, but you at least have the possibility of **, if you hit the bottom directly**, you have achieved your wish, you can be happy, you don't care whether you let go or not.
You just think that I want to get better, and then when you are sad, you go to your ex, you get hurt and you go to improve yourself, you can play ball, read books, travel skills, it's much better than you grieve alone.
The second is to keep thinking about the other person's badness
Many people will bring a halo to their ex after a breakup, because what you can't get is always the best, but if you always think of bad things when you think of each other, the result may be different.
Here I tell you, when you think about the bad things about your ex, you don't just look at the facts, you can also deceive your brains and weave some bad content.
Another point here is that you try not to think about how bad your ex is to youYou have to think about the bad of your predecessor from the root, that is, to deny the other party from the aspect of character and character.
Because some people will have such a situation, thinking of how bad their ex used to be to me, and then they just didn't love me, and then they have to rush over to confront their ex and other behaviors, and then turn around and feel sad about themselves.
The third is to raise your awareness
Improving cognition is to think more about the nature of love and other issues, in fact, many people are blind in love, because no one has taught you what love is.
Breaking up is actually equivalent to cutting off the investment halfway, and you lose all your money, so you are always thinking about how to get back your money, and if you really study it carefully, most of you will not think that the other party is very suitable.
Because the facts have also been provenAs long as the time comes, many people will slowly let go, and they will not feel that the person is really worth it, and they will keep moving forward.
When you improve your cognition and you really understand what you want, you will not be easily sad, and you will easily let go of someone who does not belong to you.
In love